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i miss her...
i have this really good friend. we always used to do everything together and everyone knew we were like the best of friends. ever since this year started she always hangs out with other people and never me. i talked to her about it and she said she still likes me and everything but she just doesn't get it at all. i miss hanging out with her but she obviously doesnt miss hanging out with me, and sometimes i feel like she doesnt even care about me...well it doesnt seem like it...should i try to get her back ? how? or should i forget about her? and how?
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Hey. Well first of all, don't feel bad because this happens to everyone eventually. It may hurt at first that she's putting other friends before you but eventually you'll make new friends too and it will make you feel a lot better. I mean don't completely get rid of her. Maybe you can pick a day once in a while to make a not to hang out with her too but if she never recipricates, forget about it.
Yes it will probably be upsetting and all but you will get over it soon enough when you and all your new friends are making new memories to share. Do you know any of the friends she's hanging out with? Just act friendly toawards them too and who knows? I know that sounds tough but maybe you can be friends with some of them too.
I mean don't hog them away or anything but all of you guys can hang out :). Or if this option sunded completely ridiculous just make new friends and you will be fine :-). I really hope this helped even if only a little so please give me feedback my friend :-).
Chrissie
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If shes making new friends then you should make new friends too but dont forget about her you should ask her to hang out sometimes but maybe you two just need a break from eachother. I'm having the same problem right now and but I learned to deal with it and maybe if you just take a little break from eachother then you two will hang out more often but until then make new friends.
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if she's starting to forget about you, you should just start forgetting about her. i know, it's a little harsh sounding, but still. i would at least try giving her one more chance and talking to her about it and trying to plan out a day with her where you guys can talk and hang out and hopefully improve your friendship again, but if she doesn't try and put forth much of an effort, i would just go and try to make some new friends who'll want to hang out with you. maybe even whenever she notices you're not trying to get her back and that you're making new friends, she'll realize how much she misses you and come back to try and fix everything. she just might be doing it to seem like "oh look at me with all my friends. i'll have to check my schedule to hang." and seem like she's got a bunch of friends and having an amazing time. but like i said, give it another shot, and if it fails, try and move on the best you can. :l i hope i helped.
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well right now i have the same exact problem. but i still try to get her back even though i dont feel like i should. if you have any other friends to hang out with go ahead but don't just give up on her yet. see if she really does care.
try planning a day so you two can be together and then you can catch up and see if you go back to the way before.
if that doesn't go that well, be more out there, like make her want to hang out with you. also you can try hanging out with her other friends and you might make new ones and keep her too.
i see you talked to her but next time if you need to again make it more serious and tell her that it doesn't make you happy that you aren't with her that much.
good luck and i hope i helped!
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she doesnt get what at all anywaysjust make some more friends or spend time with others it doesnt mean you guys have to quit being best friends just look at it as your chance to branch out
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