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Friendship into more?
I have this best friend, he's a boy, I'm a girl. I am 16 and he is 17. We are like brother and sister. I trust him with all of my secrets and he tells me a great majority of his problems because he knows I would never judge him or try to sway him to any way. We met in third grade and we have been so close since and we are now in eleventh. He is such a mama's boy, I don't mind that, I know that he will have great respect for girls because of that. Now, everyone thinks that him and I are going to date in the future because of how we are with each other. I make him do things most people can't. He is NOT a people person and I made him go to a dance where he doesn't like most people there and I got him to go to a party where all he knew was me and the host. His mom said I am breaking him out of his shell and she couldn't be happier. I feel like we are just amazingly close, everyone else thinks our actions are because we like each other. Like, he sings to me on his guitar, he holds doors open for me, when I text him upset he sometimes calls me so we can talk and he will stay up all night until he knows I am better. He always says that I can talk to him about anything, I remember one time I was upset but I thought he didn't really care because he was at a party so I told him to not worry about it and he said "don't tell me to not worry about you. Talk to me, what's wrong? I care!" He scares me sometimes with his depression and his need to always be perfect because of his brother and how good his brother is at everything. His exgirlfriend actually told me that I need to talk to him because she feels like he is hurting himself and I did because I knew he would tell me the truth. We talked and he apologized not for the situation but he said sorry numerous times for worrying me because I don't deserve all the problems he dumps on me. He came to my friend's party the other day after 3 days of asking and he was supposed to stay for an hour. Her and I were the only people he knew so we stayed together the whole time and he wound up staying for three hours. I don't think we like each other at all. Again, I feel like we are just so close because we knew each other for nine years.
Do you think we like eachother?
Thanks!
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if you don't feel anything for him then you don't like him, im close to my best friend (guy) and we don't like each other it could just be that you guys are just very comfortable with each other and trust eachother. but if you do like him then thats ok to. if you not sure tthen go through what you feel for him and you will figure out if you do or don't. hope i helped!
p.s- to me it seems like you do like each other but like i said it could be that you guys have known each other for so long.
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