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Hey I'm Sarah! I'm a freshman in high school and lovin it:) I like hangin out with my friends, playing field hockey, swimming, running, dancing, the beach, listening to music, and ya...pretty much everything! So leave ur questions here and I'll try my best to answer them. sorry in advance if i can't answer all ur questions, life gets a little busy sometimes. lata taters;)
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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say?
Ya, that's a good idea bc then she can't ignore you or anything. That's really sweet of you to still care for her! so if i were you i'd just tell her just what you said: that you dont hate her back and wish she wouldnt hate you and that you still care about her even though you aren't friends. just leave it at that & if she doesn't respond, then at least you tried and left your relationship on a little bit better note than it was before. and if she does, then that's great and props to you!:) Good luck!
~Sarah~
what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon!
If your friend really likes this guy, then there's prbly not much you can do, but it'll help if you and/or her friends and people she knows and trusts just talk to her about it. mayb she doen't realize what a jerk this guy is. don't be rude about it when you talk to her though, she might think you're jealous or something like that. Just talk to her & hopefully she'll listen. Good luck!
SaRaH:)
okay i think i may like a guy...the bad thing is he is a freshman and im a junior i know i said this to my self a thousand of times that i would never date a freshman but he is really nice, sweet, cute and all of the above things that guys could be...i mean what should i do...im really confuzed on this one can any one help me...
If you really like him and he really likes you, then I'd say go for it! Besides, when you really think about, it's only about 2-3 years age difference, which can be a lot in high school but it's not actaully that much. Even if some people like make fun of you for it or sumthin, you can get past that because if you love someone, that kinda stuff doesn't matter:) hope it goes well!
SaRaH:)
Hey ok well theres this dance comeing up and i really want to ask a friend of mine if he wants to go to it with me but, i cant dance, and i mean i dunno if he is a good dancer but even if he isnt i dotn want to make a fool out of myself. Also, i dunno, maybe it would be awkward if i asked him toit and he said no...cuz we are really good friends, i just want to go with him lol as friends.
1st off-no one "can't dance"-you don't have to be a professional hiphop dancer or something to dance at a school dance- the purpose is just to have fun, so just do that and don't worry about how you look, just don't go TOO crazy:) About your friend, ya most likely it'll be awkward when you ask him but at least you've got the courage to ask & hopefully he'll appreciate that! just tell him you want to go as friends and that's all. have fun!:)
SaRaH:)
okay...(i'm 14) i really like this guy that one of my friends use to like (she said she was over him) and when i told her she kind of got mad and said that she still likes him... is she doing this just b/c i like him? IDK!!! Help plz!
Those kinda things can be really confusing:/, I know how u feel. Your friend might be jealous of you because she thinks you have a better chance with him than she did. If it wasn't very long ago that she liked him then most likely she still has feelings for him because it's pretty hard to just STOP liking someone all of a sudden. you prbly know what it's like when 2 friends like the same person, so just think aobut what it's like to have your friend tell you that she really likes the guy you're trying so hard to get over. Just don't pressure her too much about and if you need anymore help write back! good luck!
SaRaH:)
well i have this friend that likes the same girl i do and me and that girl have been going out but i havint told my friend i dont know if i should or not lemme no as soon as possible.
I'd prbly tell your friend, because it's really likely that your friend will find out some way or another and then feel like you betrayed him by not telling him. Just try to not to brag about it when telling him. hopefully he'll respect you as a good friend for being honest and open with him! Good luck!
SaRaH:)