Hey wutz up.....this iz ur gurl MIZZ_C!!!!IM just hear 2 help...im pretty nice but i like 2 be honest so if i hurt you den i apologize...LOL..other then that i just like 2 stick 2 my motto."Be realistic be truthful be honest be real". I answer pretty quick so just come 2 me with ne thing u nedd answered. I'll try mi best=)
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I have a serious question, Okay my best i think she is lik ebi-polar or something, she is the best friend ive ever had and shes been there for me through a whole bunch. But i think hse is bi-polar or somehting because one minute everythings normal and then the next she just snapps on me over the littlest stuff.. I mean her freindship means alot to me but i dont kno what im supposed ot do ... PLEASE HELP ME !!! (link)
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Tell her what makes you mad. Because maybe she doesnt kno what she does. If it continues maybe itz just her personality or maybe itz something serious. Just keep a eye on how she acts for now.
-MIZZ_C
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Hi see im stuck in the middle of 2 friends that are guys and their both my age , they boh want to go out with me me Im looking for MR Right , what do I do??? Jenipher PLz help (link)
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I say talk 2 both not seriously though. Just get to kno the both of them and when you come to a decision then you should start dating. And tell the other one you just want to be friends. this way it wont make you look snobby and you did give them both a chance.
-MIZZ_C
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks! (link)
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Ye well i think that you should just start talking to people in your classes. Usually i alwayz make friends on the first day. Ppl arent really that mean, if your preppy then you should bre able to make friends really soon.Good luck!!
-MIZZ_C
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one of my friends (a boy) asked me if he can sleep over my house sometime. He said he knows he has to meet my mom and that his parents would say yes. We havent hung out alot, but we are good friends. he said he can stay in toen longer than. I dont think he is the kind of boy into all "that". I trust him and everything and im really happy he wants to hang out with me and it would be hard for me to tell him no. I already told him he probably could. My mom said my other friend(boy) could once. i dont no if he really wants to hang out or if he just wants to so he can stay in town or for other reasons.....How should i aproach this situation and what should i tell him? How should i aproach my mom with the idea? (link)
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Ask what he wants to dow hne he comes over. Ask him what he plans on doing like movies or video games. if he say anything wierd like i just wanna talk then maybe he has another reason for coming over. ask your mom the same way you asked last tyme 4 your other friend.
-MIZZ_C
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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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Tell them that sthey need to understand that you are friends with both of them and that they cant be saying stuff like that about you r friend. Tell them that it makes you feel uncomfortable. and that they need to except the fact that you have more then just one friend.
-MIZZ_C
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I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.
Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.
Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
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yes u are jeaulous but thats only because your used to her being only your friend. and maybe you want her to stop complimenting other people and pay all of her attention to you. MAybe she doesnt kno how you feel. Try telling her that you feel uncomfortable when shes does stuff like that.
-MIZZ_C
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OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this?? (link)
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Try to think before you say sumthing. If your friends make fun of you and itz something you wanna change then you should just think of it as an improvement on yourself.hope i helped=)..
-MIZZ_C
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mmmk.....well i've liked this guy for eh 3 yrs i think and we r pretty good friends. i like him A LOT but am scared to make a move cus i dont kno if he likes me. i keep getting mixed signals and stuff from him so i have no clue how he feels. its driving me freaking crasy. i have no way of getting in touch with him cept for AIM and he is never on! i have asked his friends to tell him but they never get around to it and i just really need to have a way to tell him b4 its too late! the reason i didnt tell him during skool was because i dont like rejection(even tho it happens i kno) and i felt like i was being pressured to tell him. also if he did like me and ask me out i would go otu with him but whenever we broke up i wouldnt want our friendship to b akward or not b friends at all. what to do?! (link)
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I think that you should tell him as soon as possible. Just simply go up 2 him and say that yo been having feelings for hom for a long time now and that you want too get to kno him better. IF he doesnt want to be with you just say that you wouldnt mind being hiz friend cuz a friend is better then nothing..Hope i helped=).
-MIZZ_C
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Ok i need some help. I'm 15, 5'2, kinda pretty I guess?? not the prettiest and not the ugliest girl in the school. The problem is that I'm shy. I know people tell me this all the time. I'm not shy around my friends at all, but when it comes to meeting new people I just dont know what to talk about! Nothing comes to mind when I'm around new people. and i dont want to say something stupid like "wow the weather is nice" or whatever. Help me! What should I say?? How do I become more outgoing with people? I think If i were more outgoing I might meet new people and meet new friends. am i right or wrong? (link)
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Your right..well just picture these new people as the friends that you already have. Do the same thingz around them dont reat them any different. But u might not wanna bring up any inside jokes that you and your friends might have that they might not get. You can simply start a convo by saying so wutz up, or wutz new, or wut are u doin this weekend...simple coverstaion starters. dont over do yourself though it might look pushy. and when ppl are laughing about a joke that you dont kno, if they bring up any subject that you can comment on do that.hope i helped.=)
-MIZZ_C
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how do u tell when people are flirting (link)
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You can tell wen someones being very nice, there alwayz around you. They compliment you they smile and laugh at all your jokes. Those are just a few examples of flirting.
-MIZZ_C
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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what (link)
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You should tell her but make it in a nice way. A way that wont hurt her feelingz.hope i helped.=)
-MIZZ_C
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I gotta lotta problems. okay so last year i had a ton of friends and i fellt on top of da world. But den I moved to anoter skewl and I only have 2 friends. I dunt know what ta do. Everything was so gooooooood befor an now I try to hang out wit other peeps but it seem like no one wants to git to know me. wassup wit dis?? i need sum helllpppp (link)
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k well, u should alwayz know that moving to a new skool doesnt alwayz garantee that everyones gunnalike you. the most i can say is to just be nice to everyone encounter n just let ppl get 2 kno u. IF ppl dont seem intersted then itz there loss.Hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do. (link)
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tell them 2 try it....it shouldaffect you unless u kno u did sumthin wrong. Dont do any back, u should alwayz have the upper hand.=)
-MIZZ_C
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what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
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wow!!.....well you need to tell your friend that your not that kind of person andthat you would never do that to her. Then you need to tell your riends boyfriend that if he knows he has a gurlfriend he should step off. respect ur space n stop chillin with you n strat chillin with iz gurlfriend.
-MIZZ_C
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my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do? (link)
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i think that if you kno that your best friend has a gurlfrined then you should leave him alone. Cause im pretty shur that if you had a boy friend n some gurl wuz alwayz on him u wouldnt be 2 happy. I think that you should leave that decision 2 him. If he feels that he likes you so muck that he would break up with hiz boyfriend then thats hiz choice.
-MIZZ_C
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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused... (link)
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I think maybe you just felt that he would be a really good friend. Nad maybe he does really wanna be my friend. Dunt worry guyz are just confusing like that sometymes.hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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i really need help.. my guy friend who used to be my best friend and we sorta had a fling i guess you could say for a while.. isnt talking to me anymore. he picks these random times where he decides hes not gonna talk to me for no reason and thats going on right now:( i dont know what to do i tried calling him and asked him why he was mad at me and he just said i dunno. what should i do!! nothing and just let him come to me or what!? help please i really miss my friend:( (link)
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MAybe he feels that you guyz were getting 2 close and he just need a break. Some tyme to himself. Give him some tyme and then go back to him. I hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me. (link)
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you should tell her thats whats shes doing isnt affecting only her. and because you care about her your telling her this. Sooner or later her actions are gunna catch up with her. Tell her that your only warning her and that your only trying to be the best friend u can be=)
-MIZZ_C
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there's this friend i have and she always lies to me, but then if i catch her in the middle of a lie, and am like well before you said this, shes like NO I DIDN'T. shes one of my best friends and shes fun to be around when shes not lying, but it gets really annoying...what should i do? (link)
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Talk 2 her n tell her that thers no need to lie. If you 2 cll ur selves best friends then you shud beable to telleach other the truth!!
-MIZZ_C
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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Get new friends=)
-MIZZ_C
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