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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.
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Hey I am sixteen and I know that I have an advice colum but I really need help? Ok look ever since I was ten my mom was realy mean to my dad they whould argue and he left then she treated me so badly that my aunt and uncle had to move in with us. They thought she was better but she still whould not do anything with or for me she whouldn't even come to my party or take me to get school stuff my sisters diod it. And ok this same exact thing happend about 8 or 9 times since then and she still won't do anything but the only time my dad tells her that something is wrong with her is when she gets paranoid and thinks he is cheating What do I do do I get out of this stupid sicle let my dad be missrable or do I yell untill he listens wicth will not work but will u please help me please
You might want to let a school conseuler or try telling your dad its gettign realyl serious and keep letting him know.Or maybe try to talk to your family members and see if they'll do something.Sorry if iwasnt much help.Hope your mom gets help and everything gets better.
my cousin is really nice, but i think i might like him more than just family, is that wrong or am i just liking him cause he's my friend?
-clueless and creeped out
It might be a lil bit of both.It's probably more just like a comfort zone you have with him.Hope i helped.
Well this guy i like won't talk to me. He wont return my calls or anything. He liked me 3 days ago and now he wont talk to me. I dont know what i did to make him so upset. He is at his friends houses all weekend, would this effect him not talkin to me cause all his friends are older guys and im younger than him? What should i do on Monday at school, go up and be like whats up why arent you talkin to me, or just give him space and smile at him in the halls? PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I really miss talkin to him
i would give him some space for now,who knows what happened or didnt happen. If he's still doing that in a week, like next monday ask him about it because you gave him some space and respected that so there shouldnt be a reason why he's treating you liek that.Hope i helped and you two start talking again.
I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.
I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping?
Tell your mom that your getting in trouble @ school for the clothes you were.Or start looking for sales in the paper and stuff.I know aero is really sheap if you look on the clearence racks and G+G/Rave is pretty cheap too.Or try making your own money, like babysit or help someone with housework.You could put flyers up around your neighborhood and see if that works.Hope i helped.
my parents don't like my boyfriend..because i went out with him before and he treated me pretty bad..but i really think he has changed but i don't know if my parents think that or not! what can i do to make them gain trust back in him? because if they don't trust him that means i don't get to see him as often?
i rate super high!
Maybe have him over your house and talk to your parets so maybe they'll see a change in his attitude towards you.And it shows that he's tryign.Hope i helped.
ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no?
yea you should defiantly tell her.I mean i think not telling is worse then telling her.Hope i helped.
i have 3 brothers and my dad...(my mom too but she isnt the prob.) well anyway..they ALWAYS piss on the seat..sometimes its a lot and i HATE that! im always the one to have to spray disinfectant and wipe it off. One time i was dumb enough not to look before i sat down..and i sat in piss! how sick is that..o man. i tried telling them how mad i am about that..i even tried leaving the seat up so they have more space to aim..but its not working. Should i try all this again only more seriously this time? Please help..i just wanna be able to feel that my own bathroom is clean..im so grossed out!
any help is great thank u so much!!!!!!
Yea i definatly would.Dont feel bad i share a bathroom with my brother and i'm always cleaning up the toliet seat and cleannig up after hm and it's really gross and he's older then me.Sometimes i get a posterboard and write "Clean Up YOUR Pee!" or "Clean The Toliet Seat AFter Use.". It helps most of the time and i keep nagging him too.Hope i helped.Guys can be such a pain in the butt.
Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..
Try and let them know things that are going on in your life.Parents love that.Just anything you can think of that happened let them know.It shows them that you want to earn your trust back and your trying. hope i helped.
My mom actually needs help with this one, but I'll explain.
Last night my neighbors who are around my age (I'm 14) came over. My mom rented 3 movies (even though we really couldn't afford it) but being the whiners they are, they didn't want to see any of them, so we let them bring their own movie over, for my and my 11-year old bro to watch with them. They chose Scary Movie and I have no idea why their mom let me! It was really inappropriate for my brother, who's going in to sixth grade. I mean, people were giving each other bjs and hjs, a girl got stuck to the ceiling by cum, etc. It was really digusting. The worst part is that they thought it was hilarious, Nick (older one, around my age) in particular kept going, "Noelle, come here" (my mom's name) at the grossest parts. Their mom is normally a pretty good mom but I just don't understand how on earth she could think it was appropriate for my brother. Obviously her boys were too immature for it too. My mom is going to call their Mom, Denise, whom we've been friends with for many years. Denise can get offended and mad very easily, so what should my mom say? And what should she say next time the boys want to bring over a movie?
Sorry about the long question. I rate!
i think your mom should tell her that her boys should bring over movies that are appropriate for your brother to watch.Also that are mature enough for her kids to watch too.The next time they bring over a movie have your mom look at it first and if it's not appropriate ask them to bring one that is or say sorry i dont think this is a good idea.hope i helped.
I was taken into a family at age 6 1/2 and Ive been with this family since.Well the mom of the family and I don't get along and well i really wish we did.I love her to death but I just don't think she really knows how much I care for her.Im also scared to get close to her because I lost my biological mother when i was 3 and I don't wanna lose her.She has a very weak heart and isn't doin too well right now so now more than ever am I scared to lose her.I really wanna become closer and be able to tell her almost everything if not everything.Anyways can someone plz tell me how I can get closer to her.Ive tried to write her letters and tell her openly in person but nothing has seemed to work.Someone plz help.
Signed,
Desperate to get close
I would try to get interested in something she does, that way you two can do it together.I'm not sure who else is in your family but talk to them about it too maybe they can get throught to her.Your mom might also be afraid to lose you as well if she's not doing too good, or she could just be afraid to get clsoe to you as well.i really hope everything works out.Let me know how it goes.
ok, well my momz b/f has HEPATITIS C that he got from another girl while cheating on my mom ..they have gone thru manny problemz in their relationship and he hurt he wayy too many timez...yet she still stayz with him .. and i cant get thru to her no matter wut..
but my real question is this : 3 days ago my mom told me that were moving into his house on friday .. she said she'd help me buy a car and give me 50 bucks a week for no reason and drive me to my old school everyday and all ill have to to do is take a train back home .. shez trying to bribe me to move in ...BUT the only thing holdin me back is that he has hepatitic c and i dont want my mom getting it and i feel lyk if i move in with them, then ill be supporting her chances of getting HEPATITIS C .. and everynite wen i lay in bed ill have to worry about wut they are doing in their bedroom and if shes having unprotected sex with him and if she'll get HEP C at any moment now ... i mean, i really love her and ive already tried talking to her about this but her mind is made up!! plz tell me if i shuld go and if i am overreating here or wut ..... but itz HEPTITIS C !!!!:( plz help me
I would sit your mom down and tell her that your worried about her and you just want her to be safe.Just tell her exactly whats on your mind.Who knows maybe she's already using protection.Hope everything works out and have fun with your car!
so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah
I think you should move back in with your granny.as long as you love your mom and she loves you she'll understand.And as long as your mom loves yu i'm sure all she wants is for you to be happy too.