Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
E-mail: Teenqueen_1_3@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ga.
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: DorkyJay27
Member Since: July 12, 2004
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
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well i got a question for ya..why? lol most times the answer is so you feel a lil more wanted, i know how that is, and yeah i want people to call me too, it doesnt seem to happen tho. lol. but lets see, you want more people to call you huh? okay, well you gotta call first, then you gotta be like "call me later okay?" and i know that doesnt work sometimes, but theres not much you can do when it comes to getting people to call you.hope i helped :/
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How do I get more friends?? I have two best friend but it feels like no one else is really my friend.... like I only have 2 friends!! I think I'm pretty... I mean people tell me I'm pretty and modeling agents come up to me (not to sound cocky but I'm just trying to tell ya the whole story) I used to be popular back in 8th grade but now I dont know what happend.... I mean I have A LOT of "not really/kinda sorta" friends. I know i need to "be myself" but I dont know how to... HELPZ (link)
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bein yourself can be hard in highschool cant it? lol, i know this story too...but see i feel i only have 1 real/true friend, and then some kinda/sorta friends...dont go lookin for them, just relax concentrate on things that are important in highschool, lol like school. yeah,i said it..lol actin like an adult.but seriously, once you realize that school isnt about how popular you are, that's when you get more friends, i noticed that back in 7th grade i think. im not popular or anything, but i got friends. bein yourself is an obstacle to overcome, havin 2 true friends isnt odd or anything, it just means your a lil picky when it comes to lettin people see who you are, and thats okay. just relax.seriously, i hope i helped, and that wasnt to borin for you to read. lol
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ok my friend is trieng to break me and my other friedn up she like tells one of us something the other person sopposidly said about us but sh tells us the same exact thing and she calls us mean names then expects us to b her friend like she says stufflike lets team up andake her life a living hell like shes made ours so should i like take her back or should i just give up on her?
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the game of jealousy,lol, it has a roll in everybody's life no matter what they say,it depends on you about this situation...i mean if ya'll have been friends for awhile and like ya'll were best friends maybe you should sit her down and talk to her about this whole thing, and if she continues then you should drop her, b/c then you know that you told her, and you wanted her to stop. but if ya'll arent that close dont hang out,and now...b/c of this situation, you dont like bein around her, then yeah maybe you shold end it now. spare you and your other friend the sufferin, lol. i hope i helped.
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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup? (link)
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let her know that your there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry or random phone calls at 3 in the morning or stuff like that, just let her know you are there for her.
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~ihave a serious problem...my frien cuts herself horribly cuz she thinks her life sux. last time i saw her she had 5 cuts on her arm. They were so deep. 3 of them she blamed on her cat. I have a cat and it dosent scratch perfect distances away. they were like 2 inches long. I asked her y she does it and she says cuz her life sux. i said y does it sux? she said one reason is cuz her grampa has cancer. she admitted to 2 of them and she woodnt tell me wat she used.
~i cut myself cuz every since i was born i have lived in9different houses. also my biological dad abused my mom and i havent seen him since i was 1 and a half. i had a step dad but hes gone now. he has to go to counsilin cuz he had theartened to hit me 2 times. although he never did it scared me teribbly. one day my mom had told me if i heard screamin to dial 911. i did hear screamin and i let it go 4 bout 5 min. Then i called. jus as the cops walked in my step dad was pushin down my mom. he went to jail but go out. then my mom was in the hospital. i came home and i didnt kno where she was. some how i found out. i dont member. she had mal-noutrition and double namonia(sp). she cood of died and i was only 11/12 at the time. and if she did i didnt kno where i woodve gone. my biological father owes me over 60,000 dollars in child support.
~ do u have ne kinda idea of a way i cood kinda train myself to stop cuttin? PLZ HELP ME AND MY FRIEN!!!
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Well Ive learned from cutters that, it's like your way of havin a reason for the pain that you feel inside, so that you can be like "this is why im in pain" and have the cut to blame it on. So one of the best ways to help you is to go to a therapist that specializes in people that cut.Also try to be more open about how feel about things, dont always keep it boiled up inside. Also, cuttin, is...I guess...addictin,so you can also slowly stop, break down how often you do it.
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My best friend is pissed off at me just because my science teacher chose my suggestion/idea on my project over my best friend's idea. She is giving me an attitude and is refusing to talk to me. What should I do? (link)
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I'm gonna guess you want to keep the friendship goin...so try to explain to her that you cant help what your teacher chooses.Hope i helped :-/
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see i have this friend who i leave lots of messages on the phone but never calls back is she my friend
-bubba78
P.S.i am just a girl who needs advise! (link)
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well idk, do you know if she gets the messages or not? but if she does and doesnt respond...that's called avoidance...and that would mean no she isnt your friend. But try to make sure she actually is gettin the messages if you can.
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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!
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did you make plans with them first? well tell them you dont always have to hang out them, you do have other friends,they should understand that.
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
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Get to know him again. And be friends with him if you still think he's the kool kid he was.
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okay my friend is like my bffffeaeaeaeaeea but like she is kinda slutty like she has soo many peircings and like she flirts with all my x bf! and im scared that the next boy i care about she will try to make a move on him. wut should i do? i mean she is my best friend for ever and i love her to death! but she tells me that she would never hook up with one of my xes or wit someone i like alot so please help me out her asap (link)
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If she is your bff and cares for you like you do her, then believe her words when she tells them to you. Another thing you can do is tell her what she has done and how afraid you are that she might make a move on your next boyfriend, and just kinda ask her to tone it down a lil when your with your boyfriend.hope i helped
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okay..i cant help it..i always let people walk all over me..and i serioulsy dont know how to be mean..and people say the meanest things about me..and i guess i just let them walk all over me..what should i do? (link)
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Dont let these people get to you when it comes to their comments. They dont matter. You dont have to be mean. You just dont have to give a damn. But make sure people know that your not gonna let them walk all over you, be nice to them for a limited time, but if they start gettin on your nerves then stop doin what your doin, like for instance, say you have HMW in a class for a while this kid asks you for b/c "I forgot" well you let him see it for a lil while, then once it gets annoying, tell him A:NO B:Some1 else has it or C: it's in my locker. I hope I helped you somewhat.
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i have had a best friend for 3 years now...we have gone throught everything together...are 1st kisses..are ex friends...are heart breaks...u no all the best friends type of things...i recenetly got back with my ex...we have been togheter for 2 years on and off..but now its been 3 months str8..and i stil hang out with my best friend..just now i have less time since i have him and all..it seems like sometimes she gets jealous cause she says "come on u dont need ot hang out with him, he gets so annoying, how annoying u hang out with all couples" like i no if she got with the love of her life she would do the same wat should i do? i feel so bad (link)
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Find time for her, have a girls night out durin the week, and tell your BF. Because most likely she is jealous and probly misses the old times that you 2 used to have, lol and make sure when she gets a BF to make sure yall still have that time with each other.
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me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused (link)
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You were best friends and always will be. That connection wont go away. Tell her your feelin and that you miss her. Flat out like that. Just say out of the blue, and tell her you want to see her. And see how she responds.
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my friend is really nice and like she lets ppl walk all over her! i mean be mean!! god!! she is just waayy too nice!! (link)
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geez,okay well maybe she's happy with the way she is right now. Tell her how you're feelin about that, but dont try to force her to change. She'll eventually figure it out, be a lil more "Mean"
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv! (link)
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If she is as good as friend as you say, then she'll listen to what you have to say.Set her down tell her what you think about ya'll drifting apart,and this guy...maybe come up with some ways to make it all interesting again.Oh, and true friends never go away, lol they just sometimes "drift".
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
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Just keep tellin her over and over, MAKE HER LISTEN! as a friend she should understand where you're commin from.
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