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my friends just wrote something in my advice colomn and its about me and this is wut it said...

okay well me and my friends have this REALLY weird friend! and omg she is s0o0o0o annoying! she wears the gayest cloths ever and the gayest shoes and like no one likes her. she used to be our good friend but now she is just sooooo weird and its so annoying. plus none of the guys like her and neither do the girls. i mean she is just soo weird its like ahhhh! and she copys EVERYONE on EVERYTHING! and we are just like tired of it cuz shes so gay and so annoying! should we tell her or just keep pretending to like her?


i dont know wut to do...im so flippin hurt and im so frustrated...plz..i need advice...i rate high (i dont wear the gayest clothes or the gayest shoes ever either)

~thanks in advance..~

are you sure it was them that wrote it? and are you sure its about you? because thats REALLLLLY low & shallow and RETARDED that theyd do something like that. id say..time to find new friends. what bitchesss

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Ok well Ive had this good friend for awhile (not too long) and before everything was fine... But she has been getting on my nerves like crazy for the past months. I'm having this party with only girls and it should be really fun.. but I dont want her to come.. I'm afriad she's going to find out and feel hurt. All i want is someway for her to get plans so she wont be able to come! But i know that I cant set that up! I need advice and not something like "tell her how you feel" BECAUSE THATS NOT AN OPTION

is it a big party or a small party? if its a big one just go ahead and invite her, i mean its not like she`ll be tagging along with you the whoooole night. but if its a small party, dont tell her, and if she ends up finding out say your parents only let you invite a certain amount of people, and they didnt kno you well enough and i didnt tell you because i thought youd be mad.

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whenever i have a boyfriend i have to hide it from my mom. she said its okay to have one but i usually never tell her. but i got one now and i really need 2 tell her bc hes so different from any1 ive ever got with....and shes met him n stuff n she thinks we go out but i dont call him my bf around her. but the thing is she wont let me go newhere (but i do newayz she just doesnt know) but its hard to sneek around her i just wanna tell her but she like wants to "get 2 know him" im like IM NOT GETTIN MARRIED CHILL OUT...she acts like wer gettin married she wants to meet his parents n everything so she knows who im with...how can i tell her to calm down...i tryed tellin her but she always finds a reason for everything...helllllpppp

She just cares about you, thats actually probably a good thing. Just tell her, and have him come over to hang out a few times so that she can be around him more and see what hes like, and when she meets his parents shes probably not thinking abot talking to them for like 30 minutes, she probably just wants to see what they're like and stuff, so she knos what kind of background this guy is coming from. Just tell your guy that your mom is like really protective and she wants to "get to kno him." That way you dont haveta sneak around anymore, and youll probably be able to do more things with each other more often

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hey everyone. I went out wit this guy awhile ago and then he liked me for quiete awhile after we broke up. Recently he told me he liked me but i told jhim i didnt feel the same way as he felt about me. Now he met my bst friend and they seem to like each other, its sorta akward but im happy that they like each other. I sorta miss him liking me, cuz he is always talking about how great she is and im not sure if i like him again or if i just dont like the idea of him liking her, evne thouh i don't think i do like him. So my question is, im not sure if i should tell my friend how i feel about ir o just not say n e thing cuz i dont want her to worry about something that really isn't a big deal and i am happy for her that she and this guy like each other, and i dont wanna mess n e thing up. So plz help, thanks

Well it could be that your jealous cuz you might not be totally over him and your so used to him liking you. I wouldnt say anything to your friend cuz she might get better. Just wait it out a while, because it will either go away, or your friend and that guy will break up.

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ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do?

just tell your friend she needs to stop acting that way. First of all, you hving a boyfriend does not mean you two cant stillb e friends. Second of all, she needs to be supportive of you, especially if you really like this guy. Tell her how you feel, but if it still isnt working out then you need to decide if having a boyfriend is more important, or your friendship with this girl.

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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do


what would you do???
sorry its so long

Well i wouldnt really care if he went and did something like that to you. Hes not a good friend in teh first place, he doesnt deserve to have you talk to him.I mean, you didnt get mad when you told him that you liked her and then he went off and asked her out! So just tell him that, and if he gives you a stupid reason, then i dont htink you should worry too much about loosing him in the future or not, because after a while he`ll probably end up doing a lot worse to you.

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ok see all the girlz are lie acting like bitches to me and im so sick of it like 1 point there att my house then the next day the acting like there all that and like i deont no there just mean so help!

i hate girls like that. Just ask them "are you gonna be my friend or not because im sick of you doing this, so your either my friend or your not my friend" And if they think their all that and that they're better than you, then it might be time to make some new friends.

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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!

omg...this is happening now with my friends. What happened was one(lets call her emily) of them called another one(lets call her jessica) and left a "disturbing voice mail" that was REALLY mean..and Jessica`s parents called the police, and had them trace the call back to emily`s cell phone. So Jessica`s parents ended up pressing charges, and now Emily might have to go to Juvy, or else do lots of community service, and lets just say that not many people like emily anymore, and the constant fighting between those two are now over. So you could do something like that..just tell your parents, and tell them you dont want them to tell everyone it was YOU who told, so ask them if they could say something like they happened to answer your cell fone or something, or if she leaves messages just say they saw it or whatever. it probably wont get her into as much trouble as my friend got in, because what she said was horrible...but yea it'll stop it!

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ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do?

Have you told him how you feel yet? the next time you guys talk, just casually be like have you ever liked me? or thought i was hott? or anything? and see what he says, and if he asks you if youve ever liked him, be like yea i do right now but i dont kno what to do because you like your old girlfriend. and then take it from there. If he waits a while before he does anything about liking his old girlfriend, then stick with him! But if he gives you an automatic reason like i dont want to ruin our friendship, then maybe wait a little while, but if nothing happens then its probably time to let go.

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i have this best friend and i like him alot but he doesnt like me and like everytime he does something and i get mad he says something real sweet and i wanna like him more and like he doesnt wanna go with me cuz he doesnt like me im so love struck what do i do???

uhmm id say stick with it for a while, just dont give up. Be really flirty with him and like touch his hands or something, and who knos maybe you'll leave an impression on him and he'll start to like you. But if nothing happens after a while, theres probably not a great chance of anything ever happening, and itd be time to let it go.

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hey its me agen! thanks for my last question u guyz helped me lots! evry1 of u!! haha my sn is blondebaby3249 if u wanna IM me! ok heres my new question...
last year i had 3 real bestfriends i mean we were like TOTALLY the bestest friends now this summer its like... rite in the beginning these 2 girls hate me now they call me a slut and stuff when ive nevr had sex and stuff! and they say i wear too much eye makeup(which i dont) and i dress slutty! so ive tryed to not put as much eye makeup on but then this one girl outta the group is like i dont care what u say im not gonna be frinds with u agen! and im like ok bitch! and were in this huge fight and then the last girl outta our 4 is like my neighbor so we gotta be friends... but that one girl is like saying shes gona make my life miserable and stuff and im totally confuzed! PLEZE HELP ME!!!

okay, all those girls sound like HUGE bi*ches, except your neighbor if shes still your friend. I say ask them what is up and what you couldve done to make them say all that crap, and if they dont give you a real answer, or if they just go ahead and be immature about it, then distance yourself from them for a while and hang out with other people. After a while they'll get over it.

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i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do?

omg go yell at her SO bad and dont hold ANYTHING back. well actually no...find out for SURE that shes actually saying that, just ask her and if she denies it then say we how come so and so told me you were? and how come my boyfriend broke up with me becuz SOMEONE was saying that crap about me? what a great "best friend"

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theres this guy that has liked me for quite some time now, i even got in a fight with him b/c he liked me during the time he had a g/f and i told his girlfriend to ler her know and he denied it. Now theyve been broken up for quite a few months now and he lieks me, and im starting to liek him. him and i ahve said some hurtful things to eachother but now we're over it, we've matured and nwo we tslk to eachother again. my best friend still cant believe that i would even be friends with him after some thigns that he's said. she tells me that i shouldnt give him a chance. but i want to. what do i do? my best friend practically hates him. please help..i rate good!!!

wow okay, well dont be TOO sure because if he had a girlfriend before and yet he was telling you that he likes you, then i would be careful and make sure he's not doing any of that crap to anybody else. But if he really likes you that much, and you like him to then go for it. Your best friend will get over it...i mean everyone says bad things when they're in a fight. And she can't decide who you wanna go out with

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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

how old are you?? if you want guys and girls at the party...then do something like rent out the YMCA for a few hours...and have people come and you can either do like a dance thing in the gym..or you can have people playing basketball or swimming or anything like that. Or skating is always fun. but if you have a big house then have a boy/girl party at your house with just music or movies or whatever.

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i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do??

how long has he been going out with this girl? because if it hasn't been for a very long time then he might like you? But if they`ve been going out for a while then i dont know...just ask him how his relationship is going with her and then take it from there

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Okay Herez My Deal:
My friend and I have gotten into lotz of fights before well one time she gave me this girls p/w so i went on her s/n real quick to get this boyz s/n and then i signed off and never went on it again well my "friend" told the girl and she called me a female dog in her profile and said never go on my s/n again and its mostly emmie! and then she got mad at them because they went up to her house carlee,gabby(the one's who p/w i had),and mallory and carlee said to emmie why r u leaving mallory out and emmie said cuz i don't like her! and then gabby said im on emmies side then carlee started saying funny stuff and gabby said im on carlee's side now and well emmie told me this on the phone and hung up! but i have had lotz of good times w/ emmie but shes really fat and no one likes her!what should i do? Please HELP!

wow..thats confusing...which one do you want to tell off?? id say just tell her how you feel, it mite cause a little fight but itll most likely clear up soon if you tell her. and if you dont tell her then stuff is probably just gonna keep happening like this.

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ok well one of my really closest friends birthday is in couple of weeks and i dunno what to get her....she is girly and she loves pink! i dunt want to get her a giftcard or anything and i cant go to a salon and that stuff....but what do u think wuld make a really cute present? plz answer..and i will rate ya

make something!!! like a scrapbook..or whatever, just be creative! Or get her like a picture frame with a cute picture of you two, and hten get something that has to do with an inside joke between you guys.

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Ok...so i'm really popular and everyone thinks i'm hott and i really want a boyfriend...but none of the guys give me the time of day...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG! PLZ HELP!

you seem confident enough...but maybe your just acting too desperate, or maybe its your personality. just make sure your nice to everyone n dont be abitch or think your better than anybody else

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This next week I am going camping with my friend. I have never been camping ever and I am excited. Except the fact I am very afraid of water. They plan on taking us out on a boat and go swimming in the middle of the lake and do stuff like that. I dont want to be a pain, and them feel like, oh god.. why we take her. What can I do? I dont want her to get mad at me either. I am just so scared and I can barely swim.

Truth is, if she's really you're friend then shes gonna understand and won't care, but if she makes a big deal about it then shes probably not gonna be a great friend in the long run. But you can always just stay on the boat for a while, and if you see them all out there having fun you might want to get in there and try it out. Its really not as scary as it seems. And if worst comes to worst then just say your stomach hurts or something, and ask if you can stay on the boat for a while. Then they won't bug you about it

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