I go back to school next wednesday and last year at school i felt a bit left out from my gruop of best friends (about 6 of us includeing me) and some times they don't talk to me. I got the impression that i was a bit boring. I don't know why, but i don't want to find out because i will be upset. I just would like to know if anyone has any ideas to make me a little more interesting? I am a little bit shy as well... if that helps you.
Please say anything. Because i woudl liek to try anything.
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? captainL answered Saturday September 1 2007, 11:54 am: Well, you don't necessarily have to make yourself interesting. It's all about the shy factor. If you eliminate the shy factor, you're golden.
To do this, it's going to take time and effort. You'll have to practice confronting people you do not know to say 'hello', and interacting with lots of different groups, like the drama club, or sports. It helps a ton, I found.
And sometimes if your friends don't talk to you, talk to them! Don't hold back, just ask to make some plans and I'm sure it will all work out fine.
If they refuse to make plans with you, they weren't very good friends in the first place, were they?
briabanana answered Saturday September 1 2007, 12:17 am: well,
you could get more involved with your friends. Try not to be as shy that might be why you might be a little boring, lighten up a little have fun enjoy life, because you feel left out because you might be to shy to get involved with him.
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