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Well, I like this guy and one of my "friends" told him, but she said she didnt. I heard from about 6 people that she did but she keeps lying to my face about it. I'm not even mad that she told him just that she lyed to me. I even told her that I thought someone said they heard her telling him and she said "Well obviously this person doesnt want us to be friends if they're telling you this." What should I do?
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it shouldnt matter if she told him or not .. the best thing to do is trust her, but have you tried asking the guy if she told him that you liked him ?
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Well, if it doesn't matter to you wether she told him or not, I think you'd best forget about the whole thing, and just be a bit more careful when it comes to trusting her. Obviously it means something to her that you think she didn't tell him, wether she did or not.
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I would just let it go! that shouldnt mess up your friendship with her! just tell her " I believe you when you say you didnt tell him" "But if you are lying i rather you tell me the truth next time! " i wont get madd"! hope i helped! Good luck with your friend!
---->> x0x Kayla
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Well, if this is the first time you've had such an experience with this 'questionable' friend, I might choose to let it go and give her another chance, if I really like her friendship. If this isn't the first time she's betrayed my trust in her as a friend, I'd probably have to let her go and move on and find a better friend with more integrity.
In life, many choices are available to us each and every day. That's why earth is seen as the kingdom of free will and choice. But look around you and you see how many of us humans misuse that power, the power of choice. Sooooo, think it through and if while you're considering all your options with this friend, it doesn't bring you alot of joy thinking about her and how she chooses to use her choice, then I'd back off and out of the experience.
Anymore, and at the age of 61, if it doesn't bring me joy, I ain't gonna do it.... I wish to fully 'in'joy each and every day and that is about making the 'higher' choices!!!!!
Choose joy, I don't believe you'll be sorry!
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