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ok um 15 yr old girl been giving advice for about 2 years but just found this site last year. hint I'm not good with does he like me probs.

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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me...

You actually need to be honest about this if your parents see you being honest and good and trust the guys parents they might actually say yes and besides if they catch you you are so beyond dead. and I'm typically a rebel child.

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Okay, I'm having this Halloween party and I don't know what to do, I told them to ware their costumes, and to bring some warm clothes incase it is cold, but I don't know what to do! There are going to boys and girls, along with my parents, little sis, and my boyfriend;) I don't know what we should do that would be fun for kids our age. We are all 13/14 and we want to just have fun, do you know what we could do? ( please don't make it expensive, my family doesn't have verymuch money right now.) thanks!

I did the same thing last year just throw on some old CDs and mabey a movie and provide some food and let the party flow on it's own. If you have any games or anything you can set that up to. One of my friends did a little bone scavenger hunt using construction paper at her party just let your parents do the hidding cause that girl also cheated.

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imdoing okay now..
i havent been hurting myself no more which is good i guess. but i have lots of friend problems. i just want a friend that is sooo close to me that we hang out alot and trust eachother and do like everything with. i don't know who my real friends are. i always start fights and stuff. i feel bad after. i always at least start everythingg...i had found a note about one of "my frends" and it said some stuff about her that two of herrr friends wrote and i thought she should know about it so i gave it to her and now her 2 friedns are mad at me and one of them is a guy that i kind of idk like and idk if he liked me but hes mad at me now-not wicked mad but kind of mad- and her other friend is just madd-she like hates me now and i feel so badd--the friend thinks i just gave her the note just to make her mad at her so she would like me better b/c we're not as close anymoroe or w/e. she told me, that me and the friend who the note was about aren't like frriends anymore and even i didn't notice that. It really hurt me and i just dont know what to do/think...my and my friend were soo close and i have tried 2 make us stay friends but i would never eliminate her friends so she would like me better.
what should i do??
sigh...

wow sounds like your friend needs to blow off some serious steam you did the right thing giving your friend the note and your friend is probably in denial back off and let her make her own decisions for a little bit and if your friend doesn't belive you after a while well... lets just say friends should trust each other and she should probably know what your handwriting looks like. But if you just want to avoid fights this one could have been avoided by throwing the note in the garbage and not reading it. (just for future refference if you want to use it)

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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks!

Yeah I have one of those friends too you need to talk to her and decide with her if it's ok that you go out with him and pay close attention to her facial expressions if she says she doesn't care but she looks hurt don't do it and talk to your guy friend about the problem eventually it will probably blow over and you and your guy friend can do what you want to from there.

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Well, i used to think i was popular, not really populer, like the snobby kind, but i had a lot of friends. Now, i feel like i have very few, and most of them get on my nerves alot and they get annoying really fast, and bug me ALOT, and i get mad at them alot too. When i make new friends, i start to like them better, cuz they dont seem as annoying, you know? Even my good friends make me want to scream at them because they seem so stupid, or just dont get it. wat should i do?

mabey you should tell your freinds your feelings in a nice calm way.or mabey try what I've been telling a lot of people to do you could meditate it does tend to calm you down. Also you could write in a journal, write a song, kick a ball, squeeze a stress ball, or even play with playdoh. In any case I think your friends should know about this and if it gets worse you may want to talk to your counsilor because the may know exactly what is happening and how to help solve the problem. Hope I helped.

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Ok, i met a boy online....THROUGH A FRIEND, lol dont worry! Yes, my friend knows him and i've been talking to him for a few days now, and i wanna meet him, but i'm not exactly the thinnest girl in the world (not fat really just not thin like a lot of boys like) and i am really scared to meet him, because i don't have confidence. what should i do? also, if i wanna call him, what are some good conversation starters? thanks!

don't worry about your weight If he's truly a good guy he won't be into that he should still be friendly towards you as for conversation starters you could talk to him the same way u do on the net without the net lingo of coarse

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I have not been going out with my boyfriend for very long.. We got 2 know each other and he asked me out and i said yes.. Than he was sent to boarding school in SC and but were both from NC.. He never really calls but sometimes he will and we talk about nothing i know he does drugs but the only one he says he does is weed... But all my friends and ppl tell me he does other stuff.. He came home like 3weekends ago and we really didnt talk or see each other cause he was " Fucked Up" and is annoying to be around cause he does not talk really.. I know his guy friends that he with do drugs.. But i really like him and he just soo sweet..and etc.. i have no idea what i should do.. should i break things off.. Or just deal with the fact that he does drugs and i cant do ne thing about it.. HELPME PLEASE
*Kristen*

don't deal with it but don't break up try to help him out show your affection he doesn't have to call you call him send him presents on the drugs thing try to talk him ou t of it send him photo's of what could happen to him and if you can get to his school councilor or his parents

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ok one of my friends ( well i thout she was my freind=( ) but she was my best friend 4 3 years and we never got in a fight and she got too be friends with another grl and we just sarted fighting i started doing drugs and now i cant stop and i have bin going throw so much right now and i just need too talk too her what should i do??

well talk to her as for the drug thing talk to your parents or start medditating if you don't know how you can contact me or you could alsolook for it if she still isn't being a very good friend you can find a new one even though it sounds hard if you do it you will end up a lot happier or you could hang out with ur friend and her new friend

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Hey Hunz! This is strawberriilova92!!

My neighbor not really a friend, but not an enemy, an aquantaince!! *Dev* has been cutting herself...and she always writes these horrid, absolutely, horrid, gruesome, poems about killing herself!! It really scares me because I've seen her cuts! And I have told her to get help, but she won't listen. Today at school she said she was gunna cut herself deep and not stop the bleeding so she can bleed to DEATH!! Or take a bottle of pills, or some other self-mutalating way to kill herself!! I'm really scared I've known her since I was in diapers..is there anyway I can stop her before it's too late?? Sorry about length!!

PS--SHE HAS NEVER CUT HERSELF DEEPLY

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ok I know you wrote to some one else but ....... ne way the easiest way is to talk to her about other things then sloly bring it up find her problem and find a way to get rid of it or at least not make it hurt so much it's ok to cry when doing this if she still won't listen call her parents or talk to a councilor and if you don't feel confortable you can always tell them not to mention your name show her you care and get some more people to help you.

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Everyone said I'm immature for my age. I don't think i'm THAT immature .. it's just like the way I act. I act the way I do to amuse people, and people think im like soo funny and everything .. I don't wanna stop being how I am because being funny is what I do, but I still want people to stop callen me immature.

What should I do? Please help!

Hey if your fine with who your are then that's all that matters but if you want to change things u can be funny without being immature like if ur one of the ppl who do that stuff in the middle of class or do whoppe cusions try telling a joke in the hall instead jokes can be just as funny as pranks

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