OK,i have a guy friend named Klint he is 16 right and we were friends until we started liking eachother.....we went out and i cheated on him he broke up wit me and we decided to jus be friends,but after that we started hangin out right well...this is the part that confuzez me...when i'm wit him hangin out he alwayz wants to be all over me lik kissy,kissy and huggy,huggy, i alwayz ask why he is lik this and i tell him were jus friends but he ignores it.another part that confuzez me is that we broke up and r friends but he still treats me lik his gurlfriend.... and i don't want that plz i need advice!!Thnx!
Eva answered Thursday October 27 2005, 12:50 pm: Since the two of you have dated in the past, he probably feels that this is the only that he knows how to act when he is with you. Still it was his decision to break up, and if dating you again is something that he wants to consider... Well, he needs to inform you of this and discuss whether or not you would like to, as well.
Let him know that things arent going to work out the way things are going now. Tell him that his behavior is confusing and that you would like to fix it. He has to know that if he wants you as a friend, that there a certain boundaries to a friendship.
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday October 27 2005, 9:45 am: Talk to him. Just tell him that if you're going to be friends, ACT LIKE FRIENDS, and if you're going to ACT like you're dating, then DATE. Don't confuse them, it just makes things harder.
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