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Should I dump him?
i've been with this guy for about a year and i just have thoughts to break up with him but then they pass then the next few days they come back. he really irritates me now for like no reason but i hide it. i know if i dump him im gonna probably still want him but i just dont even know what i want. im really busy lately and i dont know if hes even worth stayin with even though i thought he was perfect for me.
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One way to look at this is that you are under stress and then when your boyfriend comes along and demands some of your time, too, it becomes like the straw that broke the camel's back.
Now there are two options here:
1. Just to offload some stress, you can simplify your life and dump him, which will leave you more "me time" to relax and do what you want to do without having to worry about anyone else's considerations.
2. You can keep the relationship, but find a way to better compartmentalize how you view your life. In other words, you have to be better about scheduling the time he needs with you to feel part of the relationship while being able to leave what ever is making you busy behind once you are done with that for the day.
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I'm going to put this real easy for you if your not happy with him then what's the point? Think for a little while ask yourself an I happy with him? And also if you do break up with him make sure your not thinking of him occupy yourself good thing your busy bc that will distract you and it'll give you a chance to think about new boys bc there's a lot of guys out there for you
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Before you continue to think about leaving him let me explain a few things.
Relationships take a lot of time, work and commitment. I have been with my partner for 3 years and I'll be honest..Sometimes I want to strangle someone. However, Reality is I love my partner and we talk things out and we work through it.
Now, Do you love your boyfriend?..If you do, You will make it work. As much as relationships can be overwhelming at times it is perfectly normal. Now don't get me wrong, You are entitled to being single if that are what your wishes are but I just wanted to explain ^ this ^ before you acted on impulse. If you don't want to make a relationship work then obviously it wouldn't be worth staying in the relationship. Everyone has their fall outs but it is up too you whether to pick up the fall or not.
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