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Well I got my period in april and it's already july and I haven't gotten it again so i'm worried cause I don't know if this is normal. Please help me i'm really worried. thanks (link)
Don't worry! This is completely normal! When I first got my period it was irregular for the first couple of months. Everyone's body is different.


16/f

i hate my body. and i try so hard to loose weight. the past 2 weeks i've been eating so healthy. salads everyday. lunch and dinner. and i was running in the morning. and active through out the day. nothing...didn't loose any kind of weight. my stomach still looks like a fat piece of flab and i still have love handles...i was hoping to maybe loose a pound or 2 but not even that. i stayed the same.
i'm so tempted to go bulimic and i know thats not the answer but its so tempting because i know i would loose weight doing that. i've thought about it and i would only try to do it 2 times a week....

**besides the past 2 weeks. i've been working out since march and i do eat healthy. sometimes i do cheat and eat junk. but thats barely ever... (link)
First off, please please please do not become bulimic! The media is very misleading and fat (unfortunately) doesn't just melt off like everyone says it does. It sounds like your doing all the right things, eating healthy, exercising, etc. Keep doing what your doing and stay confident. If your looking for that extra boost you might consider getting a nutritionist. They are experts at eating right, portion size, etc.

Good luck & don't give up!


how do you get rid of hickeys?
i tried icing it last night.. didn't work so well. i mean it's not a big deal because i made up some lie about why it's there when my parents asked but my friends won't believe me and i don't wanna walk around looking like a slut. i'm gonna put make up on it obviously but anything else i can do to make the redness go away? k thankss (link)
There's not much you can do but just wait it out. Your hickey will eventually dissapear. But personally, I think that if you weren't too embarassed to recieve a hickey than you shouldn't be embarassed to let people see it.


i get really oily skin, is there any home remedies that could make it better? I have bought som products but is there anything else i can do? Because once it gets oily, it is just attracted to dirt and i end up with pimples all over my nose (link)
I have the EXACT same problem. You might try oil absorbtion sheets or carry face wipes with you. In the morning I make sure to clean my face very well and then use a light weight moisturizer before I put on my make-up. Unfortunately, I don't think there is a fool-proof way to have oil free skin.

You could also go see a dermatologist to take care of the acne on your nose. My dermatologist prescribed me products called DUAC and DIFFERIN. It's prescription medicine so you are going to have to see a dermatologist and see what they recommend.

Good luck!


when is the best time of day to work out?
when is the time that you're going to lose the most weight...does it matter? (link)
In my opinion, the best time of day to work out is in the morning. You may feel tired when you get up but eat an appropriately portioned and healthy breakfast and then hop on that treadmill or go for a quick jog. The key is not to eat something un-healthy after you have exercised.

For example, my dad exercises and then eats afterwards because he thinks that because he has just exercised it is okay if he has a little snack. Not realizing that he has just defeated the purpose of EXERCISE. To burn calories.

When I work out I get on the treadmill for 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes at night before I go to bed. Not only do I feel better but I sleep better as well.

Also, throughout the day eat small portions of healthy food frequently.

Good luck!


15/f
Hi, this is an odd request, but i have a quick question for ya'll.
My brother is 17 and he never lifts the seat on the toilet. It drives me crazy.
I have asked him politely many times to lift the seat for obvious reasons...i have to SIT on that SEAT!
I am starting to get really mad.
Does anyone have any tricks or ANYTHING i can do to break his gross habit?
It would be VERY appreciated!
Thanks! (link)
As you have probably already figured out..he is either trying to annoy you or just doesn't care. First of all, is there another toilet in the house that you can use? And if your really desperate..you might consider just taking the toilet seat off all together. Then he won't have a choice on whether or not to lift the lid. Good luck!


Alright, So i'm a 16 year old female.
I have to pee ALL the time. atlesat once an hour, i can pee once, then have to go a few minutes later..
it's getting worse too.

i dont know what's wrong with me, i know i should go see a doctor & my dad agrees too but i dont know if my mo will take me- i dont think she thinks its a problem.

what will they do if i do go?


also, i've been getting stomach aches arndomly
and if i dont eat every so often, i get sorda dizy & weak & i dont want to eat then at all, even though onc ei do i feel MUCH better..
that could be something diffrent though, like the summer heet or anything.

i'd just like some ideas, if you've gone througha nything like this or if you know someone who has

(its not recenteither- its been happening for years, it WAS NEVER THIS BAD THOUGH, ITS GETTING WORSE)

btw- im not sexually active & im a virgin. (link)
It sounds to me like you have a urinary tract infection. Definitely see your doctor as soon as you can. They should be able to prescribe you medication or suggest something sold over the counter.


okay well im 18 years old and ive ALWAYS had my period on time every single month the same time ever since i first got it when i was about 11. it was NEVER and i mean NEVER irregular and never ever missed it.
well, this past november it just completely STOPPED! out of nowhere! :( and then in February it came again but now its july and havent had it at all.

i do not get any signs of pms or ANYTHING no cramping nothing wrong at all

i am NOT on birth control and NOT sexually active..AT ALL.

i am on NO MEDS

and i dont have any eating disorders such as anorexia

please help.

btw..dont say anything like..go see the gyno..go see your doc! because i know already and im going too make an appt first i just have some insurance issues i need too work out

pleasee helpp me
and thanks (link)
It's good that you are going to see a doctor. One of my friends was in the same situation you are in right now. She went to her doctor and they said that as you get older, sometimes you won't get your period for i while because of hormone changes.

Also, do you exercise a lot? Sometimes your period will stop because of excessive exercising.

I am sure that everything is fine. Try not to worry :)

Good luck!


i was piercing my nose and it started bleeding so i freaked out and stopped. is it bad to stop 1/2 through? (link)
First of all, I would never ever try to pierce any part of your body by yourself. If you are still interested in have your nose pierced you should go see a trained professional. Piercing your nose yourself, greatly increases the risk for infection.




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