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Q: well im a girl and im 15 so here it goes...to make this as brief as possible, i hate my bestfriends boyfriend...ive been pretending that i like him and pretending that it doesnt kill me to see them together for the past 3 months because i know he makes her happy and i want to see her happy...im sick of people telling me to just deal with it because shes my bestfriend and what makes her happy should make me happy, but it doesnt...i cant keep pretending i like him, ive talked to her about it a little but i feel bad and selfish everytime i tell her i dont like him...so i dont know if there is anything left to do, if so i could use some advice

hang out with her and if she wants him to come along, say you have to do some chores around the house. invite her to places jsut the two of you. if she asks if he can come, just say its a girls night. if she talks about him, change the subject by asking if shes thirsty.

HIH
micki

Q: Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back

him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?

me: did you see what i asked you earlier?

him: yes

me: and .. lol

him: .... ill get bac to u

he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?

hard to break it to you but the ... means probably, no thanks. find someone else and if all else fails, find your best guy friend that you knwo wont turn you down! HIH

♥
Micki

p.s. if yoru best guy freidns have dates, find just some gf and go in a group!

p.s.s just say, nevermind, you found another date or if you find that mean, then tell your firends that if your date says yes, then you will go with them, ask if they dont mind being a backup plan. dont worry, they wont!

Mciki

Q: ON the last day of school my best friend told me she would be going to private school next year. I really had a tough time making friends the whole year and she really was one of the only friends i had. She's away at sleepaway camp for 8 weeks and I can't see her!!! She didn't respond to any of my letters either. I'm scared to go through a year of school without her. I'll be so lonely!!! What can I do to make the best of the school year???

you could join a club like art club or chess club. there are clubs for everything that you clould make new friends at. when school starts, ask a teacher for a club listing and s/he will get one for you. it will be an easy way to make new friends and also its before or after school, if that is a problem, you could also join a sport or some other sports. HoPe I hElPeD!

hypermickihahe

Q: i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.

well talk about some subjects she likes if she likes movie hang out ther and say how you felt about it if she likes the park and animals talk about your pets. talk about what she like and is interesting to her. talk.

hope i helped

Micki

Q: okay so i have 3 EXTREMELY close friends that are moving to a different country this summer and it is rele hard because it's all at the same time and everything and i love them all to death. well i have been rele sad b/c of it lately, and b/c i never let anyone see me cry, i cry myself to sleep, EVERY NIGHT. i am rele sad all the time and even my family and friends noticed it a bit. i don't know what to do, I AM SOOOOOOOO Sad!!
-what should i do b/c i probably won't ever get to see them again? -help please!

scedual to see them every summre ask their parents if they could come/you go and ask your parents too. make a game plan
hope it works out

MICKI

Q: Ok, I love my friends very much don't get me wrong. I have so much fun with them. But tonight I just broke down and started crying because I was so pissed and upset. I feel like I'm always the one being laughed at. We all make fun of eachother, and we laugh together, but I feel like I'm hardly ever taken seriously. One of my friends kept saying stuff, saying I live in the ghetto when I don't. And he knows it, he just wants something to laugh at. I didn't care, and it was funny, but it kept building up. Does this happen with anyone else? What do you do? I'd really like to talk to anyone in the same situation. Thank you so much.

my friends always tease me like i am blonde and slow and wen i got a c my friend said i was slow blonde and dumb i wanted to kill her i tried my best you know?i just told her straight off hey look this is anoying me and ifyou dont stop i dont think we will be able to be freinds and i do wanna be your friend and she stopped and she is sorta popular so at least she didnt tell anyone but she stoped just confrunt the person.

BeSt WiShEs

Micki

Q: i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!!

tell them your a vergin and you arent a slut

good luck
HyperMickiHAhe

Q: I have this friend, and we were really good friends at the beginning of the year. Literally every guy in our school thinks shes hot, and i think its gone to her head. She goes out with people shes not really friends with on friday nights and never invites me and acts like im a total freak all the time. on the other hand, shes always really nice to me and stuff when shes not around those people who think shes so hot, and i like to be around her then. i dont want to tell anyone how shes treating me because theyll tell her because they want to be friends with her. i cant talk to her because shes so mean when shes mad at someone and no one will be on my side of the arguement.

You should just tell her to her face. And if she gets mad, then blow her off. she isnt a true friend anyway. isnt a friend someone who likes you for you no matter what and isnt rude to you in front of other people? well go with what you want if you dont like my answer... i wont be affended because i wont ever no!

GOOD LUCK! ((for real, i dont just type that because everyone else does...))

Q: I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX

i sooo agree with dixyprincess! i meen we dont go to this webb page to be made fun of because of questions we have and answers we need! whatever to all yall that do. you are just fed up with your own lives and have to screw up other peoples to make yourself feel good! go see a theripist!

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