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How do I cope with a long-distance FRIENDSHIP??
So one of my best friends lives over an hour away from me. He used to go to the same school as me but moved. I wasn't friends with him then, but we're really close now. I've only gotten to spend time with him once over the course of the two years or so that we've been friends. We're both gay, and last year, I had strong feelings for him, but he told me I wasn't his type. Anyways, I don't think I have a crush on him anymore.
When we text, I feel fine;I feel like I'm talking to one of my close friends, not some guy I like... But for some reason, whenever I look at pictures of him, I get extremely depressed. Whenever he's flirting with someone, I get really upset. I don't why I feel like this, though. In September, he's moving to South Carolina, and he said we could hang out over the summer a little bit. It makes me feel bad that I'm only going to be able to see one of my best friends two or three times more at the MOST in my life (or at least for a few years.) I feel like he does more bad in my life than good, but I don't think it would be right to shut him out of my life. What do I do?
Thank you!
-Corey
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If he is a really good friend then you guys can make it work. theres so many ways to communicate now a days. For example Facebook or Skype. But it also seems like you do still feel something for him. So I say keep the communication between you guys. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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