My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do?????????
Just tell her the truth, tell her that your not trying to be mean but youd rather not be friends with her anymore, all use do is fight, and youd rather not talk anymore it would make everyones life much easier.
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okay well like my friend (lets call her Kelly), well i though kelly was my best friend, and she was for a few years, but she knew other people in this other town and started hanging out there ALL the time and met this girl (lets call her linda) and linda and kelly became like BEST FRIENDS .. and now kelly barely like wants to hang out with me and like when i ask kelly to hang out she avoids the subject and then a day later i find out she avoided the subject cuz she already had plans with linda.
but sometimes i ask her to hang out first before she has any plans but then linda asks her to hang out AFTER i asked her and she said to me .. "sorry i cant go" and she hung out wit linda.
and now i have no plans for halloween this year cuz i got in a fight with my other bestfriend and now kelly is spending halloween with linda.
no one cares about my feelings and people push me around and i have no confidence and i cant really stand up for myself so i just kinda let people walk all over me.
The same thing is happening with my friend. I just dont understand how everyone can just hang out together. Shes not a true friend if she was she would not ditch plans with you to hang out with her. Tell her, and dont ask her, but tell her that its not right, your not makin her choose but its messed up how she doesnt hang with you nymore, you can have more then one best friend. If she doesnt care then drop her you dont need anyone like that anyway...
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i have a group of good friends. this is the 3rd time that me and my friend were left out of a sleepover. we havent been invited to one. we seem to all be very close but it puzzles me how its the same girls having sleepovers while me and her are left out. is this shady to you? what should we do? is this messed up..am i overreacting..should we just accept that somee people in the 'crew' will be closer to some than others? any feedback and/or personal experiences is appreciated
Your group of friends are not friends at all. They dont care how they make you feel when they dont invite you to the sleep over. Its not even about the sleep over, its about respect. If they cant be good friends and ask if you wanna go to the sleep over, theyre not friends at all. Theyre just trying to put you down to make them feel better, and its no point of even wasting your time anymore...Hope I helped
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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup?
It sounds like hes confused. Dont fall for it. If you keep lettin him hook up with you when he wants hell think youll always be there when he wants a toy. I dont know ur relationship with him, but it sounds like hes using you. Im suree you can find someone who doesnt just use you when he wants. he obviously wants the both of use, but he cant have it, so tell him that its either he wants you or her. If he does pick you then he still cares about you, if not you know hes not a good boyfriend or a truee friend!
Hope I helped.
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hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO..
First of all, if your boyfriend cheated on you four times it does not matter how much you love him break it off before it gets any further, Ive been there and im still dealing with the pain and if you keep holding on the pains going to be worst. I was in a 3 year relationship and its going to take longer for me to get over him then when I was with him. Second off, these girls obviously arent your friends, first they go behind your back and mess around with your boyfriend then they try to turn it around on you to make you feel guilty. Dont stoop down to their level, and dont let them intimate you. If your other friends turn on you then they are not real friends either. I say you stopp talking to all of them, who ever turned there back on you especially your friends and ur boyfriend. Show them that you dont care and you dont need them. Friends are by choice you dont need them remember that,and keep your head up always.
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Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp...
Trying to date other people will not get you over him, just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Tell him your not trying to break up the realtionship, but at the same time you get hurt when you see them kiss, maybe he will understand and be less flirty with her in front of you or maybe hell even have a deep secret he has to tell you, either way if he really cared for you as a friend he would understand what you have to say, and not take it as an insult.
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my best friend since auguest is a grade lower than me. well obviously she knew my crush (in my grade) because i would obsess over him every day. well she went out with my freind in my grade. they broke up. but then today, i head that she was going out with my crush and its true!! im so mad at her! how LOW is that?!!! shes like "i thought you didnt like him anymore" im like "COME ON thats why i talk about him and obsess over him every day!!???!!!! give me a effin break!" so i was a crying during school. i HATE THIS. she broke up with him but im NEVER going to forgive her for this!!!
what do i do? thanks 4 reading
That's very wrong, and I understand completely how you feel. For her to hurt you like that means she doesnt care about you as a friend breaking up with him or not. She was either looking for attention, or she just wanted to see you hurt. I understand people make mistakes but that was to big to be one. Dont let her or anyone else(ur crush) see you cry its only going to show that you give in easily. Im not going to say you shouldn't be her friend anymore, although I wouldn't, just think it out, Just dont stoop down to her level, dont try to hurt her it will only make things worse. Just remember truee friends dont hurt you, they help you when your hurt. I hope I helped, if you have anymore problems please email me bigbootycuty. Remember theres no right or wrong decision.
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I have this friend and she is so gorgeous. So many guys like her and she is always talking about how they stare at her and how so many people call her beautiful. I try to be nice, but i can't help it, i am so jealus of her. Sometimes i'll be really mean to her but i dont mean to be and i feel so bad. She's really nice to me, but but whenever i bring up a topic about myself, she'll change the subject and talk about a guy liking her. Is there any way i can stop being jealus of her and get her to listen to me? thanks in advance.
It's okay to be jealous, everyone is at one time or another, but just because she is beautiful, doesn't mean your not. You can either tell her how your feel, and tell her that she's a good person, but you'd rather for her not to brag about the boys that ask her out, or you can keep it bubbling inside until you just can not take it anymore and just blurt out your feelings without thinking about what your saying, and ruin a good friendship. No matter what you will tell her how you feel, but it's better to just be honest, and straight.
Im here if you need help...bigbootycuty07
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