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Hi, I'm Lorelei. I live with my mother, my older sister and my grandmother.
I travel a lot but I'm never a tourist. ;) My mother owns property all over the country and I'm extremely lucky to feel at home in so many different places. It's a lot of fun and I get to see a lot of things and meet a lot of people.
Shopping always seems to be better away from home too.
I'm very fashion-minded and stylish, spontaneous and energetic, dorky and giggly. I enjoy having a good time. Almost too much. I party every chance I get. I do drink but I do so responsibly and you should too.
I'm very young but the year 2003 caused me to learn more about who I am than some people get to learn about themselves in an entire lifetime. Ever since I've made it a point to share what I've learned with everyone possible. Ask and I'll do my best to answer.

Whether or not you found my advice useful, a rating is appreciated, good or bad. Let me know how I can improve.

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I love her eye make up- how does she do that?& how does she get her eyelashes to look so long?

The eyelashes are definitely fake. But a good mascara can make your natural lashes look fabulous. I've been using Maybelline Define-a-Lash and it's wonderful.

As for the smoky purple/black eyes, try applying purple shadow to your lid and blending outward. MAC and L'Oreal make high pigment shadows that will really pop on your eyes. Then line your eyes with a black creme liner and use a q-tip to smudge it.

I agree with the columnist before me, though. Practice definitely makes perfect.

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what stores said liz claiborne. i have a wallet and key chain i'd like to return.

Almost ANY department store. You can try Carson Pirie Scott, Macy's and Marshall Field's.

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Hey, I am 16 and a female. I really want to get a tan (since I live in FL). I am afraid about skin cancer and aging skin. Is it safe to tan out for about 10 min at a time? I have very fair skin and I don't want to mess up my skin. Has anyone ever tried natural glow by jergens, does it work?

You should be fine as long as you use a sunscreen. Make sure to apply it about 20 minutes before you leave the house.
Use a very strong SPF (say 15-30) so that you don't have to worry about it wearing off if you're staying dry or so that it last longers if you plan to swim or hang out at the beach.
♥ Lorelei

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I got this stuff over the weekend called "Lemon Lights" it's from the beach blonde by John Frida brand. Does this stuff really turn your hair blonde out in the sun?

It will lighten your hair significantly, but don't expect it to work like a bleach.
Using plain lemon juice works as well.

♥ Lorelei

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Does anyone have any tips for getting lip gloss to last about 6 hours?

Use lip liner to fill in your lips before applying the gloss.
They make nude lip liners in case you use a clear or sheer gloss. It may not last a full 6 hours but it will last a hell of a lot longer.
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i was the one who asked about the shoes do they have a website ?

yup. www.dswshoe.com!

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do any of the girls now wat shoes carrys high heel shoes ...but not like alot of money for shoes ....i need it for a dress of mine

I am ALL about DSW! They have so many designer shoes for SO cheap. Yesterday, I bought a pair of BCBG Maxazria shoes for 26 dollars and they were originally almost a hundred.
they also have a lot of shoes that aren't even sold in the US like Diverse Brand.

check out www.dswshoe.com to find a store in your area.
♥ Lorelei

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I was just wondering how you're so tan? Do you do mystic tanning (if so, how much does it cost?) or go to the tanning bed? Thanks! You're so pretty.

I do use Mystic Tan. Mystic Tan Plus, in fact. Where I go, it's $30 for 1 session, $75 for 3 sessions (that's what i do) or $200 for 10 sessions.
And thank you! :)

♥ Lorelei

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i straighten my hair every morning, and like an hour later it just goes back to being wavy. --i have a CHI straightner--

is there anything i can do to make it stay straight all day?

and is there anyway for me to be able to put it like in a ponytail for athletics and then take it down and have it still be straight?

thanks! you're beautiful, don't u ever forget that!

It sounds to me like your enemy is moisture.
Frizz-Ease has a hair spray that will repel moisture and keep your hair straight longer.
As far as ponytails that don't leave that horrible crease, just try using a scrunchy rather than a regular hair tie.
And thank you! :)

♥ Lorelei

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I need a lot of money to get a god straightner because my hair is extremely FRIZZY!!! What are some ways to earn $$$? Or some hairstyles for FRIZZY PEOPLE??

Thankx a bunch!

You can get a good ceramic straightener for about $40 dollars online, you know.

You can try rinsing your hair in REALLY cold water after you shampoo. And as a deep conditioner, mix one egg to one part mayo and one part olive oil. Make a thick paste, apply it to your hair and wrap it in a towel or put a plastic cap on for about 20-30 minutes and then rinse and shampoo it out. It should help a lot.

If you'd like some more suggestions, please feel free to ask.

♥ Lorelei

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HEY!! i dunno if u remmeber me asking about the dove cleansing pillows (by email) but are they supposed to give me pimples when i first use it? cuz i bought it and used it but i dunno! thanx a bunch!! o and i added u to mi fav list cuz i think u are cute gr8 and perfect!!
THANX (AGAIN)
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
(ps my colum is IPIiINIKI my anti drug if u wanna stop by)

oh cool that was you? hehe. :) thank you!
I didn't get pimples the first time I used them actually. They did dry me out a little at first, though. But I have noticed that after a break out, washing my face actually seems to bring more pimples forward. Odds are, it isn't the pillows themselves causing the pimples, but rather your pores being cleaned out. Just keep using them per the directions and you should be all set in a little while.

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Hey everyone, I was just wondering if anyone could tell me your favorite places to shop online..I'd prefer ordering my clothes online because they always come in different sizes, I'm mostly an AE girl..so places like that are a plus..thanks alot :o)

God, I love AE. :)
shopbop.com
rampage.com
forever21.com
oldnavy.com
and of course...eBay! :)

♥ Lorelei

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How do you keep your eyeliner straight when you do the "eyeliner tears"? (ex. Benji from Good Charlotte)

Thanks

When you do your make-up, do it at a make-up table so you have something to rest your elbow on. That'll help keep your arm steady. You could also try cutting out a stencil from card stock or an index card. :)

don't listen to the previous "advice-givers". do whatever makes you happy.

♥ Lorelei

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What would be the best way to curl your hair, but in a soft way. Like, not homecoming-fancy type curls but everyday almost wavy-like curls? Because I've tried the 'put your hair in buns' thing & it doesn't work for me & a curling iron takes too long. Do you think I should invest in some hot-rollers or no?

In your case, hot rollers seem to be the way to go. You let them curl while you're doing your makeup, brushing your teeth, or having breakfast...they're a great way to curl your hair. In fact, I use Revlon Instant Heat rollers. They heat up in only about a minute or two. They're awesome. :)

♥ Lorelei

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omigosh i LOVE your sunglasses! what kind are they??

Thanks! :) They don't have a name brand, lol. :D I found them on eBay. Just do a search for "big sunglasses".

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I always look too young. I'm a junior and everyone around me looks like they're a junior- but I could be confused with a freshman! I have brown never died hair thats like 6 inches longer than my shoulder with bangs that sweep to the side kinda across my eye. Any suggestions on hair? also, I have brown eyes so if u know ne ways to do my make up that'd be great too! I need to look older! Oh and- how can i dress to look older? Thanks so much! I RATE!

Believe me, there isn't an upside to looking older than you are. There's nothing wrong with looking your age. It isn't that you look young, it's just that girls look so much older these days. Everyone wears makeup and dyes their hair and dresses maturely...
You may just be coming into your own style, which does take time. Don't be in a rush. People can tap in when you're obviously trying too hard.

If you want some quick hints to maybe "age it up" a little, you could try a haircut and some highlights. Since your hair is kind of long, I'd go for the smooth, sleek look and maybe razor cutting your bangs. Try looking at a few magazines and talking to the stylist at your hair salon/cuttery.

Dressing to look older is essentially useless. Stick to your own personal style. You could check out some stores like Charlotte Russe, Forever 21 or a department store to pick up some fashionable junior sized clothing. But it's all about how you carry yourself in those clothes. Keep your head up, your shoulders back and tell the world that you like what you're wearing or how you look.

I hope I helped. :)
♥ Lorelei

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Do you have any ideas how I could do my hair for homecoming?

An updo is always trusty for dances. For a homecoming it might be a bit too formal though, so I might suggest leaving your hair down and adding some soft curls. Don't use a lot of hairspray or hair accessories. Maybe one or two to accent the color in your dress.

If you'd like any how-tos, feel free to ask me. :)

♥ Lorelei

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hey i was jw in one of your pictures you're wearing a locaste (sp?) shirt, how much was it, if you don't mind me asking.

It's a Lacoste. :) And it was $72 at Neiman Marcus.

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i have the worst black heads on my nose. do you know any really good foundation/coverup? thanks!

Igia makes a really good cover-up called Instant Cover. Check for it at Walgreens, eBay or just do a google search for it. It'll cost you about 20 dollars for 3 bottles with three different shades you can mix and match with.

For blackheads though, I recommend Clearasil Blackhead pads to actually get rid of them. They work pretty well from my experience. You can find those at any drugstore.

If you decide to go with Instant cover, don't use too much and finish off the cover with a bit of pressed powder.

Good luck. :)

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Where do you shop at?

As far as clothes I like Forever 21, Kohl's (I admit it!), Lacoste and Nordstrom! Makeup, I usually get from the drug store or sephora. I also love shopbop.com, amazon.com, eluxury.com and occasionally, bluefly.com. I love to shop online.

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