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Hey, my name is Katie. I live in Australia with my fiance and 2.5 beautiful children. In my 24 years i have had many ups and downs. I've lost loved ones, I've suffered depression, I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship which ended badly, I've cheated and been cheated on, I've been homeless, I've had cancer... Thats just the tip of the ice-berg. I think I'm pretty well qualified to answer pretty much anything you throw at me.

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My boobs have been sore for the past week or so now really bad. Wearing a bra hurts it's the inner bottom of them, and on the sides so if your looking at me, it's the bottom of each boob and on my right boob it's sore on the bottom up to the left side and the left boob on the bottom up to the right side. Idk why this is. I just can't wait to like get my bra off each day because of it. I'm not on my period or anything, idk what it could be.
Please help.

17/f

Pregnancy, hormone imbalance caused by birth control, certain times of the month, wrong size bra... All those can cause pain and discomfort. Make sure you feel for any lumps or changes though as pain can be caused by that too...

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so i shaved my arms and i think it looks good but i dont know if it was a good idea

Well if you also shave your legs, imagine the same, but on your arms... Its a never ending chore and they will grow back darker. Save some money and get them lazered. Or use hair removal cream or wax...

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i have seen people do this before; where they take a single comment that someone sent them and put it as a picture ( like put it anyway). can anyone tell me how to do that?

it would help :/ thanks

I agree with that answer below but on mine i have to press CTRL + SHIFT + PRINT SCREEN

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for two years i worked in a restaurant that didn't serve alcohol, so i had no worries. i just started working at a restaurant that does serve alcohol, so now i get the joy of IDing people. they told me to ID EVERYONE, even old folks, because you dont want to risk undercover cops coming in and things like that and get in trouble. i've only been there for two days, so i've just been following, and the servers ID sometimes, but not always, particularly older people. i plan to ID especially the younger ones, but if someone is clearly like 40 or 60 years old, is it really necessary to ID them? in this little orientation video they made me watch, it said to ID if they look under 30 [in other words if their age is questionable], so let's say an undercover cop comes in who's like 50, and ordered a drink and i didn't ID him, would i really get in trouble? i mean, are you seriously supposed to ID EVERY ONE?

You should try looking up the law in your state... I live in NSW Australia and the law says that if you look under 25 you need to be checked. Dont bother checking older people. Its more of a waste of time. You'd be more productive if you just check under 25s.

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so the phrase "thats cool" is overrated.
so instead i now say "thats chill"
but now, a bunch of people in my school are saying it.


i need a new phrase!
like, "thats ________" (beast,bomb,etc.)

please and thank youuu.

thats the shit right there!!

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Are you happy?

Yes, i am. Sometimes i have moments where i feel horrible, because im pregnant and sick... but the things i have in my life right now... a loving boyfriend, a healthy daughter, a place to live and call home... they make me feel happy.

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So i lost my virginity to a real jerk who broke my heart and made me very depressed i decided a long time later that when i met the right person i would have my hymen reconstructed for a very special night i have been with this guy for almost a year and he is very special to me but now i am starting to have second thoughts about the hymen thing i asked one of my guy friends if it was a good idea and he said it was a very discusting idea and i should not do it i need opinions what do you think
thanks

WHY???

Why would you want to go through the pain again?
Why would you want to lie to a guy you like??
Why would you waste your money having something done that you just going to UNdo???

Sorry if im so blunt and seem mean...

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I'm naturally very fair skinned and don't really tan. If I'm out in the sun long, enough my shoulders and back will burn (like a lot of people). So I figure it's probably pretty pointless for me to try using a tanning bed, because I know they say "if you don't tan in the sun, you won't tan in here." But I've never really tried to get tan. Like, it doesn't happen easily, so I've never really tried that hard, or laid out for very long. So maybe if i was in the beds where it is so concentrated and stuff, I'd actually be able to get a little color? Is it easier in the concentrated beds than it is normally? I'm from Michigan, so that's part of why I don't get to try than much.

With all the new information out about tanning beds and skin cancer now, it is becomming 'uncool' to have a tan. White is the new tan. Get a fake tan. You can get spray on ones that you do yourself that are pretty cheap and dont look like you did it yourself.

Do your research if you are going to use a tanning bed. A lot of people where i'm from have contracted skin cancer from using them.

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im thirteen and i wanna masterbate. ive tried to do it before. do you just stick one of your fingers up ur vag. and how far up? like are you suposto get and oragasm? because iddint

There isnt any real way to do it... Firstly... find your clit... Its a little nub at the top of your slit under a little hood of skin. Find that and play with it and you may get that orgasm your looking for. Look on google to find diagrams of the vagina to find your clitoris...

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u think what happend with u is most shocking part and u can answer anything
then tell me what have people in palestine done why are they being dealt like that what about innocent childrens and ladies and young men are being killed like flies and bees ..

I didnt exactly say that what i've been through is the most shocking thing in the world. I know there are far worst things that could happen to people, such as what you described. Im not sure how to answer your questions. Life is cruel. If it can hurt you it will and there are people in this world who are nasty nasty people. I dont deny that there are horrible things happening in the world, however I am not the right person to say why.

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Ok, so my eyes change colors in shades of brown. They're either a very dark brown, almost (if not) black, a medium brown, or a very light, golden, almost honey shade.

I'm not sure if that means I have a shade other than brown, haha.

But why does this happen?
Oh, and my eyes don't match. I have like a squiggly line that looks like a river in my right eye and a dot that looks like the sun in my other.
Why is that?

I'll post some links to pictures of the different shades they turn.

Black:
http://i40.tinypic.com/4qqumg.jpg
http://i44.tinypic.com/2zsvbic.jpg

Dark Brown:
http://i44.tinypic.com/29sec1.jpg
http://i43.tinypic.com/16bdg93.jpg

Medium:
http://i44.tinypic.com/11ln1j7.jpg
http://i42.tinypic.com/v7xe89.jpg

Golden/Honey:
http://i40.tinypic.com/1fg6j5.jpg
http://i41.tinypic.com/24gj5ua.jpg

Your eyes are BROWN!!!
How couldnt you know that?

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Is it wrong to have a crush on an older celeb if your only a teenager? Im 17 years old and have a huuuge crush on Chris Meloni(detective stabler on Law and order SVU) and Vincent D'Onofrio(Det. Goren on Criminal Intent). they're like 47-49 years old. Is that weird? i mean, my mum has a crush on them too but she's about their age so it isnt weird for her. I also have a crush on Rob Pattinson from Twilight but he's 22 so that isn't strange for me. Am I weird??? :S

Nah, its a harmless crush... I have a crush on Adam Sandler and i think Stabler is sexy... In an older kinda way...

:-D

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So i know this kid named justin through my friend rachel. they're really good friends. and we hang out in groups sometimes. A couple monthes back we all hung out and we flirted a little and i started to have a thing for him. We didn't talk though really. Than we hooked up at semi, but still didn't. After we hooked up things were pretty awkward but after a week or so we'd exchange some words in class but nothing special. Than we were both drunk and hooked up again. Same thing happened again. Than just aabout a week ago it happened again. And we we were drunk. Its so frustrating because i know if he wanted to talk to me he'd text or call, but he hasn't. I like him a lot but I dont want to tell him that and I dont want to text/call him first. What do i do? Is he just using me for a hookup when were drunk? Do you automatically have feelings for someone after you hookup with them? HELP what do i do?

I think he's just using you for a hook up. Ask him about it. Tell him you're into him and stuff but dont be pushy. That will probabably just make him run for the hills!!

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I am 4 mo. pregnant and the babies daddy left me penniless, homeless, and with out a car. I am about to be homeless in a few days and the sad part is I'm not a bad person. I don't do drugs and I don't drink and violence of any kind is just not in my nature. I love this child and its not even born yet. I live in the country and there are no homeless shelters anywhere near. I have no friends and family and will do anything to keep and raise my baby. Please help me what should I do. This child deserves its mother.

Terra

Go to police stations, welfare places ... churches... Places like that. Tell them your situation and they will help you.

As for the baby's daddy? WELL... It takes a MAN to be a daddy... it takes no one special to donate sperm and get someone pregnant!!!

He's not worth it!

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whats circumstantial evidence?

All evidence except eyewitness testimony. One example is physical evidence, such as fingerprints, from which an inference can be drawn

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Okay I am going to say my biggest fear....I am afraid of death. I'm scared of dieing. What can I do to stop thinking about it??

Death is scary for everyone, some moreso than others. Yeah it is true that we could die tomorrow, but we could also live till we are 100. No one knows when they're going to die and no one can tell you to stop being afraid. It is ok to be afraid of what you dont know. Go and see a psychic or get your tarrot cards read. It might give you some peace of mind.
I hoped i helped, and didnt make it worse..

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how come i start to yawn when i sing

Someone once told me that yawning is because you're short of breath. Try to breathe deeply and hypothetically, you shouldnt yawn as much.

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I saw this movie a really long time ago and I can't remember the name of it but I really want to see it again. Maybe someone will know the name. Heres what i remember of it.

It starts out my showing this girl being murdered by this other girl
than it goes to 2 years earlier
the girl that was murdered, Ill call her Lisa ,somehow became friends with this popular girl who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend became attracted to lisa and raped in her this barn.
The popular girl saw and thought they were having sex so she hated lisa and did horrible things to her. Like try to kill her. They all went against lisa. And there was one scene were they were at the movies and they shoved her and beat her up pretty badly.


The day she was murdered,she was about to go live with her father because of everything that happened. the popular girl and her friends prank phone call her mom and say she needs to come into work , so she does. They break in and murder lisa.


Im sorry if this is confusing and doesnt make sense, but thanks in advance if you can help me! Or if there are any like search websites for movies.

I googled sone key words and came up with this website.. http://www.pandys.org/escapinghades/triggeringmedia.html

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ok so you know those moving pictures people have on their myspaces. like cars going by or a book turning pages. you know?? well onj photobucket what do you type in to get that.

also is there a website for that??

thanx(:

OMG ok, i dont know but when you know can you PRETTY PLEASE tell me??!!

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How can I get tan and not get burnt?

Fake tan!! You can buy it in a tube, in a foam, in a spray.. Its fantastic!
But you dont need to be tanned to be beautiful. Just remember that.

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