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The name's Rae. I'll answer just about any type of question. If you need help, as everyone else, haha, i'm here. Ask me anything!♥
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My friends birthday is coming up and she has liek evrything!! she loves desigghner slothing and all that vintage stuff. she has amazing taste.
last eyar she spent 45$ on my preset so i am willing to spend 45-50 on hers.
what can i get her?
not make up or perfume.
like the other girl said gift cards are great, and even a shirt from that store is good too.
some stores that shes probably into that would be good for a gift card
juicy couture
ralph lauren
abercrombie
coach
chanel
even a pair of brand name sunglasses is good with like a tee shirt or some jewlery.
i hope i helped.
plus, i dont think that she would really care if you just got her a ton of jewelry from claires or something, if it's vintage like..shes a friend, right?
where can i get a cute pair of skinny jeans
that look like some of these
(and dont say kohls or jc pennys cause just eww)
http://i7.tinypic.com/5xnd5oj.jpg
http://i18.tinypic.com/4lzaoaq.jpg
http://i13.tinypic.com/674ccaw.jpg
thanks
the levi store
hollister
abercrombie and fitch
maybe macys
(and you can try sears but idk if thats eww to you )
hope i helped (:
i am moving in like 5 days...and idk how i am going to fit in. how will i make friends? like is it hard? am i going to be able to make friends? like what should i do? should i just go up to random ppl and start talking to them? or should i wait for them to come to me? i am very confused on how to make friends. please help!
oh i hate that. i've lived in 4 different places, 2 of which in different states, and i know it sucks. honestly, you just have to be yourself. dont shake hands, unless they do that to you lol. and at your table in class, try talking to people (or if seperate tables, talk to people around you) and most of the time at least one person is extremely nice and can help you out. sometimes they even have people you can follow until you get used to it. just be yourself and dont be afraid to start conversations with people, like hi i'm __. and usually they'll be like oh hi i'm ___...where did you move from..ladeedaadeedaa..but if they dont respond, dont waste your time with them. lol. just be yourself. hope i helped
15/f
Theres this one girl, at my school who is amazinnggg, she is like sooo popular, and so pretty, i mean shes absoulty gorgeous, and shes so nice, unlike all of her friends, but still. and were kinda friends, kinda. but shes just soo nice. i mean for her birthday, her mom bought her all this stuff, and then gave her like 5000 dollars, and she went to the mall and like bought all these clothes, and gave them to the poor! shes always thinking of others, and she just so sweet! i just want to be just like her. i mean honestly, i dont know how she can be the way she is. i mean shes like the richest girl in our town, and she doesnt act like it at all, shes always thinking of others. and shes really smart, and i mean, i just want to be like her. how can i? shes like a freaking saint, she doesnt talk behind anyones back, shes not stuck up, bbut thne yet she has so much confidence in herself in everything she does.
I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE HER.
how?
woah lol i think you should be yourself but try to be nicer, like without being her "mini me" try donating old clothes that don't fit to big brother or something like that. also, study hard to get good grades and just think about other people before yourself. you shouldn't be just like her because she should be able to be an individual, so try to be nicer and more conciderate and over all a better person and that will make you kinda be like her and other people with out literally being just like them. i hope i helped
do you think that we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone?
we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone like for example when your friend is moving while your avoiding them because you dont wanna get hurt but next thing you know you getting hurt anyways? i mean i think if you distance yourself from that person or spend time with them hurts the same...dont you think? sorry im not good at english so its all mixed up
definitely. my friend moved and was wicked close and she's bffl with this other girl and i cant stand it. she only moved to another town and she doesnt even make an effort to hang out with me. before she moved I was the bffl that had the huge long quotes in her profile and i just keep thinking that shes gonna do it again when she goes to high school because she might be going to our high school and shes gonna do the same thing to that girl. i know it sucks but it is completely true. i miss her so much now but i wouldnt have imagined this crap if it didnt happen.
Hey Rae its Kelli. I was reading one of your questions about like world peace or something and I was lmao at your response because you sounded so un rae like it was deep. Anywho, I love you ! ♥ Kelli
haha thanksss =] ilyt
whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave?
i dont honestly know. people change, or they move, or they start hanging out with a different group of friends and drop you. I have friends from a few different groups, but i can still stay in most of their lives. some of them don't talk to me unless i talk to them. some of them have changed so much because of the people that they hang out with that part of me doesnt even want to be friends with them. i think people change and thats why they leave. i'm sorry if it doesn't answer your question directly, but i know it sucks and i know how it feels.
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ok well i have alot of friends but i dont know if they truly like me.. because they will be all nice to me one sec and then ill hear one of my so called freinds telling me something that my other friend said about me. i have even witnessed it.. i was pretending to be somebody else and i was talking to my friend and all of a sudden my friend start talking s*** about me saying i stalk them and im ugly and she doesnt want to be my friend. and its way confusing because then she come up to me and start hugging me acting like i dont know what she did.and huh *sigh* i want to be her freind but i dont know if they want to be mine. help me please
people are like that sometimes, and people like that aren't worth it. if you ask me shes a two faced friend and you dont deserve friends like that. I don't think that she's worth your time. i hope i helped (:
i have no idea what to get my best friend for her sweet 16.
Money is not a big problem so if you have any good ideas for gifts please leave a link to the gift or tell me what it is
thanks =)
Real earrings or ring (with birthstone?)
Gift cards (25-50)
If she knows she's getting a car:
theme things for steering wheel
little things to sit in the car
cds
hope i helped (:
hey. sorry if this is really long but I could def. use some advice if you have any. I had this group of best friends in fifth grade lets call them Rachel Jessey Jennie and Hannah. Anyway we were inseperable. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved to live with her mom and we threw her this big party with good luck gifts, cake, the whole thing. At first we kept in touch but once Hannah started making new friends she slowly stopped talking to us. Like especially me and Rachel we call her all the time and invite her places but she always has an excuse but then she can always hang out with her new friends. She blew off my birthday at the beginning of 7th grade year (this year) and at first when we started asking her what was up she was nice but today I found out she blew me off this weekend for one of her new friends Jaymie and she got WICKED mad at me for bringing it up and she kept saying oh I`m sorry I have a life and I made new friends blah blah blah and Rachel totally agrees with me and Hannah says that I`m the one that changed and that makes me really mad because I think I`m the only one that stayed exactly the same. What do you guys think. Any help would be great. ♥
it sounds to me like rachel is the best person in the world and that hannah chick is crazy. Jennie and Jessey seem pretty cool too, but you dont say much about them. Forget this hannah girl, if she doesnt want to be your friend, then she doesnt deserve your friendship. Just stop talking to her. She isnt worth your time. hope i helped :D
when you walk together he/she walks close to you than your other friends, talk with a teasing soft voice, laughs at you when you make a fool of your self, text message you when they are at their firends place and they said thier bored and you text for two hours, leans on your shoulder or has thier arm around you and calls you cute funny animal nicknames.
so what do you think if your friend does that to you?
it could be just kidding around, but i think it is probably flirting. i think that whoever is doing that likes the other person, and is just flirting. they also, could just be kidding around to have a good time. hope i helped :D
hey rachel! you are such a good friend. you help me through so much and I have no idea where I would be without you to get me through all the sucky stuff in my life. Your great at advice to so keep it going. Any love you so much best friends forever ♥ kelli
haha thanks i love you too. ya are awesomee
At the begining of the school year, there was a guy in my Spanish class. Gradually we became really close friends, and the more I hung out with him, the more I relized that I really liked him. At both of my best friends pressuring, I told him that I liked him.
How I told him is that I wrote a note telling him. I know it was very childish to do so but I am happy now that I did not tell him in person.
His response to me telleing him was that 'He would never consider being more than friends with a black person.' His words exactly, then after a few days of me fuming and wanting to kill him, he says that he only said that to spare my feelings. He said that he really did not like me the way I liked him, but I think he was lying. Now I feel a little uncomfortable around him, should I tell him how I feel about him now? Or should I leave well enough alone. I'll take any advice. I am an African American female, and he is a white male.
He has no right to treat you like that, no matter what circumstances. There is nothing wrong with people of your race and you guys shouldnt be disgriminated. It sucks, but it will happen, even though it shouldnt. I think you should completely blow off this jerk and dont try to be friends with him. I dont think that anyone who would say something like that, whether its true or not, is a good friend. I would ignore him to prevent a huge argument, and not talk to him, even if you do like him. If anything, i think that you should calmly say how you feel, but dont try to become best friends with him, because something like that would take time. i hope i helped :D
I have a really weird question. There's this guy that I go to school with that I knew for awhile. We aren't good friends, but we talk sometimes. I have this gut feeling that he likes me. This probably sounds stupid, but he doesn't show that he likes me. He doesn't do any of the signs that you may find on google. The only proof I would have is my own gut feeling. He doesn't really 'stare' per say, but I really don't know why I'm getting the feeling that he does. Is this totally crazy and am I being irrational? any ideas? thanks.
if you ask me, its natural...but i think maybe you ar falling for him. Maybe he does have a crush on you, but unless he says something, you wont find out. Just act normal around him and dont try to flirt or anything because you dont want to make him awkward. Think about it, if you have a gut feeling, maybe you like him. Im not positive, but have you ever pictured yourself with him? Dont stress over it and act natural, everything will be fine :D
one of my best friends, who also happens to be the guy i like is going out with another . Me and his friend don't really get along, and we don't really like each other. He decided to stay with her and he just stopped talking to me. we used to talk everyday, but now we don't talk at all. is he right to chose her over me?
No, thats not fair of him to do that. Tell him that you miss hanging out with him and want to do something soon (like if you guys used to go to the movies all of the time or whatever, ask him to do that) If he doesn't bother to care about how you feel, he isnt a true friend. Hope i helped...ask me if you need anything else.
--sc
It's the half term and I'd like to spend most of it with my mates. What things to do can you suggest? Me and my mates thought of shopping/hanging in town, cinema, gigs, gym, swimming pool, badminton, round each others houses and that's it. So if you can think of stuff to do and places to go then pease tell me. Thanks, xxx
I love going out to lunch and dinner with my friends, so maybe go out for food every now and then. Other good ideas are beaches (if its warm enough) roller skating/skateboarding, amusment parks (like six flags) sleepovers, spa days, and maybe manicures and pedicures. hope i helped
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my best friendm, who i'll call... carly, is about the bestest friend i have ever had since 2nd grade. the problem is, carly has this new friend (shez not a new student) named janis. janis is horrible. she acts very conceited when she hangs w/ me and my cliquey friendz. i act conceited around them too, but i do it playfully and not totally seriously like i do. carly is always hanging out with janis and i can't stand it. i tried opening up, but all she does is fill in my spot like it wouldnt matter if i wasnt even there. it gets me really mad, and i control it. recently, janis guessed to carly that i didnt like her and carly told janis everything that i'm saying now (which i told her). now janis knows that i hate her and gets all up in my face like shez trying to be gangsta or something to a group of totally preppy people. AND, for the icing on the cake, she isnt even good-looking, which kinda matters to me especially when she acts like she is the most gorgeous person in the friggin world, which is like calling a lion a mouse. help please!
Hey..it sounds to me like something i went through when my friend moved. A girl from her town is her best friend and she stopped talking to me. I suggest you try to talk to her, obviously when janis isn't around, and tell her how you feel. If she feels like she misses you too, maybe see if there are certain times a week that you two can hang out alone. If she doesn't think anything is wrong, tell her how you feel about everything and if she would rather be friends with Janis, then she isnt a true friend. Let me know if you take my advice and tell me what happens.
♥ SoccerCutie
How can you tell if someone is being a good friend? and what does exacly "being there for them" means?
A good friend can be different for everyone. a good friend for me will always stick up for me in anything, whether it be a fight or anything. In my perspective a good friend isn't twofaced, and doesnt change personalities and talk about me behind my back. BEing there for someone, is being there for that other person to talk to about anything, and the person "being there" is always by your side. i hope i helped
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Hey. I'm thirteen/female and my friend Jill invited me to go to her birthday party. I moved away from the town she lives in when I was in fourth grade, but I go to these parties every year. See, this year, I want to go, and see all my old friends, but I'm nervous about meeting the new people Jill has become friends with. What should I do? And it's a sleepover party, and calling to go home at a sleepover would be kinda, idk, just like, not our age type thing to do. Should I go and see if I have a good time [ I usually do], or not go and save myself possible nervousness?
GO AND HAVE FUN!! =] trust me my absolute best friend moved like 2 years ago, and her way of tellingus was a note and on the way home from school the last day i was balling. anyway, i know what thats like, and i didn't want to meet her friends either, because all she talked about was this one girl Jenna. So what i did was i tried talking to my old best friends friends, and i really did like them. I dont talk to them much but at least i got to meet them
my advice is to go to the party. worst casinerio you don't like her friends, but its worth a shot. the same type of people are attracted to the other same type of people..personality wise. so if she found you, she probably found people that you might like. go and have fun!
hope i helped, and let me know what you decide to do!
♥ SoccerCutie