I known this guy since 6th grade. In 8th grade we got really close. He always made me laugh and everything.We would look at eachother and just laugh sometimes. We had soo many memories. He told me that he had feelings for me and I had feeling for him too.We talked all the time.We couldnt go together because I went with his friend before and he went with mine . I told him that I was moving away and I wasent going to go to the same highschool as him. We talked that last day of school. And after that we kinda lost touch and we didnt talk. I tried texting him and calling him but he wouldnt never reply or answer. I moved back and when I got back and I saw him at my highschool. Hw hugged me for so long and smiled for so long like he missed me . I told him i was mad at him because he hasent even tied talking to me. He said that he was mad at me for leaving cause he liked me . I put my books in his locker. And the fist few days he was so happy to see me . HE would hug me and say hey. Now I dont know if he still likes me beause he dosent hug me unless I ask him too. And he dosent talk to me much like he use to. He dosent say hey unless I say hey first. I am soooo confused. Does he like me or not?
I would suggest that you start talking to him again because it has been a will and he may not still like you. just become friends like you guys were and see what happens. Don't rush things, let them go as they are meant to happen. If after you guys are talking for awhile he shows signs of liking you again you will know. Hope I helped.
~Jani~
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I am 12/F and there is this guy that I was best friends with for 4 years. But on my 5 birthday, WHEN I TURNED 5, he kissed me. He always gives me presents like he's raided his mom's jewelry box for presents. Now he will text me and ask stuff like "what level are we at" and I don't like him I mean he's kinda rude and he likes to show off. I'm confused so help. Please?
Hun the best thing you can do is tell him that you don't like him, Trust me. when it comes to situations like these its the best you can do. I also think that a kiss at the age of 5 doesn't mean much. Just tell him you just want to be friends and thats thats. And as for the jewalry i would give it back to his mom as the previous answer said. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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So one of my best friends lives over an hour away from me. He used to go to the same school as me but moved. I wasn't friends with him then, but we're really close now. I've only gotten to spend time with him once over the course of the two years or so that we've been friends. We're both gay, and last year, I had strong feelings for him, but he told me I wasn't his type. Anyways, I don't think I have a crush on him anymore.
When we text, I feel fine;I feel like I'm talking to one of my close friends, not some guy I like... But for some reason, whenever I look at pictures of him, I get extremely depressed. Whenever he's flirting with someone, I get really upset. I don't why I feel like this, though. In September, he's moving to South Carolina, and he said we could hang out over the summer a little bit. It makes me feel bad that I'm only going to be able to see one of my best friends two or three times more at the MOST in my life (or at least for a few years.) I feel like he does more bad in my life than good, but I don't think it would be right to shut him out of my life. What do I do?
Thank you!
-Corey
If he is a really good friend then you guys can make it work. theres so many ways to communicate now a days. For example Facebook or Skype. But it also seems like you do still feel something for him. So I say keep the communication between you guys. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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a few months ago, I became really close friends with a guy who I was in band with (he's a senior and i'm a freshman). we would text everyday and sit together on bus rides. it always seemed like he was flirting with me but nothing ever really happened until one bus ride where we held hands. i started to trust him more and i ended up telling him a big secret of mine a few weeks later. he helped me through a hard time and he asked me if i liked him...i wasn't sure but i told him yes. later he told me that i shouldn't like him. i kinda covered it up but after that, we started talking less and he started hanging out with my best friend instead of me. what hurt me the most was seeing them hold hands and talk and how he stopped talking to me. looking back on it all, i do miss him but i also realized that he is really full of himself and he's kind of a jerk. despite that, i think about him all the time and it makes me really sad. what are some ways that i can get over him and our used-to-be friendship.
I was in the same situation as you. I would say that you make some new friends. You never know you might meet some pretty intreasting people that well get you mind of him. You said it yourself his a jerk so there is no point in being sad over him. Try concentrating on other things like school. Hope I helped Hun, let me know if you need anything else.
~Jani~
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I have this best friend, he's a boy, I'm a girl. I am 16 and he is 17. We are like brother and sister. I trust him with all of my secrets and he tells me a great majority of his problems because he knows I would never judge him or try to sway him to any way. We met in third grade and we have been so close since and we are now in eleventh. He is such a mama's boy, I don't mind that, I know that he will have great respect for girls because of that. Now, everyone thinks that him and I are going to date in the future because of how we are with each other. I make him do things most people can't. He is NOT a people person and I made him go to a dance where he doesn't like most people there and I got him to go to a party where all he knew was me and the host. His mom said I am breaking him out of his shell and she couldn't be happier. I feel like we are just amazingly close, everyone else thinks our actions are because we like each other. Like, he sings to me on his guitar, he holds doors open for me, when I text him upset he sometimes calls me so we can talk and he will stay up all night until he knows I am better. He always says that I can talk to him about anything, I remember one time I was upset but I thought he didn't really care because he was at a party so I told him to not worry about it and he said "don't tell me to not worry about you. Talk to me, what's wrong? I care!" He scares me sometimes with his depression and his need to always be perfect because of his brother and how good his brother is at everything. His exgirlfriend actually told me that I need to talk to him because she feels like he is hurting himself and I did because I knew he would tell me the truth. We talked and he apologized not for the situation but he said sorry numerous times for worrying me because I don't deserve all the problems he dumps on me. He came to my friend's party the other day after 3 days of asking and he was supposed to stay for an hour. Her and I were the only people he knew so we stayed together the whole time and he wound up staying for three hours. I don't think we like each other at all. Again, I feel like we are just so close because we knew each other for nine years.
Do you think we like eachother?
Thanks!
if you don't feel anything for him then you don't like him, im close to my best friend (guy) and we don't like each other it could just be that you guys are just very comfortable with each other and trust eachother. but if you do like him then thats ok to. if you not sure tthen go through what you feel for him and you will figure out if you do or don't. hope i helped!
p.s- to me it seems like you do like each other but like i said it could be that you guys have known each other for so long.
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I tryed to apologize to my friends for freaking out and they replyed with this text: "Well maddie doesnt care and neither do i because you do it all the time and now its getting old and we're sick of it and we arent do the buisness thing!!!! That mite hav sounded mean but youve done WAY worse. You think your perfect and your hav 2 compete and you think every time you apolagize no one ever cared . Your still my friend but can you pleaz work on that. If you do EVERYONE will 4giv you and so will me and maddie. Diff people hav diff opinions and everyone can be rite cuz everyone has a diff opinion." How should i reply to that?
Okay so this is what you say: I will try to change my ways and I want us to be friends again. If you say this they will probably except that you are trying and you guyz will be back together in no time! Hope this helps, thanks for asking!
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i have two friends that i'm particularly close with. the three of us used to hang around each other all the time. one of my friend, A, used to have a guy that she's close to. obviously to all of us he was just playing with her but she really loved him. after they broke up (he really broke her heart), she confided with the other friend B the most. then we all found out that B is dating the guy. Now B and the guy are all lovey-dovey and A is heartbroken. The problem is im loyal to both of them and it's hard for me to remain sane. When im with A, i get mad at B for being inconsiderate. When im with B, i get mad at A (she doesnt have the best personality). I end up saying things i don't want to say to each of them about the other friend. I regret things i've said and talked about. i feel like a hypocrite. how can i go on? how do you split your attention between two best friends who hate each other?
okay i was in the same situation as you. you have got to stop talkng about them because its only going to make it worse. also your friends, you cant force them to forgive each other so just give it time. your going to have to be like a vualt when one of them tells you something you cant tell the other. thats the only way to do it and just hope they make up soon. you've got to stop talking about them because your going to seem like a hypocrite. hope this helps!
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I have many girls as friends, and some of them are really close like siblings. When they get a new boyfriend, I act hostile and give off a pissed off vibe. All I wanna do is protect my friend from getting hurt, but am I getting in their way?
I think that you are. my advice would be to meet the boyfriends first and if you think that they are bad for them then you can get alittle protective. but don't get overly protective because then your friends are not going to want you to be around their boyfriends which could but a gap in your friendship. hope this helps! ;)
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I have a once great 'best friend' whom I was very close to, but lately she's been a bitch and baby, honestly, and flipping on my other friend and me over nothing. I can't take it anymore. Should I stay her friend?
i say if you are close to her and think the friendship is worth it then keep being her friend. But talk to her and ask her why she is acting this way. Because you never knoaw maybe there is something happening at home that is upseting her or my be shes just having a bad week. talk to her and then decide what to do about the friendship. hope this helps :)
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14/f
My friend, a 15 year old girl, is sometimes like a bratty little kid. She gets upset if she can't have her way and if someone asks her to stop something.
For example, my other friend has a notebook which we all write stories in. I'll call her Lydia. The childish friend, let's say Jen, gets it more than anyone else and throws a little tantrum if Lydia won't give it to her or asks for it back. She also ripped out several pages which nobody can use now.
She also thinks it's ok to write on other people's things without asking. She writes all over the notebook in Sharpie just because she felt like it (which she said) and on Lydia's shoes (WTF?!) and when we tell her it needs to stop, she gets angry and ignores us. She came over to my house yesterday and had the nerve to write on my brother's Legos in Sharpie. Her excuse? He 'always' hits her on the head. He's a little kid!
What do I do? She's being a baby and a brat and lives in her own little world, complaining about everyone else. It needs to stop. Any advice? Thank you!
This girl needs a wake up call! don't put up with her tantrums. she is 15 she sould not be acting this way. when she throws a tantrum simple ignore her, stop talking to her and if you keep doing this hopefully she well get the message that she is driving her friends away with the way she is acting.
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i'm a 17years old girl and all my life i have been dealing with 'haters' as friends, i've have never had a friend that care more about being there for each other than how i look. I have always been the one to make friends, but somehow its hard to get along with the girls than the boys...and some of them hate me because i get along more with the boys than the girls...My so called girl friends always try to make me feel bad about myself and one of them went as far as telling people that i have 'white liver' this in the caribbean means someone with mix culture sleeps with a lot of guys...what more can i do to let them know i'm not the enemy...please help me!!
This people are not your friends. Real friends don't treat you that way. I say you don't have to prove anything to them. There is nothing wrong with having guy friends, its less drama and hate. If these girls treat you this way then don't even bother with them. Friends are sopposed to be there for each other not to bring you down.
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