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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!

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So, I am about to have a baby and someone mentioned that there are a bunch of places that will send you baby stuff in your mailbox if you just ask for it? How do you do this? Is there a list of companies that do this, or do you just have to write everyone and hope they send you something? LOL!

https://www.babiesonline.com/offers/
That website has a bunch of samples from different companies you just choose what you want all free and if you go to the similac strong moms website (link below) you can get $329 worth of formula and other products free don\'t forget to ask the nurse at the hospital for your dredge diaper bag.

Www.similac.com

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Hi, im Gracie and Im 13 and my question is...

Do you hit your kids to punish them? My dad never hits me; he grabs me and shakes me sometimes lol or he yells but he never hit me. But the other day I went to a friends house and her mom slapped her for rolling her eyes. I thought that was kinda harsh and unfair. So I was just wondering if lots of parents hit their kids and why? Isnt that like abuse? What if it makes your kids hate you?

Here's a link to a website me and my sis found when we were looking up stuff like this. It's kinda funny but mostly harsh, I think it's suppose to be taken as a joke. Anyhow I thought I'd share it. (it's has alot if swear words too).
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat

I have two beautiful children and I love them so very much. I was abused by my mother. I didnt just get spanked, my mom would beat me with anythings she could get her hands on. She fractured a bone in my skull by hitting me with a board. I would never ever hit my children in any type of way. When my kids do something bad they get a time out. That means they sit on a chair for 1 minute for each year old they are (my son is 3 so he sits for 3 minutes) this gives him time to relax and think about what he did. As for your friend I dont believe that even deserves time out let alone a smack. I do think that hitting a child in any way is abuse. And as for shaking a child that is abuse in my eyes too. No one should ever get agressive like that with their child. Hope This helps you :)

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My baby..well hes my nephew ( I proabably spelled that wronge) Is 18 months he should be talking full sentences right? He says a couple words: Cat, Ma ma, Da da, Ball, Rawr, Tickle, Boom, and Hello. There not so clear, but you know what hes saying. I try to teach him words and he just won't listen. So when do you think he should start speaking? He also ALL THE TIME SAYS ckkkdnfyw edbwh Like hes speaking spanish or smonething. Idk. HELP!

He is only 18 months... give him time and he will pick it up... if you would like to help him you can point out things around him and say the words clearly so he will pick it up also I got my son the your baby can read program when he was 12 months and he started picking up words very quickly he is now 3 years 5 months old and he is speaking very well full sentances non stop and he can read def suggest getting this to help him learn... also he can watch eduational shows like barney and elmo my kids love that stuff and they learn so much my son learned his abcs and how to could to 15 so far by watching barney good luck with the little guy my daughter will be 2 in november and she doesnt talk in full sentances yet but she knows a lot of words you just have to work a lot with him and also he is a little young

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just wanted to say according to your title "youngmommy" im guessing you have kids... annd if you do i think your a great mom, or will be a great mean, you seeem like a very nice, understandable person(:

Aww this has got to be the sweetest thing that anyone has ever said to me.... I have two children my son is 3 and my daughter is 17months. I really appriciate your compliment it makes me feel so happy inside :) thank you so much

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Is 20 too young to move in with someone? I am about to get my bachelor's in a few months, I have a job with which I can support myself,and with a year or two more of experience there it will easily become a career. I live on my own, and I've been best friends with the guy for a year and a half. He is 25, is financially stable, has money saved up for a future family, he is responsible, lives on his own as well.

We haven't really talked about it much, but is it weird for me to want to settle down so young? There's no job I want more than to be a mother and wife. I would love to be a stay at home mom, and then work part time once the kids start school. Obviously, if my husband can't support the family while the kids are still too young to start school, I can work as well too, but the first alternative would obviously be the ideal because I'm not too keen on daycares.

Is it strange that I thought this all through? I don't want to rush into things, I want to start with moving in together first for a year or two, and seeing how that goes. Then getting engaged and married and all that (I don't really believe in long engagements, if I am going to agree to marry someone I would be ready to marry him that very second). I'm not a big fan of weddings either.

This man and I have survived through a ton, more than most relationships go through in such a short amount of time. Where most relationships fall apart, we stayed strong (but of course we had many fight and disagreements along the way, it hasn't been perfect, the important thing we resolved them and moved on).

Is this weird? Should I tell my man that my dream is to be a wife and mother? Right now he's working hard to save up money for the kids he plans to have, so I feel that its something he may appreciate hearing, but I don't want to freak him out by telling him I want this now (I want it in 3-5 years). And I know he doesn't want that right now either, he doesn't feel financially ready.

Any personal stories on how you took your relationship to the next level? I feel like the man should be the one who decides when that will happen, but will hinting ruin things? I don't want him to feel like I'm pressuring him, because I know that with him that's the worst way to go about things.

You seem to have everything thought out and planned and that is very good... its wonderful that you have a plan, being 20 and settling down isnt bad if you are ready, I was even younger when I got married and had my children... its okay to tell him what you want for your future let him know that you dont plan on rushing into it but you do want it... its very important to make sure you both want kids and marriage in the future... good luck on everything I wish you the best in your future... I hope you have many happy years :)

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My daughter is 13 and I'd like for her to start paying for her new clothes, accesories, and basically everything. Of course I would still pay for her food and keep a roof over her head. She doesn't have a job but she gets $5 a week for allowance. Do you think it's okay to make her start paying for stuff?

Having your daughter start making her own money and having her by things on her own is a very great idea... she is only 13 so you may want to up her allowance a little and teach her if she wants something she has to save the money to buy it... still provide her food and clothes that she needs but if she wants something extra like a hat or an extra shirt tell her to save up maybe give her small task to earn the money since she cant yet get a job she has to learn how to handle money and how to save for what she wants good luck

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