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My name is Lauren. My life dream is to become a pirate, as well as a witch straight outta Hogwarts! I believe I was born in the wrong place and the wrong time. I often beleive I belong in England. I wish I was british. :] I'm 15 years old, and I'm called weird. I'm a spunky and smashing teenager ready to answer your questions.
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ahh Stevens still in ISS... and so's Nick.
if you got my question like 2 nights ago it was about my friend Steven sticking up for me to Nick who caled me Butch because like all my friends are guys.. well today we had cooking and I got stuck wiht becky.. thank good DJ,JJ, and Nathen. Well im friends with Nathen.. and JJ was making jokes about how its a womens job to cook and all this sexist crap.. well then Cole joined and Nathen already hated this kid so they got in a talking arguement and as Nathen walked away he like said to me under his breath..
"Err I wished he'd die.. of cancer."
Well I tweaked on him because ive senn what cancer does to people and after a while there gone. like there bodys still on earth but anything else is gone.. and I screamed at him!
I was like WHAT! I was like noo even I cant stand Cole but never EVER would I wish death on anyone!! Expecially not cancer.." and he was like oo oo i didnt mean it like that.. I was you still said it! what is wrong with you.. have you seen what cancer does to people! and my Uncle passed away November 4th of last year and not a day goes by i dont think of him.. I love him and he lived 9 months after finding out he had cancer but maybe 6 months tops into it he was gone.. and i told him this.he was like ughh oo.. ee..
And i remember in the last question i said all my guy friends were just friends but I knew I did have feelings about Nathen.. and I never expected this from him HE KNEW about my Uncle but he still said it..
Well i started crying and actually ran to the ISS room to talk to Steven
Mrs Berry it was cool aslong as we were quite. Well I hugged him.. and basicly cried on his shoulder.. I told him everything about me liking him and how he said it and Stevens attitude changed completely.. first he was like ohh come here.. are you okay like completely friend.. next minete he stil cared but i could tell i hurt his feelings. And now im not sure about anything like does Steven like me??? I love Steven as a brother as a best friend as someone i can count on.. not a boyfriend. Well i had to leave and as I hugged Steven he was stiff..
I had PE afterwards and I have that class with Nathen and he just looked at me..
I dont want to be the person who cries alot of but at the moment that doesnt madder.. im gunna lose two of my good friends over something thats Nathens fault.. but i like Nathen i think because when he sai it i wanted to claw at him..
Explain to me why im feeling like ahhhhhhhhh
Well, you're feeling AHHHHHH because you're confused. You like Nathen, but your personal experience with your Uncle and what Nathen said interacted, which made you upset still. In order to make things right with him, I really think you should sit down with Nathen, and just be straight up like, 'I was really hurt by what you said, and I know you didn't mean it like that, but I need to know that you won't say something like that again.' And even if he does some other day, you have to understand that you're teenagers, and it's common for people to wish death upon people and not mean it, you know? I know it's hard to brush off, but it's something you have to learn to do.
As for Steven, don't worry about his feelings. Focus on yours and Nathen's right now. If Steven cuts himself off from you or starts acting strange, try and talk to him and ask him what you did, or what you can do to help him get over whatever it is he's going through. If he does like you, just tell him that he could find someone else and that you honestly just don't like him like that. If he is the brother best friend you're describing, he will understand and still be your friend. If he freaks out and decides you're not friends, he's not worth it.
Hope I helped!
Hi.
I hope someone can help me out...
I go back to school next wednesday and last year at school i felt a bit left out from my gruop of best friends (about 6 of us includeing me) and some times they don't talk to me. I got the impression that i was a bit boring. I don't know why, but i don't want to find out because i will be upset. I just would like to know if anyone has any ideas to make me a little more interesting? I am a little bit shy as well... if that helps you.
Please say anything. Because i woudl liek to try anything.
[= Thanks In Advance! =]
Well, you don't necessarily have to make yourself interesting. It's all about the shy factor. If you eliminate the shy factor, you're golden.
To do this, it's going to take time and effort. You'll have to practice confronting people you do not know to say 'hello', and interacting with lots of different groups, like the drama club, or sports. It helps a ton, I found.
And sometimes if your friends don't talk to you, talk to them! Don't hold back, just ask to make some plans and I'm sure it will all work out fine.
If they refuse to make plans with you, they weren't very good friends in the first place, were they?
I hope I helped!
hey i sent you an e-mail. did you get it?
ill look.
no jk, what's your screen name? i keep forgetting. my new one is RoxyLuvs2. i don't know what it means though. lol
my sn is lauren loserface
hey. um hopefully you'll get this soon. I have 2 new e-mails. wicked_witch0103@yahoo.com and wicked_witch151@yahoo.com i wanted your e-mail address so I an add you and talk to you more often. so send them to me! luv ya, holly
lauren_is_amaziing@yahoo.com :]
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yeah ill chat go to the chat room NOW
Lauren, if you're there, you need to answer this question right away!!!!! Falon. it has to do with her!
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how do i list you as a favorite columnist? i only have 13 minutes left on the computer!
Go to my page and on the top click 'add friend'. :] Nothing is going on here. How about you?
your birthday rocked out loud and i love the glasses we got! i wore them to the beach and i need your opinion. did they make me look fat? LOL! jk. i'm bored at the library. call me tomorrow (thursday) at anytime to keep me from going insane. luv ya!
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okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!
She's jealous. Simple as that. The girl you are dealing with is trying to impress you because she wants to be accepted. She wants to be accepted and be popular, and pretty, and wants to be the center of attention in your group. It's usually just a phase, but if she doesn't stop just tell her that it's rude of her to copy you and be mean when you didn't do anything. DON'T say 'Just because your jealous doesn't mean you should be mean!' DON'T EVER DO THAT. That just makes them ANGRY and REVENGEFUL. Hope I helped. :]
In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.
Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.
What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
thanks
I have a lot of experience with this as well. I'm not sure you want to hear this, but lay off of her. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you. Test her. See if she really DOES pay attention to you and that she wants to spend time with you. If she does, talk to her about how you feel you're being ditched all the time while she's sleeping over or something. Tell her not to take it personally, but it's the way you feel. I had that experience and told my friend, and now we're really close again. She hasn't ditched me yet and it's been about 4 months. So, give her a chance if she's willing to take it. Don't be mad, and don't just be a pushover and forgive - just act normally and see if she talks to you. :]
Do you like me as a best friend or less. Tell me your deepest thoughts. I appreciate it. Thank you.
I like you as a best friend. :] You're a wonderful friend that I can tell so much to. :]
Okay so I have this friend who I horseback ride with and she's three years younger than me. Well, you wouldn't think that would matter because she acts more mature thatn she really is and it's almost like she keeps me in touch with my innocnet side. (at our age, 3 years is a big difference). However, every time I mention her, my best friend goes, "Ew, you're 5th grader?!" (going into 6th)So my question is is the age difference okay?
It's perfectly fine. If you're friends have a problem with it, then you should really just tell them to stop. If they don't they probably weren't real friends if they decide to not like you because of your younger friends.
My best friends told me about a month or two ago they were both bi. About two weeks ago, they started "going out" I was cool with them being Bi before, we just went along being friends. But now that they're going out its totally ackward, gross, and I just can't stand being around them. Me and them have really drifted apart since the summer started cause they got into it with guys who are big into sex and weed. Is it time for me to get new friends? How do I go about doing that, I don't want to look like a loner.
Well, if it is awkward, let them know. Don't tell them to break up, but let them know that you are not sure you're going to be comfortable. If they take it the wrong way, then let it go. There's nothing else you can do. As for getting new friends, just try starting out with talking to one person and work your way from there. If it helps, let them know you're trying to make friends because of a bad situation at the moment. Also - contact any old lost friends.