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I have this friend who i have known for whole life..... we r the same age but i am in a higher grade(long story) also i moved away from the town we lived in together and i hang out with people that are older and she is jealous of my best friend but shes sooo immature to me and i try to act myself but i she isnt into it and she is weird to me.....i love her sooo much she is on of my best friends what do i do?

Well, I would ask her why she has to feel jealous... You should always be yourself though. People should like you, for you... Not who they want you to be. If she's weird to you, Maybe you two are growing apart? I say keep in touch and tell her how you're feeling. If you need anything, drop one in my inbox.. best wishes! :) -Britty-

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okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!

Well I would tell him who it is... Don't worry about how you look. Just be like "Hey, this is ------, do you remember me?"... Then hopefully he talks back.. Good luck and if you need anything, drop one in my inbox... :) -Britty-

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Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)

Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.

Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.

So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?

Thanks..

Well I would sit face to face and tell him... "Look, I really want to be your friend... But I DONT want to be ANYTHING more... At all. I feel really uncomfortable when you flirt with me and stuff and I would really, really appreciate it if we can still be friends with out it". Then see what he has to say about it... If things don't change, maybe you should back away a little. But if things do change he obviosly respects your feelings... Good luck :) -Britty-

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i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!

alwaiiz,
Ali

p.s. i rate

Well I think you should talk to her. Growing apart from loved ones is always hard, but it indeed happens sometimes. Maybe you should talk to her about how you're feeling, and if things don't change.. Try to find new pals. I would talk to her new friend to, ask her why she has a problem with you and try to solve it. Best wishes -Britty-

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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it??

Alot of the time this stunt is pulled for attention. But then again, Sometimes it's not. Tell her that it's not cool to do it, And to talk to the guy about it and leave it as that. If it gets really really bad, like seriously deep, then maybe tell the counciler because it is a problem if shes serious. If it's for attention, don't give it to her. Just tell her you care about her, Don't think that that's the mature way to deal with her feelings and watch. But I don't want to say she is doing it for attention, So if you think she's serous, maybe take it up with her to see a out side of school councler. I dunno... I'm sorry if i offended you in anyway, but I'm just telling you what I've seen. If its for attention it'll stop when she doesn't get it. Hope all goes well :) -Britty-

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i am going out with this great guy and i am totally in lvoe with him but i am jelous of my best friend becuase so many guys like her ..... i am totaly in love with my boy friend (so dont say maybe i'm not) and i am "old enough" to be in love ..... but i dunno maybe its just becuase i never realy had a guy love me or treat me right untill him when my best friend can have anyone she wants and they all treat her perfectly .... is it bad that i am jelous of her even tho i am in love?

It isn't bad. Everyone gets jealous. I would be happy that you have a boyfriend that treats you right. Alot of the time when girls date alot of guys they get hurt alot more. For diffrent reasons.. I wouldnt feel bad you're jealous... Id just be happy for what you have... If you need anything drop on in my inbox :) -Britty-

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ok i am friends with these two girls and i really like them both well they are always together like 24/7 day and night well like when ever i wanna do somthin with either of them they both come like we had a school dance and like i went and i didn't have anyone to go with so i asked they both were like hey we will go with u so instead of buying dinner for one person and one set of flowers i had to by two and like they are always flirting with me like tonight they came over and we were watching a movie and like they both got all dressed up skirt heals everything both lookin so sexy and like they are laying all over me and like no matter what they wont ever do anything with me not just tonight but ever! i mean like we are completely cool with each other we ain't got no problems stripin infront of each other so it's not like we got anything to hide from one another but i want to know like they will be like all over me some times but they always say they don't like me and like they will never do anything with me and i wanna know is why do they do this to me!

15/m

Well, first off, I wouldn't wonder if they'll do 'stuff' with you because that shouldnt come first in a relationship. If you respect and like a girl, you should first commit to her and care. Second... I really don't think you could have a relationship with 2 girls, specially 2 friends... So maybe spare them both and find someone new. Hope things go well :) -Britty-

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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?

She's not a friend. For one because she's spreading stuff about you, and two because she can't listen to your feelings. Loose her as a friend.. And find someone who will treat you alot better. Best wishes :) -Britty-

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Hey what state are u from and are u single?

Texas, And no... I'm sorry :) -Britty-

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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas?

Don't be shy or insecure... Be yourself and proud! You should join some clubs or sports so you can be interduced to some people with the same interests as you! Hope all goes well... :)
-Britty-

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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad-

I dont think your friends are much of friends. Maybe you should try making new better friends that will be there for you... Hope things get better -Britty-

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Well their is this guy that I have know since I was like 6 or older. we have always seen each other and I have always had a crush on him. he is like 20 turning 21 in feburary. I am only like 15 turning 16 in october. Is it bad for having a crush or like maybe a thing wit him even if he is a lil older then me? I like him so much but I don't know if my parents would like that he is older and I am so young for him. When we see each other too. we have so much stuff to talk about together and we are happy when we see each other and It hurts me when other girls hurt him. I don't want to do. well thank you Jenny,16,female

Well I would talk to you parent... Everyone says that... But I think it would help. I mean maybe they'll understand since you've known him for so long. I dunno... Talk to him too, see what he thinks about yalls realationship. Does he see a dating future for yall's relationship or just like a bro/sis kinda deal? I dunno talk to him first, and then your parents and things should be alright... Hope all goes well -Britty-

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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go?

You're always going to have some problems with you parents. But running away NEVER will solve them. If anything, That will totally break any trust at all. Pluse, you're 14... Be smart. Just talk to them.... Sit them both down and tell them how you feel. They'll listen, They love you. Hope things get better :) -Britty-

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hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?

This happens alot, And problably will happen to you more. Friends grow apart. I would try talking to her and if things don't resolve then maybe look for another good girl friend... Best wishes


-Britty-

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Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!

-Andrea

Well, I mean don't get caught SPECIALLY if there are drugs and alcohole involved... Try not to invited a whole bunch of people... And the people that come... KEEP THEM INSIDE!!! The dumbest thing you can do it let them outside... *lol* good luck :) -Britty-

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