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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them . That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.~***HAnnah***~
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well the other day my mate said that i speared a rumer that she had had sex with my boyfriend
i told her i didnt and she got hold of my neck and said if i ever speard another rumer she would kill me so then another rumer came out about her saying she was pregnant and that my boyfriend gave her crabs
wat the time she was at my house she pushed me on the bed and took a knife to my chest but i was so freeked out id never seen her like this
but nothing happened my mum came in the room
and she said i will kill you at the weekend i need help!
elly mason
I really think that you should report her, either to the police or to a parent or responsible adult. She might be a friend but she is threatning to kill you. You can't be sure if she is serious or trying to scare you, which I am guessing she is doing. I hate to tell you this but your friend might need help. Threatning and wanting to kill someone is really extreme over a rumor that you didnt even start. Talk to someone and tell them what is going on. I hope I helped!
~***Hannah***~
My friend's dad smokes. She is afraid he will die! She says that he has been coughing really bad latly. She says he is trying to stop smoking, but not really suceeding. She says that he is the one who brings all the money to the family, and shes just very afraid. She is afraid he will die from cancer or something. So basically, i need some advice in helping her through these hard times, and maybe if theres a good way to help her dad smoking. Thank you!
My grandpap smoked all the time. He died about 2 years from lung cancer. Your friend should tell her dad that if he keeps smoking that he can and probably will kill himself. If he doesnt care then say," Don't you care about your family? Don't you want to be around for them. You dont want to end up killing yourself." If he keeps coughing then you should tell her that he might need to see a doctor. It might be nothing but its better to be safe than sorry. I hope I helped!
~***HannaH***~
my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..
You need to sit your friend down and ask her straight what's going on? It sounds to me that she is cutting herself if she wont say if she is or isnt. If she wasnt then she would say that, right? Maybe you should even talk to her parents and maybe then they can talk to her if she wont talk to you about it. Just try and be there for her as much as you can. She might really need her best friend right now.
~***Hannah~***
My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
First off, dont kill yourself! :( Secondly, your friend needs serious help. Sometimes when someone is being abused in a relationship they deny iy and/or blame themselves. Tell her that you did what you knew was best for her. Try talking to her parents. She needs to get out of the relationship and it seems that she can't do that on her own. Most importanly, no matter how hard she tries to push you away she really needs you. Be there for her no matter what and eventually she will come around.
~***Hannah~***
Since I started Freshman year I had made a friend named Amanda.I am a Sophore now, but gradually our friendship is breaking apart....she is always ordering us around and it really starts to get annoying. Since I became a sophore I had put a goal for myself to make more friends...and succeded, but now when I'm spending time with my new friends she gets really bitchy and has an attitude saying that I dich her all the time... WHEN I TALK TO HER PRACTICALLY EVERYDAY! Anyways I'm not sure what to do. Iwanna stay friends with her, but I also wanna be with my other friends. By the way all of my friends hate each other.
If Amanda was a true friend then she should understand that your world doesnt revolve around her. Try talking to her and tell her how you feel. She might understand and change. If she doesnt, then she isnt a good friend.
~***Hannah~***