ok...my name is Jessica im 15 years old and i am a very caring but outspoken person!!I love to help people with their problems...Im not saying im the best person to go to for advice but you can try it and ill tell you how i feel and what i would do if i was you and i will help you the best way i can...i have alot of problems in my life right now to so be on the look out for questions from me!! Love ya guyz!! *Jess*
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first off, i have a good friend. she at least seems to be. now today she came up to me and we made plans since she was ungrounded since she got an A on something or w/e... but then afterschool she comes up to me she`s like "I AM GOING TO ___`S HOUSE." ___ is well some girl who she tells me she hates, since i dislike the girl. but they always hang so w/e. well i was like ummm ok. because she had promised we had plans. then she decides to ignore me and she just lets her little group push me to the side. i don`t know what to do, because she is my best friend that lives in my state. my BEST friend moved across the country and it is the worst thing imagineable. HELP ME! is this girl who ditched me really my friend or not? (link)
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ok to tell the truth i dont think shes a good friend at all...because a true friend wouldnt ditch you for her other friends when yall made plans already...believe me i went through this same thing last year except i was homeschooled and my bestfriend went to school and she was friends with this girl that nobody liked and that had a problem with me because she said i was a prep or whatever and i just told her how i felt and it made her mad for awhile but it helped...maybe you should let her know how it feels to be ditched on...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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My friend stopped speaking to me beacuse of her other friend. I tried to apoligize but it didn't work. We haven't spoken in like 6 months and I never see her anymore because she moved. What would you do in this situation? What do you think of my friend?
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I dont think your friend is much of a friend to tell you the truth because even though her other friend told her something or whatever she sould still talk to you and be your friend nomatter what...so maybe you should still try to talk to her but if it doesnt work then just forget it she wasnt a good friend and you could do better...i hope everything works out for the best
your friend,
Jess
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my best friend is acting werid! she got mad at me because i told her i wanted my straightner back and she got all mad and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day and took me out of her profile.. what should i do? (link)
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ok i think you need to sit down and talk to your friend because she got mad at you for no reason...ask her why she got mad just because you told her you wanted your straightner back and see why she took you out of her profile!! Seems like shes having a few problems of her own so try to talk to her and settle things wither her and see how things go...hope this helps
your friend,
Jess
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OK,i have a guy friend named Klint he is 16 right and we were friends until we started liking eachother.....we went out and i cheated on him he broke up wit me and we decided to jus be friends,but after that we started hangin out right well...this is the part that confuzez me...when i'm wit him hangin out he alwayz wants to be all over me lik kissy,kissy and huggy,huggy, i alwayz ask why he is lik this and i tell him were jus friends but he ignores it.another part that confuzez me is that we broke up and r friends but he still treats me lik his gurlfriend.... and i don't want that plz i need advice!!Thnx!
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ok i know exactly how you feel i had the same exact ting going on with my ex...he still tries to be that way but i finally sat him down and told him that i didnt want him hangin all over me because i wanted to be jus his friend nothin more and it was hard but you have to do it or it will never get better...he may feel weird around you for a while but things should get better...hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.. (link)
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ok i hate to say this but your boyfriend doesnt care to much about you if he cheated on you 4 times especially with your friends!!Thats crazy if i was you i would get rid of the boyfriend i know its goin to be hard but he has done u so wrong and then i would make new friends and hopefully they'll stick by you and help u out some...hope this helped
your friend,
Jess
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my bestfriend and i have been friends for 2 years.well recently at school she ignores me or if l try talking to her she talks to someone else. when l asked her abt it she said we were still friends and that she was just being nice to the other girls but i dont believe it.do u guys think she is tired of being with me.confused im 15 and im a girl. (link)
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ok i went through this last year and believe me it is hard...maybe she wants to meet other people and start hanging out with other people more...some people get tired of being with the same friends all the time...i think you should sit her down again and talk to her about it again and see what she says...if she says yall are still friends tell her how you feel about it and see what she tells you then...maybe yall should take some time apart and you should find some new friends but still talk to her!!hope this helps believe me its hard...i went through this for a month last year and i finally realized i needed to hang out with other people to and give other people a chance but i still talk to that girl just not all the time and when i have a problem or whatever we still go to each other hope this helps!!
your friend,
Jessica
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do????????? (link)
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ok i think you two should sit down and talk about this...believe me i go through this all the time with my bestfriend to...but if you dont like her then you should be as close friends with her and you was...i think if you dont want to be that close of friends anymore or whatever just talk occasionally like sometimes on the phone or maybe when you see eachother at school or out somewhere but dont become enemies with her...tell her if she ever needs somebody to talk to or whatever that you're there for her!! Hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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How do you get an ex-friend to stop fucking talking to you. I'm usually good at getting people to leave me alone, but this guy is insane. He stopped talking to me for a while but now he is starting again despite when I tell him to leave me alone. Any ideas? (link)
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ok i think you should try to avoid him the best way that you can...if that doesnt work then just tell him how you feel and that you just dont want him around you...
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ok my best friend since a year ago and i get along really well for girls like we dont talk bad about each other or anything right? but now ive started to realize all she cares about is herself like today at lunch her and a friend werent gonna go to lunch bc they went to the library and i was in the line w/ my friend and when we got back she had moved my lunch across the table and sat down in my spot i kno its the stupidest thing to get mad about but i am and the bigger reason is we made plans over the summer to go to fright fest with each other and it turned into a group thing but now she wants to ditch us and go to a friends party instead and she promised me shed go and shes only known this guy for like 2 months i thought friends were more important she wants me to go sunday instead of saturday but i dont want to bc my other friend are counting on me to go and i dont want to just ditch them like that what should i do??? shes starting to get on my nerves and starting to blame me for stuff that happens that is totally out of my control likes shes so innocent and doesnt deserve whatever happens to her anyways sorry this is so sorry but please, help!!! (link)
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ok i've been through the same thing soo many times...but i think you should confront your friend about how shes been acting...and i think that since you've already made plans to go to this fright fest on saturday then you should still go dont let her rule your life...and if she was a true friend she wouldnt blame you for stuff that you didnt do to make her look all innocent and all...but talk to her about how you feel and see what happens
your friend,
Jess
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There's this guy I know, and well, let's call him *Andrew* . I talked to *Andrew* like ONCE. and all i ever said was if he was a sophomore and he's like yea. So that's it. So anyways, i have myspace and i found him on there and i was like HEY! OMGGG! and i was like hey i talked to you like once and stuff and hes like ohh yea i remember you. But before i ever sent him that message, i heard he was having this halloween party. So anyways, i kinda see him like almost everyday. He's in my P.E period and when i walk out of English i see him around. But ever since i sent him that message, we've talked about like random things. And everytime he sees me he either smiles,tapps me on the shoulder and wave or just waves. (I KNOW RIGHT!! GREAT..) But the problem is that i asked him what he was doing for halloween and hes just like uhhhhh ..well..ima C if theres a party i can go to..
UGHH! he didn't even have the nerve to tell me that HE was having a party. I mean, it wasn't like i was just talking to him to get invite me to the party! Now im a person who just doesn't give a flying f***. But somehow this just hurt me. I mean we've been talking just like i guess normal friends. But he could've just told me that he was having the party and i wouldn't care if i got invited. But its at the point that im about to cry. Not because i didn't get invited.But just because he couldn't be a man and tell me the truth. And i guess you can say i kinda liked him. But i dunno. Should i just forget about this? And why do guys do this?! After he sent me that message that he was like "im gonna go c if i can go to a party." i was just like "oh kool." .....should i talk to him like nothings wrong? should i wave to him and stuff when he waves back?. I know i should keep talking to him like nothings wrong because he doesn't know that i know. But ugh..its just weird. Please help me! i feel soo bad && im sorry if this is long!! =( (link)
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ok this is what I would do...i would just act like nothings wrong and find out if he's really having a party or not...if he is for sure ask him again what he's doing and see if he tells you the same thing or see if he comes out and tells you the truth...i hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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