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**Bridgette**

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my parents are divorced and it seems that all my friends have a very happy family. i cant help but feel theres something wrong with me...why cant i have a perfect family and perfect life like everyone else? what have i done wrong!??!

You have done nothing wrong. People change and the spark between parents fade. Everyone's parents have problems,but some people have problems that are or they are not fixable. Your friends parents might have a better relationship,or they find a comprimise. Your parents did find a comprimise. You don't want to think that your held responsible when your not. Your parents made the choice and its just a whole in the road your going to have to get over.

My best wishes.

**Bridgette**

P.S I want to hear from you again so write to me. My ears are always open.

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My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.

She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".

Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.

I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.

ASk your mom and talk to her. You need her side of the story first. Getting angry never solves anything. It actually makes things worse. Confront your mom and explain that you read her email and you are conserned about her seeing a guy. You might just be suprised that they are friends. Everyone flirts its like human nature. There is a possiblity that you are right and you might help you mother get out of it because every mother wants to set a good example for her child!

Good luck,and i hope your not right about your mother!

**Bridgette**

P.S i love to hear from you so go to my column or email me. My email address is on my column.

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hey,
Well, here's the deal I'm almost 17 and my boyfirend is almost 21. My mom thinks he's only 18, she hasn't met him before becuase we both are in job corp.He just left for the army and I'm going to have a baby now. I'm onlt 2 1/2 months. We have been together for 8 months. Well, this is my Question how do I tell my mom when she thinks I'm still a virgin?
loca

Tell her like it is. She is your mother and im almost sure shed want to help you as much as possible. Plus she has a grandkid(s) on the way. She might get a little bit upset but who wouldn't. She is your mother and she'll love you and help you no matter what.

God Bless You And Your New baby/babies!
Plus congratulations.
if you ever need anything wirte to me or email me. You will find my email at my web page.
Sincerly & Praying for your family,


**Bridgette**

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ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this?

Just be yourself. I took it the same way when I found out my friend was bi. I have a complicated life and it just added more stress to me. At first it was weird and i didn't know how to react or how to act about it so I acted as normal as I possibly could and before I knew it I was back to being my self around her because we had so much fun together and forgot about. Just try not to think about it just pretend he's not bi. You sound like you love him a lot so don't let it get to you. Everyone is different and makes his/her own decisions you just have to support it.

Hope your relationship with your cousin still stands as strong as ever! Sincerely,


**Bridgette**

P.S- if you need any more help or want to tell me how it all worked out I would enjoy hearing from you!

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Ok I created an account on here a couple days ago, I loved giving people advice and was so happy! Well when I told my mom what I was doing she kept getting on my case and wanted to know EVERYTHING that I was doing and saying to people. Well then she told my sister and my sister got my mom on her side and they are saying that I shouldn't give people advice b/c it may backfire! Well I mean should I still visit this site and give people advice even if my mom and sister say not too?


P.S.-If it does backfire it wouldn't really be my fault would it? The person didn't have to take the advice, I was just giving them ideas and voicing my opinion right?

You first ask them for a couple reasons why you shouldn't visit this sit. Next tell them what you said in the p.s and some other opinions of yours to why you should help people with there problems. I just got this new User Name yesterday because I didn't like my old one because I had it for a very long time. You should tell your mom that it is good to give people advice when they ask for it, and that it could help those people out more than you could imagin. For example on my old s/n I had an inbox question saying she was going through a tough time and it was so bad she wanted to kill herself, plus she was a cutter( someone who cuts themselves). I gave her the best advice I could telling her to get help so she doesn't cut herself anymore, and not to kill herself and other things about what to do with the things she was going through. I never heard from her again until 3 months after my advice and she was cured she said i helped her so much and now she loves her life. See you need to show your mom it helps when you give advice to people.Thats all it takes. Write to me again so i know how it all turns out.


Hope your still aloud to give advice because it is the best feeling when you know you helped someone that day. Sincerely,



**Bridgette**

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i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this.

First of all, start with yourself. If you're not comfortable with the way you are make so changes to help you feel better about yourself, then work on your family if you are comfortable with the way you are. Try to convince your siblings to stop drinking so much. ( get them help. )There is nothing i can say with your parents but maybe to got to marrige couseling.Your little sister will stop being spoiled when your parents are fighting or possibly getting a divorce. I hope you don't have to go through a divorce though.

Hope it all works out in your favor! Sincerely,



**Bridgette**

P.S - Need any more help or tell me how it goes write me some feedback or go to my column and write to me there.

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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!

I am very sorry about your parents divorce. My mother was also remarried but my father had died when I was seven. Never run away it is the worst thing to do. have a nice talk with your mother and step-dad and tell them how you feel and would like to be treated. Or you can talk to just one of them ,but it would be best if you talk to both so they both know whats going on. Act normal when your around him and if he can't exept you for who you are then just talk to your mom about that one. It took me a couple of years to get used to him but know I love him and he loves me. I hope it works out for you like it did for me. If you need more advice go to my column.

Hope it helps! Sincerely,



**Bridgette**

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My family expects me to be exactly like my cousin, "Sarah". Sarah's one of those preppy, popular girls, & I'm not even close to that. I have a few close friends & I'm more laid-back. Just because we look alike (we look like sisters), everyone expects us to act alike. I hate being compared to Sarah all the time & being expected to be like her. I don't want to be her shadow. How can I handle this?

Talk to your mom or dad or someone who you are having this problem with. Tell them you are a very different person and you don't want to be exactly like your cousin. They probably love you a lot they will understand you.

Hope my advice helps you and anytime you need advice just go to my column. Ok! Sincerely,


**Bridgette**

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to start..im 17! i feel so different from my family...im the youngest of 4!! i just dont wanna be around them anymore..my friends even tell me im wayyyy different from them!! i get sooo aggrivated with them over nothing! i really dont know what to do! i want to move out...im trying to save money but im between jobs now!:-/

Try to find out your differences and why you feel so different from them. Then find ways to work those things out. I had to do it before, because I'm the youngest of 7. We are all girls.The youngest always feel different because they are allowed to do more things. You never should feel upset because you are different you should be happy. God mayde everyone special and unique. There is not one person who looks exactly like you. Not even twins look exactly the same. So don't try to fit in you should stand out because you're different from your family which is very good because the if people were the samelife would be boring.

Good luck to you! Sincerely,


**Bridgette**

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okay so i was in a chat room and out of no where this guy asked me to cyber. i said no cuz i didn't even know him. well he started saying shit anyway and i was just about to say shut up to him and block him when my mom walked up behind me. well she read what he said and now i'm grounded for two weeks! but i didn't even do anything and i tried to explain that to her! what should i do!!

Sit your mother down and tell the full truth to her. Say that you were going to block him but he kept saying horrible things. If it doesn't work I am truely sorry, but at least you know you told her the truth and are not lying to her. A wordof advice if a stranger asks or says something to make you feel uncomfortable or hurt block them or leave that chat room right after he says something nasty or anything even if it is one of your closest friends. Try to make sure it never happens again.

Hope it works out for the best!! Sincerely,


**Bridgette**

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My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again???

Talk to your mother tell her your not comfortable in what you wearing. Try to comprimise or reason with her. Maybe you'll find so punkish cloths that you both like.

My best wishes! Sincerely,

**Bridgette**

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My Uncle Alan used to live with me. Although hes not very pleasent, I USED to love him and he had no problem with me either. So he moved out and my mom recently had a baby. Im 12, the baby is 1. He loves the baby so much. I dont like her at all but thats besides the point. He suddnely hates me, and he literally hates me, and loves her. He has tshirts with her on it, hundreds of pics of her on the walls, shes his DESKTOP for heavens sake!!! Why does he not like me? Hes really pissin me off. Not only this, he abuses his pets!! One had to be uthinized becuz they hurt it when it had an eating disorder!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Talk to your mom or your uncle.Tell them what you are telling me. All babies get so much attention because when their younger they are so precious and cute all adults love them to the maximum. Just talk to them tell them how you really feel , and I'm sure your uncle loves you very much but has a funny way of showing it. If by chance he doesn't love you and doesn't care what you have to say I am truely sorry.

Best of luck to you! Sincerely,

**Bridgette**

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