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I am kinda siily, but thatz wat people lyk about me! I am kinda loud, but i am kinda smart. Isnt dat funny. Music is my boyfriend, and people say i am random, but i am concentrated sometimes. I lyk 2 speak spanish, because you can yell at people in spanish and it sounds so cool!I lyk dis guy in my skool, so i may dump music , you never know. And i am as cute as a button! Supoosedly...i am boy krazy, but i just think i am boy crazy. Oh yea i love to dance. I can dance for like ever. And i love pizza!I hope i help you with your problems! Enjoy! Oh yea, i love cartoons, especially donald duck as a baby.

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13/f

me and my bestfriends has been friends for a long time ! i would totally be a different person without her.. but for some odd reason.. she stopped talking to me, and i aimed her after i called her cause she didn't pick up.. and she never answered on aim. she was typing.. but she didn't enter anything, she js backspaced and didn't say anything.. then my older sister got mad and aimed her up saying why is she ignoring me and stuff.. but i told my sister that shes gonna get more mad.. so she said "don't tell mary that im aiming you, she doesn't know." and etc. finally when i commented her myspace.. i told her i was sorry for whatever i did that i got her mad at me.. and she put "............" and i said "are you mad?" and she said "should'nt you know if im mad or not?" and i said "okay, your mad.. can we talk about it?" and she said "i don't know HOW to talk about it." and i said "tell me what happened?" and she said she doesn't really wanna talk about it right now. idk what to do.. i didn't talk bad about her.. she treats me so well.. theres nothing bad to talk about.

my friend says that i should js give her some time and ask her again later.. and i told her when shes ready to talk about it.. aim me.. but she hasn't yet..

SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE !

Be patient. Giv it some time., It seems your friend is going through a hard time, and she will need some one to talk to , and that is you. SO when the time is right, she will spill. And she wont feel awkward, because you are willling to help. Snd let her know, that you will always be there for her, becasue she is your best friend too. :) Good luck!

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Okay,my friends mom has breast cancer for the second time.She is now on full time oxyegen. How can i help my friend cope with the fact that her mom might not survive? Please Help!!! She is very scared!!!

Well let her know that you will always be there for her, whenever she needs some one tot talk to. If you want to tell her, her mom would not want her crying over her, even though it is hard. You can tell her to think of all the great memories. And even if her mom does passs away, doesnt mean she is out of her life, she will alwyas take up a space in her heart. But keep hope! I hope she feels better. :\

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13/F

this GIRL likes me at my school.
how do i get her to leave me alone?

Ok, um...why dont you let her know(nicely) you arent interested, and your not like that. THat you feel uncomfortable, that she has a crush on you. But unless she is bothering you, dont be rude, be nice. Because be sensitive, wat if your crush said he felt uncomfortable that you liked him.But just tell her politely and you should be fine ! :) Good luck!

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Hi my name is Katie. I think my friend Brandi has a problem. She told me today that she got drunk yesterday and she cut herself with a razor all over her wrist and hand. I am really worried about her because she talks about all the time and I don't want her to do anything stupid. I think she might be doing it for attention but you can never be sure with because it is not something to toy with. I told her if she keeps cutting I will not talk to her anymore because I don't want to see her hurt like this. I love her alot but I don't want her to think I am okay with this. What should I do? I want to tell a school counsler but I don't want them to try to get help for her because she will know I was the one that told and I don't want her to me. Please help me with this problem. I want to be a good friend and help her but I don't know what to do.
thank you alot!
Katie

If you want to be a good friend you will tell some one your friend has a problem. She may be mad at you at first, but she will thank you in the long run, trust me. Friends look out for one another, no matter what! So, do your friend a favor, have her talk to some one, some thing good will come out of it! Good lukk!

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I have a real good friend who i hang out with and we come over to each other's houses and talk, you know, stuff like that. We both have P.E and when i try to hang out with her in that class, she never talks to me or anything and she seems annoyed by me sometimes. She is usually laying basketball with some other friends and when i ask her if i can play, all her friends including her say no. Ever since, she has been acting like she dosent like me that much. I know she is not embarresed with me around her when she is with her friends but i dont know what it is. When it's just us to, we laugh have a good time and just talk...now i have no clue whats going on. Can someone please help? thanks

You should talk to her about it, because it sounds like she isnt being a goodd friend. Tell her that you feel excluded, and hurt that she ignores you when she is with other friends making fun of you. She isnt a good friend if she does that. A good friend would hand with you no matter how you are, who your with, how you look or anything. A real friend loves you for you. You should be able to go up to her in ripped clothes, stinky, bad make up. bad hair, and she should still be there for you. If i was you, i would talk to her about it. I hope this helpz!

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Thanks for the advice.One problem...HE WON"T BREAK UP WITH HER!!Here she situation:The other girl{Kara} dumped him at the beginning of the grade to ask out his best friend,he said no.And Dakota was going out with my friend Amber who broke up with Dakota.So to make Amber want him back,he asked Kara out becase I was out{sick}.But he likes me.We know each other likes the other,oh,and he's my best friend.What do i do? please!I don't know what to do!

That was scarily complicated, but anyways...i would have you start talking to him, and flirt, and if you know he likes you just ask him out, but if you arent that forward have your friends talk to him about you, and hopefully he will gain the courage to ask you out! :)Good lukk!

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You gave some advice,i sent you something.I just remembered something he told me Thursday.Before my BEST friend Amanda and i went to my house,we were just hanging til my mom got there.Amanda was talking to Jok' {John} and i just watched as she chased him around.Dakota was right beside me.He saw my SPEACIAL necklace {if you want 2 no i'll tell you later} and aske what it was about.{tel you later}So i told him.And 4 NO reson,he just up and said,"You know,Amanda thinks i should go out with you." me being me i just reacted like 'OMG r you joking?!Me and you ,no.' Was he tring to tll me something? Amanda didn't tell me anything about that,and she ALWAYS tells me EVERYTHING.Can you help me?Plez???!!!?!?

you shud have said yes, because that usually means he is interested and he was looking for a way to ask you out, but teying to stay cool .Try to get another conversation started so you can say yes this time. Good lukk!
P.S- Dont worry, if anything he probly feelzbad, cuzit kinda soundz lyk you rejected him.

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