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what do i do if my friend thinks i am this girls friend who is mean and my friend says " i dun't think we should be friends??" what do i do?? i need this answer as fast as possible before the christmas holidays..........................

Try to find out why she said that. Then, from her answer, decide whether its worth being friends with her. If you she doesn't have a good reason why or doesn't apologize, don't be friends with her. A real, good friend wouldn't say something like that. You don't need that. Don't act like you're friends with her unless she comes back and apologizes, then you can decide if you'd like to be friends with her again.

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hey..well, my friend and i are both 15/f. and we have an a.p euro class together. well, there we take notes. the teachers lectures us. and my friend was absent last week for one day. i took about like 45 pages of notes that day. not even kidding. and now she's asking me to scan them and give them to her. should I? I really don't want to. I know she's my friend and all. But I consider this course a strict "only study yourself" course. like, don't help people out, or you're gonna get stuck yourself. I don't know what to do. I would like to help a friend. But scanning 45 pages of the notes that *I* worked so hard on, listening to him and gathering info on. And letting her HAVE it without any effort on her part...well that's not very fair. And plus, when I used to ask her for help, she rarely helped me.

What would you do? :|

I'm in AP US history, and my teacher actually encorages us to work together. Then again, this is our first AP class, because 9th grade was just honors.
Anyways, I understand where you're coming from not wanting to scan 45 pages of notes. But, it was a lecture, and depending on the teacher, he might not lecture it to just her. Ask her to try that first.
If he won't do that, I think you should let her copy. It's not like they're the answers to the test, or she was just skipping class. She was actually sick. It's not her fault. Since you really don't want to just give it to her, let her copy it by hand. That way, she works for it a bit. You could also ask her since you're giving her notes this time, if you're ever sick, she should give them to you.
If you honestly think she's that bad of a friend and won't help you out next time you need it, then don't.

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i have this christain boy friend, whom i dream alot about" do u think that there is a love connection between us? "or is it just our friendship? that why i dream of him alot. or maybe am inlove with him? or his inlove with me.? what do u think?

Because you have dreams about him, doesn't mean he has the same feelings. I'm not saying he might not like you. If your friend said he has a "glow" when he's around you, then he might. There's really no way to tell for sure, unless you ask him. Same thing with you. No one here can decide if you have feelings for him. Its just something you have to figure out for yourself.

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so my ex boyfriend's mom recently died && i called him. i hadn't talked to him for awhile. but he said that he wanted to make sure that everything was cool with us because she really liked me. but i still don't feel like everything's right. i'm wondering if i should just talk to him in person the next time i see him, or if i should call him. i can't see him for awhile.but yeah.so i need HELP!!!

Try talking to him on the phone for a while, until you feel more comfortable. Especially since you can't see him for a while, build your friendship up again over the phone or computer. Then, when you can see him, things won't be so awkward.

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I have a very strange question to ask..but please bear with me.

Let's say a guy has a girlfriend that's really ugly. And I know I'm prettier than her. When he shares her pictures and puts her pictures up and is so proud of them...does he realize that she's ugly? or is he so glad that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't care WHAT she looks like, as long as she "belongs" to him. And in this case, he thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world?

Because it's getting annoying. This guy makes fun of my pictures, when I know I'm SO much prettier. But when he puts up her ugly pictures, he praises them. What am I supposed to say? It annoys me that he makes fun of me, when his girlfriend is disgustingly ugly.

I know it's shallow. =/

Who are you to judge him? If he thinks she's pretty, that's his business. He might think she has a better personality and she's prettier than you. And yeah, that is really shallow. You shouldn't judge people based on their looks. You sound really conceited. Maybe that's why he makes fun of the way you look, because you "know" you're so pretty. I'm just being honest.

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I had a dream i made out with my best friends boyfriend. I feel so bad that i would have a dream like that. I dont even have feelings for him!! Now i feel like i have betrayed my best friend what should i do to make me feel better?

i had a dream with me jackie allison adn theresa and they were drawing a face and i wanted it so i peeled off a layer :)

hope u helped

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it was my friends bday today but im not gonna see her until monday so thats when im gonna give her her gift. shes turning 14 and shes also leaving for overnight camp on tuesday does anyone have any ideas of what i could get her???
i was thinking of getting her a gift card or something but idk.

thanks

You could get her make up, hair things, clothes, a movie, a video game, like a purse with candy, lip gloss, hair things, maybe a giftcard in it, if she likes to scrap book, get her a scrap booking kit, a beach bag with a bunch of stuff she could bring to the beach {even though it's a little late lol}. That's about all I could think of. Try thinking of what your other friends got for their birthday. That might help. hope i helped =)

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Okay so im going to my best friend's house today. Normally i would never have to ask this question, because we have so much fun together, but she just moved, so she doesnt have any T.V., internet, or anything like that right now. So its going to be WICKED boring..so i was wondering what would be something fun to do?? like something involving, maybe paper, like the game MASH..does anyone know any games like MASH that we could play, or like something like truth or dare (but not nessacarily truth or dare..its just an example.) by the way we're both 14/f.
thanks ANYTHING will help

-read magazines
-go to the mall or movies or something
-walk around the neighborhood
-play catch, volleyball, or another sport
-go to the pool
-make fortune tellers
-walk to the store
-go out for ice cream
-cook something like cookies or something

that's about all i could think of. sorry, i probably didn't help to much.lol. hope i helped =)

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If you are sent an invitation to someone's Sweet 16 and the card says RSVP, do you have to call to inform them that you will not be attending?

Yeah, you do. =)

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Is god real im confused

I think he is, but it's your opinion =)

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my sister and her best friend (whom is also her godsister) grew up together. well one day my sister came to me and asked me if she could ask me for advice, and i said yes, so she said : well nat and me are best friends, but she makes me feel bad alot and has no idea. like she takes credit for somthings like why boys like me, she'll tell my aunts that "oh yeah every single boy that likes ene (my sis) liked me first, especially her bfs" my aunts would just be silent and nod. she makes me feel bad because she is sometimes competetive with how her life is compared to mine. like one day she's like "can you come to my house?" and i said no im in trouble and then she goes "your always in trouble" and i just told her well then deal with it because its goin to be like that for a while and than she says "i never get in trouble" and i say so. she even makes up her life like we were seeing how may weights we could lift and so my cousin prepared his weights and i went to the restroom and hen i came back it was my turn and i lifted it all by myself six times then she says when im done, "did you knoow that i can lift the wieghts your cousin does for five times?" i smiled then when she had to go home i asked my brother how many times every body else lifted he goes, "cousin ten, me-1, nat-1, but we had help except for because." i was shocked when he said nat (bestfriend) did 1 not 5 like she said. she usually says stuff then whenever i remind her about what she said she says "oh my bad i dont know why i said that, i ws crazy" she says that everytime she lies to me about that. what should i do?:

p.s. they aren't related except that they're godsisters, but before that they were just bestfriends. help me and my sister please.

Your sister shouldn't be friends with someone like that. If all she does is put her down and say how much better she is than her, then they shouldn't be friends. No one deserves to be treated like that. Your sister should talk to her about it, and then wait a while to see if anything changes. If not, then she should just not be friends with her. hope i helped =)

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