well im from michigan and i was on and off with this guy from ohio. he was an amazing guy and he ment the world to me. but after many times geting back togheter and then breaking up i decided this all wasnt the heartache and i saved us both and broke up for good. we talk a little bit now and then but i wonder what he really thinks sometimes about us. i wish i knew his true feelings on everything about us...should i just ask him or should i let it go?
Wow deja-vu lol well if I was him the boy that you dated I would want you to talk to me, me being the boy that you dated. Ask him how he feels. Ask him how he feels about the two of you. Don’t just blow it off. I’m sure that he has tried to bring it up but then you try to blow it off by saying I have to go. Really listen to him! Talk to him of how you feel about the two of you. It sounds like you guys are not that close of friends anymore since you don’t talk that much anymore. Why don’t you talk to him anymore? He sounds like he meant a lot to you. So talk to him don’t blow him off. Be open! I'm sure he deserves that you tell him that I'm sure he has been there for you a lot even though not physically. Treat him with some respect. I'm sure whenever he gets the chance to talk to you he takes it. Get whatever burden that you have from him and get rid of it. So that’s what I would do. Try and talk to him as soon as you can. Best of luck.
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Sometimes my friends can be kind of embarassing! I don't know how to tell them, though! I tried to let them know , but they just got mad. I want to be nice. How can I tell them without hurting their feelings?!?!?!
Well if there really your friends they should not get mad at you. I would say can I talk to you then tell them do you promise not to get mad at me then say that you are kind of embarrassing and ask them to please stop. And hopefully they will stop. Thats the nicest way you can possibly do it. I'm sure they are just having fun. Just enjoy it but dont let them go over your limit. But have fun. I hope this helps!! Need anymore help I can help. I'm really good at love questions and relationship ones so just ask away. Thanks!!!!
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my best friend who i have gotten to kno this school year. has been geting into alot of trouble with her pranets lately and is now sexually active. she barely hangs out wit us at school cuz she is too busy making out with difrernt boys and we don't ever go out to like the movies cuz she is having sex with them (diferent boi per night)..my friends n i are debating if we should tel her off that she is a bad influence and our true feelings towards her but we don't know if thaT would be right to do...we are confused..help us out.
Well it sounds like you need to tell her off cause it sounds like she has no interest of being you friend anymore so I would tell her off and say whats got into you and I'm sure she will probably fill guilt. Well I hope this helps.
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okay. to start off, i'm a 15/f freshman in highschool. i have 2 best friends, we'll call them l and p... basically we're like a little group that does everything together and is never separated. i've been friends with p since like kindergarden and with l since about 4th grade. then in middle school we kinda distinguised ourselves as a little group. like you know how people make up a little name like car and say their names are carrie, ashley and rebecca or something... yeah that's what my friends and i made up with our names. so that's our little thing but anyway that's not the point...
the point is that now that we've started highschool, my friend p has started to, change? i mean obviously people are gonna change...idk. ok. me and l are pretty shy. p is shy too but not as much as us. p is doing sports all seasons and has made friends through that. l and i aren't doing any sports or clubs right now. well like i wanna do volleyball in the fall but that would be sophomore year... so yeah, i know i should do something but i think it's too late...
from thursday to tuesday, p went on a trip to florida with her band classes & like the marching band. l and i didn't go. (we don't do band) ok so anyway, basically every day she was texting and calling me. at first i didn't mind, but then l brought it up to me that she didn't text or call her at all. l was getting mad and talking soo much about p behind her back, i kinda just went along with it b/c i know if i was l i would feel the same way. k so at first i didn't mind hearing from p, but then she started becoming a little...idk, conceited? she was saying how she was hanging out with 11 guys, and some girls..including one guy who i kinda like, and of course she now has a crush on.
p finally texted l back after a while, and l had said something like, are you too cool now or did you fall off the face of the earth? (because she didnt hear from her) and p texted back like, yeah i am too cool now im hanging out with 11 guys hahaha jk. obviously a part of her wasn't kidding though.
and then like l gets all pissed and like i feel the same way but i know if i was in p's position i would probably be really ecstatic too. i really don't know what my question is but like, what should i do? i always get stuck in the middle of these things, and l always has to say something behind p's back whenever p does something she doesnt like. i understand l sometimes but most of the time i really don\'t wanna hear her talking about her. so what should i do? we're fine now in school and everything but i'm just sick of this.
plus i've know them forever and my shyness doesn't help. they are my only 2 friends i can be my true self around. i know i need to make new friends but. i wish i could start over freshman year =\ ok so i guess my question is, what should i do about my friends? should i say something to them about this? and also how can i break out of my shyness? thank you so much if you read all of this. i'm soo sorry about the length.
Don't worry about the length I have seen A LOT LONGER. Well anyways you should talk to your friends about your problem let them know how you feel and hopefully they will understand how you feel and they will if they are true friends. But the shyness thing ok well you need to open up more open up to more people talk to other people get to know them. I hope this helps if you have anymore questions leave me a message in my inbox or how bout you leave that message in this Columnist her screen name is chica_chick666 she is the best and can really help she does not turn down a question and can really help she is my girlfriend she is even listed on my colomn under favorite Columnists she is the only one on my list so give it a try. Hope that helps. Tell me how it goes.
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I have mass friends at school, but recently I come to find out, several of them are getting pregnant, and having kids. It's not like they are twenty or something. Otherwise, I wouldn't care because they're old enough (I think). They are ranging from 14 to 17 years old.
I find it seriously ridiculous that my friends are just having sex like it's nothing, and end up getting pregnant. In fact, a few of those people are Christians, and told me so many times they would never do that and it's pathetic. Months later, they find a guy, have sex with them, and they leave my friends. Later on coming to find out they are pregnant and have the kid.
If it was like 1 or 2 people, I would understand. But it's becoming an epidemic almost at my school. Approximately 10 girls are pregnant (whom are my friends), and another 5 had their kid within the last year.
Don't criticize me of my opinion though because I really can't help it. I am a Christian, I love my friends, I still pray for them, and support them. But I just get so mad thinking about it, like they basically ruined what was going for them. A friend of mine wanted to leave her house (family problems) and become a Vet. Now she got pregnant, and she is stuck there in poverty. Can't even afford a decent meal for her and her child, since her family is stuck on welfare and social security for paying for other things. Her boyfriend like left her, so there is very little for her and her son. She is battling for the father to pay for child support.
Please don't get me wrong to whoever has been in that situation of getting pregnant at an early age. I can see the struggle in it, and the effects, but seeing my friends make bad choices just angers me because I want them to have self-respect, and do something successful. I am quite prude, so don't judge me on that, and you can't blame me at some extent. I feel guilty for basically not trying to understand the reasons why it happened, and the circumstances. It's hard to understand.
So, my question is, how can I get over this?? I've been trying for a long time to get over it, but more people getting pregnant, so my anger comes back.
Please remember I am not here to judge, criticize, or offend anyone here, so don't take it personally. I just need advice, please. Thanks!
Well you cant linger on the mistakes other people has done you cave to forget about it and move on. It's sad to see Christian's do such a thing its really sad to see what the world has become and how the world acts. So my advice is to just forgive and forget you need to forget what you friends did and pray for them. You need to pray for them that this epidemic will stop and that the people will thing before they do something that serious. well I hope this helped. Need anymore help leave a message in my inbox or email me at christian_grg@hotmail.com. thanks
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basic thing is i know she is not interested in more than friendship and same is with me also...
i am somehow unable to understand her nature>>>
Hey I'm a little confused how bout you send me an email on a little detail and i will try to answer it as best as i can. my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com. thanks.
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i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th]] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! but valentines day is soon, and i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i even let him know i like him?
Well when you go out with him again you should ask him if he likes you then if sh says yes just say that I like you too or you can just tell him straight up and tell him. You are lucky you get to see your bf are whatever u call him my girlfriend lives in a different state and i don't get to spend Valentines Day with her well actually i kinda had my Valentines Day already I went to a dance with her and i had a great time with her and we Frenched so it was fun well i hope this helped even though i kinda told you to much lol about my life.
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I'm a freshman highschool girl and this year I've really grown up this year. You could say I've grown into my looks. I stand with the same group of people every morning before classes and every morning I get these little smiles from the guys. They also look at me then when i turn around to look at them they quickly look away and then say something and kinda point at me. Is this a good or bad thing? I think its good but I don't want to get my hopes up too high. So what are the guys saying/thinking? Boys answers would really help but girls should answer too.
Thanks in advance:]
It sounds like the guys do like you because when the look at you and then when you look at them they turn away real fast that is a sign that they like you. They probably talk about you a lot in a good way. Hope this helps.
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i am 19 male, i have this friend who is girl.. let me first make it clear that i am just interested in friendship with her...
i ll start from the beginning, about in the starting of this year at college, she joined our friend cirle..we were having no problems, and helped her in whatever way possible regarding her relation with her boyfriend. however she had a small fight with one of the friends.. she didnt feel comfortable being with us any more...she joined an another friend circle... now she continues to talk to me... she share her thoughts with me that she shares with no one else{atleast as far as i believe}... recently she broke up with her boy friend also at the same time her mother fell ill, she asked for my help and i helped her in whatever way possible...
but for past sometime i am feeling that she is only using me whenever she requires me... i wonder many a times that what is my importance in her life but dont know should i ask directly her or not?? what should i do?? should ask her and how should i ask her??? i really want to know about her feelings for me...
It sounds like this girl just needs someone to talk to because she is depressed because her mother is feeling ill and she does not know how to handle with it. And I think this girl can probably like you to because she is opening up to you I would just try to get to know her and just ask her out then when you go out ask her if she likes you then if she does she does and if she doesn't she doesn't but I'm sure she like you she sounds like she does like you cause girls usually talk to other girls about stuff there going through so I would just ask her out then ask her. I hope this helped. Tell me how it goes. If you have any other question you can leave a message in my inbox. Thanks!!
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theres this kid in my class that like sits across from me on a diff table (our tables face forward, and its two people per table) and like everyday if i glance at him or something, or he notices im there, he like grins at me or comes up to me and sings like a funny song, dances, or something. He's friendly and stuff, but what do I do back? All I do is smile.. or do I like bring up a conversation? ahh how do I do that without sounding like.. eager or just bad? lol Or sometimes he just stares at me for a long time smiling and im like "what?" and then he keeps staring... anything funny or witty or whatever that I should do back? Im not gonna stare at him back cuz that would look retarded. or is he making fun of me? i doubt it, though. also, im not attracted him in a lovey way. nothing against him.. but i just dont, XD. i'd rather be his friend, and i think its the same for him.
ok wat i think just because i am a guy and i do have a girlfriend i think this kid likes you to be honest with you thats his way of flirting with you i know you just want to be friends and thats ok but when he sings a song and dances in front of you just be nice thats really all you can do without embarrassing yourself in front of the whole school well yea thats his way of flirting with you. if this helped and i hoped it did and you need anymore help my email address is christian_grg@yahoo.com
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