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I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?
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Try talking to your mom and explain to her how, despite the fact that you do love your sister to death, you'd rather the time you're out with your friends be spent with JUST your friends and preferably not members of your family. If she says no or something, be sure to figure out why because she may have a good reason for sending your sister with you. But if not, just explain to her how you feel without being disrespectful and she might change her mind.
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yes.. ok so i poked my mom's eye with a clothing hanger.. it was by accident. we were taking about how she sits at home and does nothing while my grandparents hafta take care of my brother and sister who is 2 and 5... ya she started hitting me and then i was all like "stop hitting me" and then i accidently poked her in the eye and then i said sorry and then she started crying really loudly like how she does when my dad and her start fighting and they make eachother bleed and bruise all over.. yes.. screwed up.. neway ya.. after she called my dad to gimme crap about poking her she started dragging me across the floor and hitting me and crap and then i told her to go to hell.. ehh.. ya.. so wut am i supose to do now? i'm not calling child helpline or w/e.. (link)
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Wow. I actually do think you should call a child helpline or social services or something. Your parents shouldn't be physically fighting but that's a different story. If these kind of fights happen between your mother and you a lot, then I suggest trying to get some help outside of your immediate family or maybe staying with a relative. At least until things get worked out at home.
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ugh my dad has really been pissin me off lately...i have had alot of cell phones but my last one i lost and now i dont have one..i have been trying to save up for one but it takes to long..how do i get him to buy me the one i want? and my step-mom is a real bitch and last week-end i walked in on them having sex...i dont know what to do! (link)
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While I'm not quite sure what your dad and your step mom's having sex has to do with your not having a cell phone, I can give you some advice. First off, I wouldn't expect him to just buy you one right off, considering your past history with cell phones. Try being more responsible with your things and he may decide to get you another one. And if you don't want to or feel like doing that(even though I highly recommend it) then, just be patient and save up. It's no one's fault but your own so you shouldn't expect anyone to solve your problem but yourself.
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ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
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Your dad sounds like a real prick. If I were you, I'd stay with your mom instead of your dad. Or wherever you can go you're not around any of them. They are rude, inconsiderate, ignorant and immature people. Including your father. I suggest you avoid them or tell your mother about them and how they treat you and see what she can do about it all.
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OK, so my dad has cancer, my mom needs 2 hav surgery, my sista is a diebetic, my other sis just had a baby, and we hav alot of other things like that going on in my family. I really need an additude ajustment. When ever some1 else says somethin negitive, i become negitive, and every1 gets mad at me. How do i change this? (link)
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Have you ever thought about going into therapy? By the looks of it, you're home life sounds like a stressful situation that in every case, you can't do much to change that. The only thing you can really change is you and how you feel and your attitude. I think you should start going in to talk to a therapist about your homelife and maybe figure out some things you can do to make your life easier and less stressful on you that way you can help the people around you without everything turning negative like you said things seem to do a lot. Hope this helps.
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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Do your parents know? If they don't you need to tell them as soon as possible. Where were they when this happened anyway?
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Hi, my brother is 10 and will be 11 in august. Anyway, my bro is so spoiled that when he doesnt get his way, he starts to get a nasty additude and says he hates my mom and grandma! How bad! My mom tries hard trying to teach him not to be spoiled but it never works. How can we get my bro to be kind and unspoiled? (link)
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I don't think it's anything you can actually do anything about. He's just gonna have to learn on his own. But, you could try ignoring him when he throws his little fits. Don't let him get his way. You can't let him control the house or whatever it is that he's actually doing.
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