Ok so, my b/f broke up with me 3months ago. Now that I am finally gettin over him, one of my guy friends likes me. He asked me to hangout on Sunday and I thought that he meant that we were gunna date(he was kinda jealous of my b/f at the time and wanted a chance with me). So we go to the movies and makeout and some touchy feely stuff. Afterwards, He tells me that he doesnt think me n him will work out, even though i like him and he likes me. He says that he likes another girl..but she cant date. Another one of his reasons was that he might move in a year. I felt soo bad..i felt used too. I thought that we were gunna go out. I dont know what to do cuz i really like him and have for a long time!! Please help!!
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Tuesday November 2 2004, 5:01 pm: Hey girlie,
Aw! I can imagine your really hurt now. But I hate to break it to you, if a guy hooks up with you and says "its not going to work out" he was using you. I personally think he doesn't like you for who you are. But please, still stay friends with him. Thats even worse than a relationship not working out. It also sounds like he's making excuses why he can't go out with you. A guy like that has issues. I don't know if your not liking the advice I'm giving now, but you have to remember Love blinds you. If you still want to make it work though tell him "Why don't you go out with me while you have the chance?" or "I don't want to be a second choice" If he refuses to not go out with you. Move on, sweetie. Don't waste your time :)
much luv 143,
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
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