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i have a best friend that keeps liking the same guy i do!!! and then when i go out with that guy and i really really like he she takes him from me!!! i was going out with this guy for almost 3 monthes going on 4 and she said to him that she thinks its a great idea for them to go out and instead of me and him going out soo he thought about it and he said oh what the hell and did!!! soo they only went out behind my bak for 3 weeks at least or i hope thats as long as they went out!! well my parents and her parents are like best friends and she always has to come over and i dont want her to at all!!! but there is nothing i can do i told my parents and their like well just put up with her just tonight over and over again!!! ok then she lies to much and gets me in trouble!!! then she thinks she is sooo much better than me in vball and she didnt even make it last year!!! so im just soo god damn tired of her!!! she will never leave me alone i tell her i hate her but she starts buying me things to suck up to me for what ever she has done!! which makes me even more angry!!! waht am i suppose to do?! i mean i have tryed everything but its not working!!! (link)
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hey...well i have the same kind of frined...so what i did was just ingore her...i told her to leave me alone stop talking to me..an when she went to suck up n buy me shit i didnt take it an just gave it back..an with the guy thing..just tell her not to bother with you...also just curse her the fuck out an tell her to shut up an get a life of your own..an tell her the truth of everything .
hope i helped
tasha
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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!! (link)
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well im goin through the same my friend runied ma life..and now im not frineds with her becasue she has been 2faced...but if she is doin alot wrong to you then dont be cool with her...i mean if she has been that bad then dont be anythin to
deal with her...when she talks to you dont talk to her treat her how she treated you..well hope i helped..
:)tasha
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Ok hey well i have these 2 friends that i always have classes w/ we rarely never have class together maybe like 2 hrs outta the day..but in all the hours we do..they never really wanna talk to me they always ignore me like im not there and leave me out..and if i don't talk they get pissed off..and im sick of them absolutely am sick of there stupid crap they throw fits if i dont freakin give them there way..and lately..its really gotten to me cuz mostly this one girl is always talkin about her boyfriend..and im so0o sick of hearing about him b/c trust me hes my ex boyfriend and hes not that friggn special! we fought all the time..n he just wants her for sex..but you cant tell her that b/c shes so0o stuck up! so0o i guess my questoin is..how do i talk to these people about my built up anger that could explode @ ne moment and get tonz of people pissed off @ me!
Thanks a Bunch
Ill rate if i think its good or if u attempt
xOvEr AnD oVeR aGaInx (link)
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well..what i have some of the same probs of my own..and those you say friends arent really your true frineds..they think you will DO ANYTHING for them no matter how pissed they are ..what you need to do is not talk to them let them talk to you ...and if they get pissed off becasue you didnt just do what they do to you..they will soonder notice how you feel upon them an they will stop ..well hopefully...an for your other friend about your ex...well tell her how annoying she is gettin always ytalkin about him ..i did it an ma frined yeah well she got mad but she got oveer it...so just talk it out with her..and with the other 2 treat them the way they treat you..
hope i helped
-tasha
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Me and my best friend Krystal want to ask you this. Theres this girl, Holly, she keeps butting into me and Krystal's friend ship. I mean coming between me and Krystal. I feel that she wants to take my place. Its really getting me mad because she is really annoying to! Anyways she already slept over krystal's house once [ i was there to ] but shes that type of person that you get sick of quickly and Krystal doesnt want her to sleep over tonight. How can we let Holly down gently?? (link)
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well same with me and my frined..there is this one gurl in class who calls my frined her rol model..yeah well just tell her that your frined is not aloud to have two people over at once and that you and your frined krystal alredy made plans so..and if she dont uinderstand..then tell her how you feel about her ..i mean it will only get worse ..soon enough she'll start to dress like you 2/..happened to me and cus ..so just tell her that your frined can only have 1 frined over and it was you..and if she doesnt uunderstand then just tell her how you an frined think about her and how annyoing she is..hope i hleped
-tasha leigh
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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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ok..Well..1st your never to old for anythin no matter what u say or others..and also you should tell her start out..holdin this in may make her alot happier an more anxious to go trick or treating..so tell before its to late an you feel guilty and then go...it wont be soo bad..but if you dont wanna and she does..then just tell her out ...she should under stand.and if she doesnt and its all mad or anythin then thas not a true frined...so tell her a..
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should I be proud of what i am? (link)
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Yes..you should always be proud of who you are...no matter what you are or what people say..everyone is there own person...no1 can stop you from eatin dog food ...or even being gay..there are many different people out there...You should be proud on who you are n who you wanna be not on what others think and want you to be...So think on it everyone has there own self and ways on who they wanna be,,.dont think any wrong of it
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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Okay Lisen..i understand what your goin through but alot of people are goin through the same thing i think you should just try as hard as possible and just let it be..dont let them get to you .It belive i kno but you kno once your gone they are gonna be way worse ..so Im telling you kno jus dont run away dont be bad ..and just be yourself and enjoy life
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Okay there's this person who I know and like they have always depended on me for like a lot of stuff since like 7th Grade and now were going to be Juniors in High school. but we never hang out like maybe ocassionally on a friday during the school year. and like recently they called me like at 1:30 in the morining for me to come pick them up and take them to my house and I'm not 16 yet and not legally to drive but my family is out of town....so they told me to pick them up from somewhere because they did something really stupid and didn't want to risk getting in trouble with there parents...but yet me get in trouble for several things....what would you guys consider this person? (link)
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OKay ..Now if a frined is risking for you 2 get in troubnle then jus dont help her at all..i mean its happening all over the world kids driving with no liesnse..so im tellin ma sis went trough and she aint no longer frinends with that person...so Try to follow oN what you think is good and you should have the right choice..Hope i helped /..
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ok me n my friend got in trouble with the cops tonight and well both of our parents know now and were BEST FRIENDS i mean we've been there for each other everytime we could and we live in a pretti nice neighborhood with nice house and nice people and me n her we relate with alot of things and we were at the park burning stuff and a constable saw us and we tried running and well she caught us and now were both royally screwed in the ass and i still wanna see her shes my best friend and i cant loose her what do i do??? (link)
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Okay..Lisen i have some of the similar Prombles..Tell your Parents that she is your best frined an call your friend tell who ever answers like Her mom or Dad and say a diff name if you aint allowd to talk to her an then talk to her about it an tell her how we need to get together and talk fam with fam......And about the whole talkin well another thing i had to do was SUCK UP..lol it was hard but im aloud to hang with ma frined again..Finally ...So if you could jus make plans to meet up with you your frined an her parents and jus talk about this ..then you should jus be fine...Hope i helped..Thankz
Tasha
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