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I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
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talk to him about going a step further in the relationship .. or one day when hes hold you, just ask him out .. make the first move .. guys are shy a lot, and dont know how to communicate with the oppositte sex *
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Well, I like this guy and one of my "friends" told him, but she said she didnt. I heard from about 6 people that she did but she keeps lying to my face about it. I'm not even mad that she told him just that she lyed to me. I even told her that I thought someone said they heard her telling him and she said "Well obviously this person doesnt want us to be friends if they're telling you this." What should I do? (link)
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it shouldnt matter if she told him or not .. the best thing to do is trust her, but have you tried asking the guy if she told him that you liked him ?
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i've never met him in reality before, but over msn we talk like long lost pals, me and him click alot and its amazing how we have so much in common. recently i found out that he actually likes me, but the problem is i dun feel the same way about him! i only treat him like a brother.. i've talked to him about it already, but the problem is how awkward the situation is currently. he isnt really talking much to me anymore and he doesnt initiate, he waits for me to ask first, etc. he wasnt like that before.. i don't know what to do now.. help me please (link)
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talk to him, and explain to him that you love him to death, and you hate how he doesnt talk to you the way he used to.
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I'm 14 and going into high school this school year. I have been friends with this girl lets just call her Liss since...the end of 6th grade. We became best friends ever in 7th grade and then everything with her other friends went downhill from there. They all hate me and some have now threatened to kill me. I'm not scared, that has nothing to do with this but i'm making a point. I thinks he thinks she can't like me anymore cuz this has been going on awhile and she doesn't wanna get into trouble with her other friends when they do the same thing to her as me. COnfusing i know. Lately, she's been making exscuses not to hang out, she adds me in her profile if i ask her cuz thats how her pro works but she takes me out the next day and never puts me back in. I've told her this bothers me and she always makes up some dumbass exscuse like I had to take someone out there wasnt room. And i'm like i'm ur best friend take someone who isnt. I never said that but i sure did think it. The point is...i think her and i are starting to stop being friends and i dont want to. She's a wonderful person and one of my best friends and i don't wanna lose her to the people who she *THINKS* are her friends. They do seriously threaten to beat and kill me and her..but they are cowards and dont even have the guts to look me in the eye. They wont hurt us no matter what they say but i think she might be scared and stop being my friend just cuz of them. Help me..i'm all confused! (link)
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talk to her, be like what is going on with you? i ahve been there for you, more than anyone else. if there was ever a side needed to be taken, you know i would have your back deffinately, no matter what anyone else said. who cares what they think, they dont run my life,a dn they sure as hell dont run yours.
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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!
Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
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no, you shouldnt tell cora. jarrod is just mad because you threatened to break a promise to him. just tell him that you only said that because you thought that it would be best if he told her, because you never know, cuz something could happen between them two.
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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.
I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
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you hsould tell her. just be like hunn, i dont mean this in a mean way, but you gained a couple of pounds.
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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!! (link)
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shoot her in da face.
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ok... Me and my Ex-boyfriend Drew Broke up a while ago and he said he still liked me kinda and now he is going out with one of my old friends. I really want to still be friends with him and he is going to my school and I have lunch and homerome i think with him. But his girlfriend is going to another school! There is no way I can deal with that pressure... So I guess I am kinda askin 2 ?'s. How do I get my feeling out of the way? and how do I get him to be able to be my friend? Thanks! :( :)
.:*Erika*:. (link)
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it is possible for you two to still be friends. jsut explain to him how you feel, adn that you do still want to be friends with him.
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A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
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just stand up for her. if you hear people snickering about it in the hallways, just be like "you dont know her, and atleast she is strong enough and brave enough to come to school everyday and want to do something with her life"
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ok well tonight me and a close friend got into a fight. well you see we were talking on the internet and he started saying all this shit. and it was really pissing me off. and he lied to me to about his friends not being at his house. and now i dont want to talk to him cuz of something he said that really made me bad. and now hes all like well im sry its just that i was caught up in the moment and everything. and that hes there if he wants to talk. but i dont want to talk to him. cuz he said somethings that really pissed me off....what should i do?!?!..i have always forgiven him and been friends with him...and now its like...hes always or just wants to piss me off....help....
P.S.i rate good (link)
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i think its like one of those "youve always been there and fogiven me before, so lets see how far i can push you cuz i know you will forgive me". if it comes down to it, talk to him, and tell him how you feel, and it doesnt matter if he was caught in the moment or not, because he still shouldnt be trashing you like that, especially online. its like seriously, grow some ballz and if you get caught in the moment again, say it to my face, and then lets see what happens.
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