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i want a double pierce in my ears.. a cartilege pierce.. and a belly button pierce but my parents wont let me. i have one pierce in both ears and the double pierce is a possibility. they like think the other things look trashy or something. how old do u have to be to get them done w/o parent approval? (link)
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um the cartilage one u have to be 16 ...
um but places might do em now
just take some one older they
don task about all the hoopla
the belly button thing i think you should wait till your 18
cause thats more probable to get infected ...
and you really want to go to a good clean shop to do that ...
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keep it zen!
[Nancy.Dot.Com]
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Ok well my mom found out about me and my boyfriend because of his mom and now my mom is upset not only is she upset because I have a boyfriend but because she had to find out from someone else who wasn't me and I did something bad I denied it and now she's even more upset because not only did I keep this from her but I lied about also and well lately a lot has been happening in my family between my mom and dad they've been arguing and fighting a lot and my dad brought me into it and my mom got so heated that she blurted out "I know what your keeping from me and we have a lot to talk about" and she's serious so lately she's been really diffrent towards me she no longer looks at me as who I use to be and tomarrow me and her will be home alone and I know she's going to come into my room and make me spill the beans about me and my boyfriend and I'm afraid if I tell her she's obviously going to tell my dad and then it'll get really bad (my parents are beyond strictd) he'd be capable of murdering me (sacarsticly speaking) please I don't know what to do .. (link)
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i agree
with roxxi1999
you should just tell her the truth and hope that she will understand
and later fogive you for it ...
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keep it zen!
[Nancy.Dot.Com]
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im a twin and i feel as if my dad treats my sister differently than me .. she snuck out of the house and got caught and she didnt even get grounded while me on the other hand didnt tell my dad all the details about my friends sweet sixteen and i was grounded from my boyfriend for a week .. does anyone know what i can do? (link)
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TELL HIM
just tell him how you feel
I feel like your treating me *different Blah blah blah *thats unfair blah blah blah *we are equals blah lah blah stuff like that
your dad shouldnt treat you different at all
if that doesnt change then i dont know what 2 tell you
sry ?
hope i helped sorta?
evs
keep it zen!
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I have a mom tht is a control/protect freak she always wants things her way. I have to have my room the way she wants it my computer has to face the way she wants it and she always says when im with her im on her time and the problem is tht she always wants me to do her stuff. I run to the car, get the mail, take out the garbage(sumtimes), and do everything to care of my dog and she still doesn't appreciate me. She is way over protective. She doesn't like me goin places without her or my dad even tho i end up goin it usually takes hours of fighting and begging and crying. I am tired of her controling my life especially my room. I want my room to be MY room not hers. I like my room messy cuz then it feels like i actually live in it. What should I do? I dnt know how to talk to her cuz she always blocks me off but she never blocks my brother off when he is having problems. I dont get it she always says i have to wait till my dad comes home to discuss what is happeneing When i try to talk to her she takes things away and says she is in control!!!! i hate it she always says i dnt understand anything and i never will. When my brother calls me slut, dunce,bitch, etc. and i tell her she doesn't do anyting about it she just tells him not to and when i do those sort of things she punishes me. i cnt take it anymore HELP MEE!! (link)
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questions like these are the reason i started this for people who really need teh advice
*your mom doesnt control you she here to be your mom to guide you and help you during tough times tell her like write her a letter and tell her how you REALLY feel tell her all the names shes called you and how they affect you
hope shell understand and change and not call you all those terrible names
if she comfronts you about the letter tell her straight up how you feel and talk to her about it if that doesnt work
just dont let your emotions get the best of you
hope i helped
zen4evr
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i have a great relationship with my family, but my mom lately has been driving me absolutely crazy! Every day her and my dad come home in a not so good mood and same with my sister so i have to be happy even when ive had a bad day too. my sister and i do chores and ive been doing everything lately. i bring it up with my mom but she just gets ticked off and says my sister is struggling with school and all this other stuff. shes 19 and im 15 but we seem closer in age. She doesnt get that im working so hard to try to get all A's to make everyone happy, she keeps over looking it.I'm struggling in some of my PAP classes and i try not to talk about it because i dont like to complain about school. she says she understands how i think but i KNOW she doesnt. see, when i think, everything has to balance out, like a proportion in math. thats why she doesnt get me. its like my sister is going through alot right now, more than me, but im still having a difficult time in sooo many different ways its like a little kid carrying 15-20 pounds and an adult carrying like 30 or 40. the adult has more but the little kid is probably struggling too. she thinks just because my sister has more, things are harder for her than they are for me. she doesnt know what ive been through the last year of my life and itd difficult to talk about so i dont plan on cluing her in, but its nothing that i havent already taken care of. she thinks she knows me so well but really, im like a stranger living the life of someone she thinks she knows. how can i make her understand. im so frustrated i feel like crying!! thanks so much (link)
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family is always frustrating at this age TRUST me i know little things start to bug you and school work its a lot to deal with for a person at such a young age yor parents dont know whats happening and im guessing that neither does your sister (they always try to do everything with the best intentions)if your having a bad day and you dont want your family bothering you i suggest telling them maybe it will change what they want to tell you or at least not bug you as much tell your sister too if she does bug you intentionally well then maybe she just mean :(
just tell them strahight up theres nothing better than that !!!
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I went out with Adam about three months ago. Before I went out with him, my friend Lanie went out with him. Me and Adam broke up, but we remainded close friends. However, Lanie and Adam started dating again.
Now Lanie won't let Adam talk to me at all anymore! It's so stupid, she thought we were flirting, but I have a boyfriend! Its really annoying, cause now he won't talk to me or else she threatens to break up with him. He'll try to sneak over and talk to me when she's not looking, but sometimes she`ll catch him and get super mad! What should I do? I miss my friend!
Thanks, Haylie. (link)
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here my brilliant answer
wel its not really an answer its like a comment thing whatever
i think that shes probably mad at you for going out with him now she doesnt want that to happen again try to avoid confict with her and him at the same time
stay close to your boyfriend right now he wouldnt want you stressin"
i doubt that i helped but its just another opinion !
~zen*
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I have been astral projecting since I was about 5 and i never told anyone it was something that i always did during the night time or during naps sometimes it would happen even when I didn't what to, but my whole family finally relized that I astral project that thought I was weird and said that's it's fake and that's witchcraft but I never thought of it like that and now my family thinks i'm messed up what should i do. I can't help astral projecting it's in my nature....Please help me (link)
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dont ever let anyone judge you ever
your not differenty or weird in any way
if you cant help it then its just natural its nothing you can do to help it
just explain to them what it its and hopefully theyll understand
all i can say just hope it works
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Okay let me start out by saying that im 13 and the middle child in my family. Well, my mom and me used to get along all the time..like she used to be my best friend and ever since i turned 13 everything my sister (7) does..gets blamed on me. When my sister once called 911 to see what would happen when i was in the shower, the police came to my house when i was babysitting her, and i got blamed for "not watching her." When duh she should know better not to do it. i hate getting blamed for everything. what can i do to help the relationship between me and my mom..and not get blamed for everything? (link)
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its always tough to be the middle child esspecially now that your growing up
maybe your mom thinks that you could take on a little more responsability and having a smaller sibling is always tough but you have to remember that you will be given responsabilities and your sister is just one of them
just keep calm and try to avoid a fight w/ your mom
hope this helped in any way
but im just 14 too but age is just a number
luv*lotz
zen*pshyco
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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.
I WILL TOTALLY RATE. (link)
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since your moms very strict and all i dont know if this will work but give it a shot anyways
----BEG!-beg your heart out
just kidding but not to rub it in your face or anything but mu mom didnt evr really give me a bedtime i would just go to sleep at 11pm
its really not that fair
theres no actual way to make your mom change her mind i guess wait till summer?
i have a weird feeling this wont help you at all but whatevr
ZEN*PSHYCO
7ROCK7ANGEL7
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ok so im your tipical f/14. i have kissed a guy and all that good stuff but im not a slut. i kept some notes from recent years that i didnt want anyone to see. well i keep them in a box thats ALWAYS locked. one day i left it open and i went to school. my mom went in the room that was it and read EVERY SINGLE NOTE. now she has gone to far. shes done stuff like this before but not this bad. im about to either run away or just block her out of my life. shes pissed at me for not talking to her about "stuff" and im pissed at her for going through my "stuff" no matter what in my opion she should have never looked at any of the stuff it had nothing to do with her. shes made me so upset, i cried and my blood pressure is so high my face is as red as a tomato and has been like this for about 2 hours. i cant eat im so upset. i dont know what to do but this stuff is getting old FAST!
HELP before i go insane... (link)
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Don hate me for this answer but i think you kinda should let your mom into a bit more of what goes on in your life (NOT EVERYTHING)but some stuff just so she can get off your case a bit -she shouldnt invade ypur privacy like that but it just goes to show yhat she actually cares about you and that shes worried that at this age you might be experiensing these new things
but whatever case im just a 14 year old to so
7ROCK7ANGEL7
ZEN4EVR!!!!!!!!!
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ok well i have a temper problem and i tend to get frustrated and moody and annoyed over the smallest things reeeeeeeeeeeeally easily.
how do i get over this and what do i take it out on????
also, my family is really nosy and always wants to talk to me and wont let anything go, but im getting reaaaaaaaly annoyed of them
i just cant stand them!!!!!ughhhh
what do i do to talk to them the least i can but not have them get mad or jus keep talkn to me more??
plzzzzz helppp!!!! (link)
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ok all these small anger problems are easy to solve
*try karate or any thing physical join a gym buy a punching bag take out all your anger
*meditate
light a candle(scented)sit in the middle of your room and buy one of those soothing sounds cds and shut down your brain and dont think of anything
*put your face into a pillow and yell as loud as you possiblly can (but you might loose your voice)
*write in a diary,poems,songs that helps me a lot yeah it sounds stupid but if no one sees them their you precious and own inner most thoughts and they really mean alot
find a hobby something youre good at anything to distract you from your anger ART thats cool it also helps Me big time!!!!!!!!!
or maybe you have PMS I dony know
goog luck
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On weekends, and such, I go out with my mother and grandmother. I'm very close to them, and they're really cool. We relate a lot even though we're all different generations. I guess I'm a lot closer to my family than most people my age.
I look at other seventeen year olds though, and they're always out with their friends, partying and stuff. I very rarely go out with my friends, because a lot of them annoy me and I have a lot more fun with my family.
But I'm starting to think I'm the only teenager who goes out with both my mother and grandmother, and I should be going out with people my age doing more "teenagery" things, as I don't want to look back on my youth and think of all the things I missed out on.
Firstly, is this pathetic? Should I be doing things with people my own age? If so, how do I meet some new people?
Be honest! I can take it. And thank you. (link)
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i think that hanging out w/your mom and grandmother is the most awesome thing you can possibly do
cause some people never get to do that like me. appreciate every moment w/them.
but you stillmight want to try to do stuff your own age because you Might regret it in the long run but falling into the paty scene and all that junk isnt always that glamorus
because if you drift apart from your mom and grandmother they might end up being just relatives and not your friends they end up being a figure of athourity the relatives that lecture and punish you.
All im saying is go out once in a while but always make sure to still spend time w/ur mom & grandmother because you never know how long your going to have them with you
7ROCK7ANGEL7
A.K.A
ZEN*PSHYCO
mucho luv
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