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humorist-workshop

Going to be famous.


Question Posted Monday May 30 2011, 12:33 am

Alright, there's a guy at my church who is a complete hit on youtube. He just got a record deal and he is sooo good at singing. He went to our local outlets and got mobbed with fans. I listen to his music and it's good, I dig it. He's a cutie and I would like to talk to him and maybe get to be his girlfriend if we get close enough. Now, my question is, should I talk to him about his music and how good he is? I don't know if I should let him know that I listen to his music or he'll think I am a crazy fan. I hear that famous people like to be treated like normal people because they are.

What do you think?
I am sixteen, female.
Thanks!


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lovealways1221 answered Monday May 30 2011, 6:56 pm:
you could talk to him about his music, but most fans usually just talk about the music..

The one's that stand out are the one's that are different than the rest.

In other words- If all the rest of the fans are talking to him about his music, then you should stand out and talk about something different.

For example, talk to him about his other hobbies. Most musicians include their other passions inside the lyrics to their songs. Like one of his songs might be about his passion for skateboarding or something. So maybe listen closely to his music and listen to the text and see if something in there pops up that you could talk about.

Just be yourself and be normal. Maybe get 2 ice cream's and ask him if he wants one and then just casually talk with him. If he mentions music, just be like- "oh yeah I heard about your music. I really like it" and then casually switch the topic. If you linger in the music category, he could just think of you as a fan wanting to talk about his music, rather than a friend wanting to talk to HIM.

good luck and just be yourself :)

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Willyouregret answered Monday May 30 2011, 10:28 am:
Well I'm not famous and I don't know what famous guys like but this is my strongest opinion just try to go up to him and be like hi my name is blah blah blah and basically be yourself he probally doesn't want a girl who's yeah an phrasing fan but just like let him know hey your music is pretty good because you never know he might want a girl who's into his music as well as him or he could be annoyed with girls and think that they obsessive over him. Just be yourself Like you would meet a diffrent normal person and try to make him notcie you after you talk to him just like if you see him walk past him with confidence maybe he'll stop you and talk to you if not just keep trying to talk to him good luck and BE YOURSELF

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