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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥

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Ok here it goes. i need some advice!! this boy at my school named jonas..... so i feel like i know everyhing about him then i also feel like i dont know anything about him.... i hope you know what i mean... :) i see him everyday in the hallways and around school... everytime i see him its like my mind goes blank and its like i go into total SHOCK!! and i dnt know what to do my face gets red when he looks at me we look at each others eyes his eyes are so beautiful!!!! sorry this is so long :) and one more thing hes in the 7th and im in the 6th!!! but hes 13 and im 12! also i havent talked to him so i really dnt know much about him!! and if you dont mind i want to know some helpful tips on how to talk to him and what to say. :)because like i said before my face gets red and my mind goes blank and its like i go into total SHOCK!! you can email at luv_20_sweety@yahoo.com thanks for your time!! :)

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Ok i like this guy that has a girlfriend, they say they dont know if they are goin out or not because they never talk but still they dont break up. the guy i like has no clue that i like him and i am friends with his girlfriend. i dont want to hurt his girlfriend but they dont even like one another and i LIKE him. should i tell him or what?

tell him you like him. if his girlfriend gets mad, she's not your friend. it's simple

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waht should i do everybody hates me because im ugly how can i make me pretter so i can have more friends

if those people don't like you because you're ugly than they are shallow and you shouldn't want them as friends. true friends don't care what you loook like. don't change for them, your true friends will like you for who you are.

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Yes, I know, yet another Christmas-related question lol. But, I need advice on this. Okay, so I have a lot of close friends(nine, maybe?) that bought me Christmas presents and I bought them Christmas presents. The thing is, though, I have other friends who I'm not as close with but still good friends with and I feel like I should get them a small gift for Christmas. So, I don't really know what to get. I bought all of my best friends` presents already, and I was thinking about giving all of my other friends a mixed CD of really good songs/Christmas songs. Is that a good idea? Or should I just go with buying them all candy/candy canes? I don't really know whcih would be best; I'd have to burn like 15 CDs, but just giving them a candy cane seems a little impersonal. So, would a burned CD with mixed songs on it be a good idea? Or candy canes?

i'd definatly give them both, but thats just me.

you could always get them a little bottle of christmas spray or lotion from bath and body works. its really cheap and thats what im doing for my "not so close" friends.

but your idea is cute =]

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Soo one of my closest friends just found out that the girl he was majorly crushing on, lets call her jessica, liked someone else. He's devastated and since jessica is one of my bff im stuck in the middle of a love triangle, kinda im not in it though, but hes hurt and i dnt know how to comfort him or make him feel better. And the worst part is; he still likes her!!

well you have to tell him that he must move on. if
"jessica" doesnt like him he needs to stop clinging on to her and find someone else. just tell him that theres over a billion people in the world and im sure he could find someone else. i dont think its fair that your stuck in the middle. if i were you i wouldnt even get into it, if jess or the boy started talking about it i would say "sorry i dont wanna be in this mess" but if you want to comfort your friend just tell him everythings gunna be okay and life will move on.

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My friends & I have having a movie night on Friday. What are some honest-to-God, horrifying films?

umm heres a few of my favorites...
the seed of chucky
watcher in the woods
texas chain saw
the exorcist
the grudge
if you want to go to the movies you could see the grudge 2 its coming out on friday (=

hope thats enough.

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My best friend is dating this boy who has been with 23 girls. They've been together for about 6 months. She didn't believe in having premarital sex before she met him. She gave it up to him a few weeks ago. He broke up with her a week later. He started talking to another girl. He begged my friend to keep having sex with him, although they weren't together anymore. She said no. He asked her back out a couple days ago. They started doing it again yesterday. Does it not sound like he's using her? He's this very munipulative type person. It's driving me crazy. Should I tell her how I feel?

shes definitely being used!!! you need to tell her. maybe she doesnt realize it now but point out everything that hes done and maybe she'll come to her senses

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Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.

hes probably really shy and doesnt know what to say in person. you should be the one to go up to him and start a conversation!!

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Okay, so if a guy asks you to slow dance with them, that doesn't make them your boyfriend or anyhthing...does it? And it's perfectly normal to dance with more than one guys..right? Also if you're going to the homecoming with a guy, are they considered your boyfriend...or if they aren't can you dance with other guys at the homecoming too...?

Haha, no just because you're slow dancing with guys doesn't mean you're going out with them. If it did, I would have 9 boyfriends by now!! And yes you can dance with as many boys as you want, some girls might think its slutty but its obvious they are jealous and wish they were you. and if your going to homecoming with a guy it doesnt mean their your boyfriend because you guys could just be close friends and i know people who went to homecoming with their cousins. and unless you and you can dance with other guys too even if you have a boyfriend. ♥

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Hey,
I was friends with a girl named Breanna and we were friends for 5 years and now were not friends seince Halloween of last year.What do I do????????

umm the obvious thing to do is make new friends. start conversations with people and become closer with people that are already your friends. theres not much else i can say right??

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your little like profile thing reminded me of my self

haha, and thankss

aww thanks. haha no problem i'm happy to help. if you ever have a problem come to me :)

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hi, well she'z into stuff i guess. she luvz ronaldo (soccor player, well we liv in england so..footbal here) um, music. i rele dnt know much about her. i asked what she wanted. she said a hug, she kinda one of those nice girls, that r kinda stupis seeing how they dont want a present...

oh okay cool :)

you could try getting her like a ronaldo jersey (who ever the hell he is) if they sell them. (as you can see im from the usa so i dont know much about england) ask her what bands she likes and ask if she has the cd of them and if she says no you know exactly what to buy. if your afraid of what she will think of your gift then money or a giftcard are always the way to go.any peticular stores she likes to shop at? or just a mall giftcard to be on the safe side.if she goes to the movies regularly a movie pass thing will be good to get her hah. i dont know how much you want to spend on her so yeah..

okay thats the best i can do.hopefully this somewhat helped.... =/

you might want to try using better typing skills (especially spelling) because i'm having a hard time figuring out what you're saying.

and when she says she just wants a hug and no present, shes just saying that to be nice. i know how girls are,infact i am one haha =) girls want presents but they dont want to seem pushy and say what they want because alot of girls think its rude. so know shes not "stupid" as you said shes just polite. yeah sorry i had to let that out.

:)

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hi, well its going to be my friends birthday in november, and im wondering what to get her, incase i need to save up. she'z only a friend and i dont what her to think i like her in THAT way. she's going to turn 15 i think. any ideas? thanks in advance

you could get her...
a movie
giftcertifcate
cd
clothes
money
a movie pass

mm yeah i dont know what she likes so if you want to contact my inbox and tell me what shes into i can go into further detail with gift ideas...

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So there is this guy and he is very nice and he is always saying to me, you are really cool, you are pretty, etc. So sometimes online he will ask me questions like do you think i am hot, do you think you could ever like me more as a friend and stuff like that.

So usually I say no or idk. Because I don't want to lead him on by saying yes or something else. But then I feel bad, like I am hurting his self esteem and putting him down. What should I do? What should I say when he asks me?

you have to tell him the truth because hes just going to keep liking you more and more and then if you keep waiting by the time you tell him how you feel he will be even more heart broken. you should just say "im really sorry ____ but i dont like you the way you like me and i just want us to stay really close friends im really sorry i think your really nice but i dont see a relationship working out." if you say that he really cant be that mad just tell him your really sorry and he should understand.just be nice to him and let him know you 2 are still good friends.hope i helped!! ♥

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at school everyone call me egghead because of my head shape but i dont like it i have told the them to stop but they dont listen

from egghead

when they call you an egghead laugh about it and make a joke about it so they have nothing to laugh about. if they say "ew your an egghead" say "yeah my head is so oval shaped on easter my baby cousin thought it was a real egg and tried to paint it" if you make a joke about yourself they have nothing to laugh about and they will leave you alone!! or you could always just laugh when they make fun of your head and say haha oh my gosh your so funny. just make them know it doesnt bother you and they will walk away.

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me + my friends love hanging out on like weekend nights and we usually go 2 the movies or some1s house or the mall or the football games or something. but those places get boring after a while. does anyone have any ideas about other places we could go?? like.. places that we could go wen there is girls + boys.

thanks xox

bowling,ice skating,roller blading,amusement park,mini golf,you could try a different mall.

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i have this really good friend. we always used to do everything together and everyone knew we were like the best of friends. ever since this year started she always hangs out with other people and never me. i talked to her about it and she said she still likes me and everything but she just doesn't get it at all. i miss hanging out with her but she obviously doesnt miss hanging out with me, and sometimes i feel like she doesnt even care about me...well it doesnt seem like it...should i try to get her back ? how? or should i forget about her? and how?

If shes making new friends then you should make new friends too but dont forget about her you should ask her to hang out sometimes but maybe you two just need a break from eachother. I'm having the same problem right now and but I learned to deal with it and maybe if you just take a little break from eachother then you two will hang out more often but until then make new friends.

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