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Ok well me and my mom have not been getting along at all lately. i mean she drinks constantly and i cant talk to someone when they are drunk. plus i dont want to go to that schoool. i really want to move in with my father. but i dont no what to tell her. for like a couple weeks now shes been threatnig to send me there and when i say i wanna go there supossedly "a problem"
How do i tell her i wanna live with my dad without making her feel bad? is she gunna feel bad no matter what?
i will rate high!!!!thanks in advance... (link)
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Talk to your da and let him know you want to live with him, then have him brake the news to her. No matter what she will be hurt though. Good luck. :)
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Ok my mom and brother argue all the time and my brother hates my mom alot and my mom never did anything to him, she just doesn't let him get away with anything, and my brother get's so mad and breaks things, and all the fighting makes everyone sad and upset, and every weekend my mom goes out with her friends and doesn't come home until morning, how can i get are family to get along.................Please Heeeeeeeeeeelp. (link)
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Try talking to them. Sit your whole family down and have a good chat with them, let them know how you feel, and how there actions are upsetting you.
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Ok its me with my boyfriend problem again! You know the one when my boyfriends 3 years older then me! Well all my aunts know now. And im so embarresed! And all my aunts were and still are really good friends with my boyfrineds mom. Now like my whole family knows! And barely any 1 in his family knows about me. All the people my age that know me are just finding out! And some are refusing it. Some say it's not true! I dont know what to do! I really love him but i'm not sure it will work out. And one more thing his little brother is my age and we are only teens and so is my boyfriend. But remember he is 3 years older. Should i stay with him or dump him because i could get a really bad reputation in my family and friends? (link)
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If you really like him, stay with him. Your family and friends shouldn't think badly of you. If your friends do then they aren't true friends. Your family might get worried for you but I don't think they will think badly of you. If you broke up with him because of your family and friends in the end you will resent them. Your next relationship might suck and you take it out on them because you think, "I bet I would be happy if I were still with him." I know trust me lol.
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My cousin had a friend over. They asked if I wanted to see a movie with them at home. I said okay. I went. My cousin's mom told me that I couldn't go because my cousin never asked her. So I had to go home. My cousin never apologized. I got a phonecall. It was my cousin's friend, who asked, "Hey, do you have any money?" I said no. My cousin's friend asked, "Well, I have a proposition for you. I heard that you like me, so if you go to the movies with us and pay for me to go, then I'll call it a date." I said that I don't even know my cousin's friend and won't be used like that.
Should I be offended? My cousin is one of my best friends. (link)
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You gave your cousins friend a good answer. NEVERl et nayone use you!! Yes I would be really offended and I would talk to my cousin if I were you.
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well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do
Help me!!! (link)
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You need to tell him how you feel. If he doesn't respect that and still brings them around then don't go around him for awhile, then he will see you are serious and after a few days you two will make up. He will realize how his actions have consequences. He probally will respect that you don't want to see them beacuse you love your mom and everything.
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hey, im a 14/f. 7 months ago, my boyfriend & i had sex. & now im pregnant. my parents kicked me out of their house & now i am living with at boyfriend's house. his parents are really supporting us with my pregnancy. my boyfriend says that he is gonna take responsibility for me & the baby. he is 16 years old & he has been workin two full time jobs. so he works all day. we are saving money for our new apartment that we are going to move into next month. i was also working a full time job, but now i had to stop because of my pregnancy. we are saving money to buy clothes & furniture for the baby. the baby is healthy & we are really excited. my bf asked me to marry him, and i said yes. we are getting married next month. my parents and his parents are going to help with the wedding. the thing is that im worried he is going to dump me. just like in movies. i know this is reality, but i just want to know if there is any chances he might dump me. he is really sweet, hes happy & everything. he is always telling me how much he loves me & our baby & that he is always going to take care of us. he is really responsible. i say he is the perfect daddy & husband. he already started buying clothes for the baby. i just want to know if there is any chances he might dump me. thank u for your advice. (link)
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If he has stayed with you this long, is working all the time, and asked you to marry him, he's not going to dump you. Don't worry you got lucky; you got one of the only guys out here that are willing to take responsibility for there actions. He sounds like a good guy, and you got lucky. Good Luck with everything and congratulations. If you need to talk e-mail me on here. Hope I helped.
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to make a short story short..... i like him, he likes me. my mom doesn't like him because she just doesn't like the way he looks. but he's really a nice guy. he invited me to a party. i really wanna go. how do i convince mom to like him? i need a really good stratigic well thought out plan. ideas? (link)
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Have him come over before you even bring up the party. Tell your mom you want her to get to know him, beacuse you think he's a good guy. Tell him you want your mom to get to know him, also. If that still doesn't work then when you go to mention the party tell her a few friends will be there or whatever. That way your not lying, but she doesn't have to know he's going to be there. :)
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I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn. (link)
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The best thing for you to do in this situation is talk to someone close to your mom. Tell them what you think and ask them whether or not it is worth bringning up to her. Don't tell your dad because he will try to hide the evidence and he'll just deny it anyways. If your mom doesn't have a close friend to talk to then just talk to your mom. Make sure you know for sure before you do.
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Okay, tonight, my mom got really mad at me. Like REALLY mad. And it was all over this stupid box of macaroni that she asked me to make for dinner. I read the instructions wrong, and thought that you had to let the water boil for 10 minutes before putting in the macaraoni. So anyway, she flipped out on me. And started screaming. And she slapped me twice. And i really wanted to hit her, but i didn't, i just grabbed her wrist's really hard. So she flipped out on me contiunously, and after i made dinner, she went on to say "i dont even like this crap anyway" and didn't eat all of it.
This isn't the first time she's done stuff like this and i dont know how to deal with it. what do i do? (link)
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If stuff like is going on and has been going on you need to get her help. She needs to talk to someone to deel with her anger issues. I know you might not want to hear this but what she is doing isn't right. The best thing you can do is talk to someone you trust about this. Someone you know can help you get her help.
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