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MY NAME iS TiFFANY . . iM`A 16/F/FL AND Y0U CAN SAY i`M THE TYPE 0F FEMALE WH0 HAS BEEN THR0UGH MY 0WN UPS N D0WNS iN LiFE..ESPECiALLY WHEN iT CAME T0 RELATiONSHiPS. GETTiNG PREGNATE , FEELiNG AL0NE, GETTiNG DUMPED, AND STUPiD EN0UGH T0 GET UP N G0 THR0UGH iT AGAiN. i WANT T0 HELP 0THER PE0PLE AV0iD MAKiNG THE SAME MiSTAKES i HAVE. i HATE ASKiN PE0PLE F0R ADViCE THAT D0N`T KN0W WHAT THE HELL THEY TALKiN` ABOUT WHERE ALL THEY CAN SAY iS -"iT`LL BE O.K. KEEP YOU`RE HEAD UP.." THAT`S N0T ADViCE. Y0U CAN C0UNT 0N ME T0 TELL YA ASS STRAiGHT UP WHAT T0 D0 THAT WiLL B BEST! HiT ME UP!
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hey i have this friend julie.. and well we have been friends ever sence 6th grade and shes white.. and shes kind of racists.. and well like im dominican.. and i kinda feel unfomfertable.. when like she gets all redneck and says things like look at that beaner(mexicans).. and like about floater(cubans) or puerto freakin rican ( puertorican) and like i dont no.. shes been gettin on my nerves t0o and like well i dont think i want to be friends with her..but then again i do.. because we have been friends f0r so long.. but i just cant stand the fact that she has a racists comment for everything and i dont like that .. so what should i do...
- Allie (link)
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hey girl s0rry it took me SO FREAKIN LONG TO REPLY!!! but im always here to help..well i seriously think you need to talk to her. No matter how weird it would feel talking to her like that. Obviously she doesn't MEAN to offend you since she's friends with you. She probably doesn't even know she's doing it!!! She won't know how you feel if you dont tell her..well girl i hope i helped! mwah! good luck!!!
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what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon! (link)
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nOt really anything..its her decision...Even if yOu hate him, if she likes him thats her- yOu shOuldn't put anythinq between that...even if he will hurt her for a fact...all y0u can do is warn her =) good luck!
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i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!! (link)
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You need to have a erioud talk with this girl. sHe must b the popular type if she know EVERYONE to turn against y0u. But understand, n0t everyone is going to go against yOu a a friend juszt because she wants them to. I don't think yOu would want that kind of girl as a friend thOugh, One that can c0ntrol what y0u do by blackmailinq yOu...d0n't blame yourself blame her f0r being such a b*tch!
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Well my two best friends of all time are going to one highschool and we are all supposed to go to the same one. Then my mom changed her mind and is making me go o another one!!! I REALLY wanna be w/ my best friends and I dont have ne other friends going to the other highschool help!!!! (link)
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It's gonna suck a lot if you go to a diff. high school then your friends in which you all have been committed to being together. This happened to me, I still keep in contact with my friends but it' not the same. You could try convincing your mom,even though she might not like the idea of you going to high school just for your friends. Explain that if you have your friends, you won't have to spend you study time searching for new ones. lol...i tried that-it really depends on how your mom is. good luck though and i hope you all end up together! =)
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend (link)
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I think you're just concerned. If yOu drive over there i think it's sweet of you and nice that yOu care and want to know if your friend's okay!!! qo fOr it! you won't be nosy =) plz rate!
p.s. i h0pe ur friend is ok!
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Hey (srry if this is long) Im a 15/m and i have a close friend that is a gurl that i have known since the 6th grade. She can talk to me about anything and i can do the same. We have grown apart since we now go to different schools because were in high school now. She has had her heart broken many times by a few boys. She is with a guy and is preganate by another guy and says she loves both. I have liked her pretty much since the 7th grade but havent ever told her because she is always with sombody else and i dont want to ruin our friendship that we have right now. Now that she is having a kid i feel that its too late for us. Should i tell her i like her or what should i do...Plz respond soon. (link)
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hey hun..sorry i havent been updated *woopsz* lol WhOa!! i`m like in the same predicament..ya kno what im sayin? im pregnate and i feel like a lot of relationships i've wanted to happen won't...it's not to late!! whoever this girl is probly is searching for a guy that will love her..n u sound like a best friend =) those r usually like-the best relationships 2 have!! well, good luck n i hope diz girl aint as stupid as i am..:-/...byebye!!
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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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jUsT teLL her yOu feel as if thatsz nOt exactly sOmethinq yOu want tO spend yOur HalloweeN niqHt dOinq. tRy tO aqqree oN dOinq sOmethinq eLse that niqht, still respectinq her priDe. shOw her yOu dO care abOut her opiniOn bUt yOu feel iT`sz silly.which it sOrt of is...hOpe i heLp!
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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo (link)
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dOn`t diss yOur best friend fOr a parTy!~ever!! eSpecially if yOu dOn`t barely knOw the qirl. Yeah, the ParTy qirl is popular and will help yOur status? bUt wOuld yOu like tO be knOwn as the qirl wHo diTches her bff fOr a party? There aRe qOnna b plentY of parTies trusT me..bUt oNly oNe truE besT friend iF yOu reaLLy wanna qO tO this paRty..maYbe yOu cOuld cOnvice yOur best friend tO qO wiTh yOu then mayb dO sOmethinq afterwardsz!
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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
**Anoynomous** (link)
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weLL yOu shOuld advise yOur friend On the bad thinqsz that can happen experimentinq with thEse druqsz...she may think they dOn`t hurt her but that`sz nOt even clOse...teLL her abOut the future she can have disreqardinq the druqsz...gOod Luck-Tiffany
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Me and my really good friend got in alot of fights and we used to be bestfriends for two years but things changed. We started fighting alot and she told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore becuz we fight so much. When I think of all the fun times we had when we were friends I really miss being her friend but she also said some really mean things to me so sometimes I think maybe we shouldn't be friends. I've tried apologizing to her but she doesn't listen.What should I do?? (link)
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WeLL i been in this situatiOn nOt such a lOnq time aqO..8 yearsz dOwn the drain...= / weLL i think yOu shOuld apologize fOr anythinq offending yOu may have said if yOu really want this friendship back. mOst Likely, yOu`ll never be as clOse as yOu were befOre but it`sz better then to have tO wOnder what WOULD have happened if yOu had just said sOrry! it`sz nOrmal fOr the best Of friendsz tO fiqht..sO dOn`t think every friendship is Oh sO perfect!! wHen yOu`re mad Of cOurse sOme thinqsz tend tO slip Out..if yOu have the qutsz to forqive her.she shOuld b a friend n dO the same!! just talk to her!-Tiffany
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okay my so called best friend has been talking bout me behind my back nd we have only been best friends for like 3 years bt it seems so much longer than that... and i believe the people around me that are telling me these things just because its something she would say and i dont want o thave anything to do with her because she has lied to me about a few things.. like she sent me pics to some guys online and claimed that i was her thinking i wouldnt find out bt i did cuz i cheked her email... i confrontd her yet she lied to me anyway .. i really dont want to be her frend cuz im so afraid of getting hurt again .. bt i dont wanna be a bitch either nd talka ll this shit bout her.. and i have tried talkin to her about it bt shes not that kind of person.. she doesnt have a " heart " she doesnt care bout other peoples feeling sother than her own... i act like me nd her have the most perfect friendship bt we really dont... i have just let her walk over me like a doormat these years and ive just noticed that.. ppl tell me that they have seen this before bt dint wanna say anything... wut shuld i do ?! - nina (link)
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well nina i`Ve knOwn yOu fOr quiTe a Lonq time nD i can say yOur the sweeTest thinq!! I don`T think yOu deserve tO qO thrOuqh any mOre sTuff that yOu`ve aLready had tO deaL with.. maYb yer friend is jealOus of yOu..i mean yOur prettier,smartEr,more popular with guys right? what wOuldnt make her jealOus? i ThinK nO mattEr hOw much yOu talk tO her she reaLLy wOnt undersTand hOw yOu feel..yOu obviously want to be treated LikE yOu treat TheM buT no one`z ResPectinq that..sHo heR hOw yOu really feel and LeT her knOw abOut all the thinqSz yOu reaLLy dOnt appreciaTe! hOpe i heLped qirl!-Tiff
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okay i have these friends who are seniors and they mean so much to me! i am a junior and i want to give them something that they can enjoy so i decided to make a sort of photo album/ yearbook of friends sort of thing. so anyway i want to kno if u guys have any ideas on how i can get started or comments about what i should put in the book! if u have any suggestions on where i can call to get info about making a book or going on the web please let me kno!!
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Put some of the memories and things you like most about each of your friends. Of course,add pictures of the fun times you all shared and make it creative. Show them how much you care by writing special messages to them or something that would make them feel loved by you. A lot of shopz have materials for making scrapbooks and good ideas.-Tiffany
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i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
i rate good! (link)
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It seems like your old friends are just adjusting to you being gone. They are telling you things changed just to make you sort of...wonder. When I switched schools everyone said things are a lot better now and everyone feels nicer about being there...which really isn't true. Either your old friends are either having problems adjusting to you being gone,or they really aren't friends at all. If you really want to know-ask them how and why do they think that things have "supposively" changed. -Tiffany
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