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OK I've tried everything I possibly could to fix this friendship but I can't. She's impossible!! She even signed on to my crush's xanga and left me a note telling me he liked me when it was really her. How do I rekindle this friendship? No smartass answers. I rate 5's! (link)
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Sounds like she has some major ass grudge against you, if you can find out what it is. Or if she's just nosy and annoying try to tell her to take it down a notch. If she's just being a bitch then get her out of your life completely but nicely so she doesn't try to make your life miserable afterwards. Just gradually stop hanging out with her. You can pick your friends.
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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers (link)
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Maybe you two have just hung out together so much that your tired of each other and you don't know it. It would probably make you both act different, which would explain more argueing and such. Or maybe he just went through something in his life that he can't explain to you and its getting to him. Or maybe...yes i thought of a lot of options....maybe you two have been together so long he decided he likes you. Anything is possible, I'm sure you'll get through it though, maybe just make a little more space for now and see what happens. It'll be okay. ~Ash
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ok, well there's this friend that i have, and her name is . i dont know what to do becuz she always lies to me. she always lies to me. when she says that she is coming over my house, she doesnt, she always goes to some other guys house. the last time she did this, she was missing for a day. i was really worried and so was her mom. i felt guilty, because what if something happened?? she was sposed to come to my house right?i just dont really know what to think. the last time she didnt show up, she was missing for 2 1/2 days, she doesnt even call me to tell me she's ok or even her mom. i know that i should just forget about her becuase she's using me to go to guys houses(her mom wont let her go to guys houses)and then i end up feeling bad, but the thing is she always tells me that she was sad and her da was drunk and hit her or something, she makes me feel bad for her and then i just cant stay mad. to add to all this, her boyfriend is thinkin of breakin up with her becuz he wants to go out with me. i just dont know what to think, if you cant help, thats ok i know it doesnt seem like much, but it is to me. by the way im a 14/f.....help pleez if u can!!!!!!! (link)
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I hate to tell you this, but you can't help her. You need to tell her mom and let them sort it all out. And sometimes people just want to be sad because it makes things go their way. And if she's visiting other guys houses, her bf deserves to be himself too, so he shouldnt feel obligated to be with her if she's not true to him. You never know, she may thank you later.
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I have a friend that graduated last year, I dont see him much, would it be too akward for me to call him now even though I havent seen hime but once in the last 4 months?
~Nokomis~ (link)
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No, it wouldn't be awkward, just say hey, i was thinking about you lately.
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my friend likes a guy that likes me and i don't like him. she will gladly step aside so that i can have him but i don't want him. he's perfect for HER. now she's saying she sucks because no one likes her and she's not pretty etc. but she IS pretty!! she is so awesome. what do i do to hint to the guy that my FRIEND is for him, not me? moreover, i want to remain friends with my friend. (link)
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let the guy know how you feel, then let your friend start flirting with him or something to let him know she likes him.
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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do (link)
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First of all, if you were friends with the guy before they started going out, your friend has absolutely nothing to get mad over. Second, there shouldn't be a problem with you taking a sip of his powerade, it doesn't mean you like him, and if you told your friend u dont like him and u have your own boyfriend then she should believe you. But my main advice is to let her get over it by herself, she needs to grow up a little bit, even though that sounds harsh. Sorry if I offended you or your friend at all, but i hope i helped.
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my best freind Tina and i have been best freinds sicne we were 4 and we're so close! well she and i became freinds w/ this girl kaylinn and at first her and tina were really close but a couple months later they got into a huge fight and hate eachother...now im caught in the middle...i would pick my bestfrind over kaylinn cuz i've known tina for ever but im not gunna just drop kaylinn. i dont want enemies! anyway i really dont kno what to do so if theres any tips feel free to say them (link)
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I got one tip for you...let them get over it, you shouldn't have to choose a friend just because they're fighting!
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Lately I've been feeling out of the loop. Like, my best friend, she says some really obnoxious things to me sometimes, and they make me feel bad. And I was going to go out with a couple friends, but i guess it didn't work out, and I heard that one of them is still going. It makes me feel better. Me and my best friend hang out a lot but I always feel like my other friends [ mostly guy friends ] like her more. Not to be egotistical, but sometimes I wonder why people don't like me. I mean, I know my bad side, but I'm a lot nicer that a lot of my friends. I've been feeling really empty lately. I don't know what to do to perk myself up and I want to know how to change, for the better, to make myself happier. Also, tomorrow is my friends birthday and I have this gift for him, but lately he's just kind of been ignoring me. he's the one that still going out tomorrow. I'm kinda of mad at him, but he probably doesn't know why. Should I still give hime the gift? (link)
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Of course you should give him the gift! He should like it a lot if you know what he likes, and the way to get your mind away from the people who are making your life sorta miserable is to find something really good to concentrate on...an activity or something different and interesting...because then you'll always have a topic of discussion for your friends, maybe something they can help with! But just be yourself and you should be okay.. but, just in case... “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr. Seuss
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okay well today in sports studyhall i was sittin down next to this kid lets call him *CHRIS* well CHRIS and I were talkin n then he was lookin at my cellphone n i have verizon so u can change wut u want it to say n mine use to say lets call me *ASHLEY* and so it use to say ASHLEY loves you and then CHRIS changed it to say ASHLEY IS HOTT and i was lke um k then i had to go get someone from a teachers room and then i came bak n CHRIS goes i put my number in ur phone book i was like umm ok..but the problem is i dont like him and hes been going out w. a friend of mine and she happens to be on my soccer team too and they have been goin out for like a year..so my question is y wud he do that?
i rate all 5's tnxs (link)
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He is one of those guys who sounds like to me like he wants to prove to the world that he can have anyone.
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okay, last year [my sophomore yr now im a junior], i had A TON of friends in each one of my classes..and i got to be REALLY close with them.like in each class i would have like 1-2 really really close friends who i didnt really hang out with at school outside of that class but in that class we always would talk and sometimes we would hang out on weekands...they would always tell me their boy/fam problems, and i would ALWAYS be there for them and give them adivce..i would even call them after school alot to make sure they were okay.....this year i dont have classes with alota the girls and its like they dont even care about me? theyll walk past me in the hall and smile and say hi but nothing big at all..theyre so unappreciative.. i mean i helped them on sum pretty serious issues they had...i feel so unappreciated and i feel like everything i ever did for them last year was a waiste even though it really helped them...how should i handle this? (link)
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You will always start to get separated from good friends...I have an awesome quote that a lot of people like... "As we grow up we learn that even the one person that wasnt supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once- and its harder every time. Youll break hearts too- so remember how it felt when yours was broken. Youll fight with your best friend. Youll blame a new love for things an old one did. Youll cry because time is passing too fast- and youll eventually lose someone you love. So take many pictures, laugh too much and love like youve never been hurt- because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you can never get back.."
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