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My best friend..always copies me. I HATE going shopping with her cus like ill buy something & then shell get the exact same thing! ugh & for my birthday i wanted coach shoes and shes like omg me too! and i was like ..hmm i think i wana get highlights and shes like meee tooo! and always agrees with me even when im wrong!! how do i get her to stop help me pleasee (link)
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maybe she just really likes you and wants to be with you, after all she is ur best freind
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15/f
Everyone is so incredibly jealous of me. I know I'm a nice person and that I don't show off so I don't see how this has happened. My 'best friends' have all turned against me (twice now with different groups, once this year and once last year).
I only have one real friend. People are always complaining how smart, pretty, athletic, rich, stylish etc I am. Never once have I bragged and I NEVER act like I'm better than someone. In fact, I have struggled a lot to achieve everything I have and I love myself. I know exactly who I am.
What I don't understand is why this happened to me or how to get by it. I have tried heart to hearts, ignoring it and everything in between.
I know every single person in my grade at my school (we live in a pretty isolated town) so I can't exactly meet new people. I also don't WANT to forgive the people who have done such mean things to me in my past. Everyone is just so insecure.
How do I get through this? Is there any hope? (link)
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of coarse there is hope, theres always hope, you just have to believe in yourself and you'll find it. Now heres what you should do. Find somewehere where everyone can hear you or confront each of them individually, and tell them that your sick and tired of them talking behind your back and spreading gossip. The truth is your not doing anything wrong, ther just making it look like you did something wrong. Who do you hang out with? I mean, you have to be tight with someone in your school. or get one of your past freinds, and talk to them. if they were once your freind, they'll find that inner-freindship and understand. if they really and trueley understand, they'll be willing to help you. I really hope i helped and good luck!! I'm totally on your side!! =) Dont be shy feel free to e-mail me and tell me how it goes!!
-Jan
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This girl is real pretty and smart and you know all that stuff. We used to be so close but as far as I know my best friend and I hate her. She cannot keep a secret. I talked to her about it she said she'd stop but she's not! She still thinks we are friends but I can't agree with her. Help Me! (link)
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Set her straight and tell her to be your friend and keep a secret, or just go on about her buisiness. She has no right dumping your secrets in the air.
Hope i helped and feel free to email me back
peace
Jan
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my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.
[15/f; friend's 14] (link)
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first thhiing is to telll her to take a pregnancy test. If its positive, then just tell her to relax and u guys will go through it together.
Hope i helped
peace.
-jan
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i just moved to san diego. i want to make more friends but i dont know what to say to them. im not out going person. im really shy too. i dont want to say anything that sound stupid or ask stupid question. (link)
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This is going to sound really corny, but just be yourself, and say what you feel. Its better then being someone your not.You should really be more outgoing. My friend used to be so shy until she decided one day not to be. She took up acting (think about it??) and now she is hyper and funny and so far from shy.
Peace.
-Jan
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MY FRIENDS ARE HORRIBLE!
They can't go ONE place without causing MAJOR drama, someone is always crying, there always embarrassing me, i hate them. I CAN'T STAND THEM. I go to a catholic school, so its not like i have all the choices in the world to make friends with people.
How can I make them better?
or what can i do!?!!! (link)
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oh crap, omg i feel so bad. im in catholic school and THE SAME crap happens. I don't know what it is about Catholic schools, but even at parties and stuff PRETEND YOU DONT SEE THE BAD STUFF thats what I do hehe and end up having a blast with people I never got to know.
if it doesnt work, tell me what happened, and ill try to suggest better
peace.
-jan
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My best friend's birthday was at the end of August. I got her an amazing gift before her bday even came, but the thing is - I have not given it to her! We sort of lost touch during August & September. We go to the same school, but we aren't as close as we were years ago. I want to give her the gift (she knows I got her something) but I feel like an idiot giving it to her so late. What should I say/do without making it seem like her friendship isn't important to me? (link)
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Just be like "Happy Late birthday!!!" and smile, and appologize for being late and give her a hug
peace.
-jan
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well i have this so-called best friend.SHe can be lovely but she see's everything as a competition
Whenever I get my hair cut or get something new, she comes in with something to try and outdo me? I really dont see the point.Its like everything is a competition! And then she copies me with stuff and then claims its her own idea and try's to turn people against me.I know for a fact shes been bitching about me aswell but then when i confront her she just try's to suck up to me.
I would also confront her about all the competition but she just try's to turn it all back on me and its so frustrating.My mum thinks shes just jealous of me.But I have no idea what to do.
Someone help please..
muchloveamiixxxxxxxxxx (link)
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For a while ive had the same problem, but here what you do...
Just explain to her that if you guys are freinds, shouldn't you be happy for eachother, instead of trying to compete?
Another thing that may be your problem is that, your showing you care and letting her know whats wrong (dont worry, thats a good thing) but try not to over-do it, because when she knows your making a big deal out of it her plan has suceeded.
Peace.
-Jan
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ok so im 13/f and my friend (13/f) goes out with like every boy in the school and i know you like cant go out with your best friends ex but shes like getting them and dumping them. what can i do? (link)
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Sit her down 9where she cant show off) and talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and if she responds in a positive way, then HAPPY FREINDSHIP, if not then im sure that there are many of BFF's in the sea.
Lemme know how the advice goes.
Peace.
-Jan
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i have this guy who is my best guy friend. we've been friends for a little more than a year, and it's been great. we don't go to the same school anymore, but it seems like we always have time for each other online - on myspace and AIM and stuff. last night, i started to wonder if i still like him as a friend or more than that. most of the time, i catch myself thinking about him daily, and getting jealous if he talks to a girl. sometimes i think it's just because i care a lot about him, and i don't want him to like a girl that won't feel the same way back, but sometimes i think that maybe i have a crush on him. i don't know what to do. my friends say me and him make a good couple, and i can see why they would think that, but i don't know what to think. is it still friendship or more than that? (link)
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let him know everything you just told me. After all, you said he was your best guy freind.
-jan
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Ok so here is the story. Last night i went to a party and my friend's crush was there. I knew that she likes him. she likes two other guys too. well i was kind of all over this guy last night we didnt hook up or anything just alot of hugging and stuff and flirting and i know that she saw. but she like never tried to even talk to the guy. i don't know if i like him or anything. anyways, was i being a bad freind? should i talk to her about it? what should i do? (link)
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Okay,
i think you should talk to her and see what she says, and you arent a bad freind, but it might've appeared that way to you other friend.
-Jan
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i love my friends and all but i dk wat to do, i know that im bitchy and all but they push the fact that i am WAY TOO MUCH i try not to be because i know i am and i know that its not always a good thing but i dk what to do about it .. how do i explain to them that this is the way that i am and i dk how to change , andhow do i tell them that i cant change but im sick of hearin about it???HELP ME PLEASE!!! (link)
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U wanna know? Okay.
Tell them exactly what you just told me, if theyre your real freinds, theyll understand, if they ignore it, then their not worth it.
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