Ok, i met a boy online....THROUGH A FRIEND, lol dont worry! Yes, my friend knows him and i've been talking to him for a few days now, and i wanna meet him, but i'm not exactly the thinnest girl in the world (not fat really just not thin like a lot of boys like) and i am really scared to meet him, because i don't have confidence. what should i do? also, if i wanna call him, what are some good conversation starters? thanks!
LoViny0ux914 answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:53 pm: who cares! "too skinny" isnt in now! lol. alot of guys like "meat on the bones" haha and they find stick thin unnatractive -- thats SOME guys. and im sure ur b-e-a-utiful!!! lol! and you should have more confidence because if you feel good about yourslef others can sense that and they'll like you for it! just have confidence and have fun! dont think about what you look like bc if he doesnt like you for ur looks hes not worth it! if you call him good convo starters are anything about cars, sports, what you guys like to do for fun, what hes doing this weekend, blah blah blah! ask him what interests him and stuff! make it about him bc people love 2 talk about themselves and it'll show a genuine interest in him! have fun and BE CONFIDENT bc im sure ur great! x0x0x!!!!
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:52 pm: Hey girlie,
You should call him! If he likes talking to you online he's going to like you period. There is no need to worry. And if a guy doesn't like someone because they don't have a perfect figure and shes the sweetest girl in the world. That guy has major problems! Some conversation starters are "Hey, its so and so. The one from online." He talks and talks "what are you doing?" "What are you doing tonight?" You can also bring up some stuff you talked about with him online. "I wanna meet you.." stuff like that. Make him see that you care about him! :)
Hope I have helped, hun
much luv 143,
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 4:49 pm: Well, appearance shouldn't matter to a guy. If he doesn't like yuu for who yuu are, then he is not worth it. But on the phone, just talk to him like yuu normally do online. Don't worry, it would be fun! Hope ii helped!
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