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Q: i'm debating if i shood have a 14th b-day party. or jsut a little gathering with friends. for my 13th my mom treated me and 3 close friends to movies a nite in town and dinner. idn if i shood do that again or have some friends over at my house. i think i'm a little too old to like have a planned party somewhere like at a party place

have a party at 14. it's past that, that it looks silly, unless it's a "crunk party" like the ones in highschool. enjoy it, you're a teenager now.

Q: how do you grind, as in the dancing?

i looked like an idiot when i first did it like 3 years ago. it's just something that comes more and more natural to you. esepcially as you get older. it's basically like sex with clothes on. so yeah, your bodies are basically colliding into each other, you get in tune with the beat and rhymthm and etc.

Q: what does HTML mean
how do i use it
when should i use it
ill rate 5s to good answers

HTMLS are the basics of a website. if you are using IE (internet explorer) as your website browswer (the thing you're using to look at websites) then go to the top. where it says "File" "Edit" "View" "Favorites" etc...

click on "View"
click on "Source"

now, alll this mumbo jumbo stuff will come up. and that is all HTML. consider them letters to the alphabet (the alphabet being a website). you use them to create frames, insert marques (those little scrolling things), insert pictures and links and all that junk.

http://www.lissaexplains.com

that's a good website for some basics and stuff on html.

hope i helped

Q: Last week my sister was talking to this guy that I like and he also likes me back. She told him that I would go out with him if he just asked (which is true) and he was kind of sad and told her not until we are at the same school. So my question is, what do you think he means or why would he want to wait? He doesn't have a girlfriend right now if that helps. Thanks for your help.

long distance is harsh..he may have had a bad track record with long distance or stuff like that..believe it or not, school makes a huge difference. i can't imagine having a relationship with someone im middle school or from another highschool right now because it'd be utter hell. i'd never ever get to see them and it just wouldn't be thh same. maybe this guy doesn't like long distance relationships and wants for everything to be "just perfect" before getting a g/f like you.. just wait things out for him if he's really worth it =]

Q: my 16th birthday is dec. 27, and i know it's a little early, but i want 2 have a party but i have no idea what i want to do? does anyone have any suggestions? what did u do on your 16th? thx

umm you can just invite a small number of friends and have a close gathering at the movies or at home or at some special place that you guys always go to.. or you can go all out and have a nice huge party till like midnight lol.. or you can get a gang of people and go to an entertainment center, like Dave&Busters, or Gillians (s/p?) or.. hehe.. chuck-e- cheeze lol. umm you can also invite a few close friends for a sleep over and pig out and watch movies all night. that's mostly all that i can think of, hope i helped

Q: Okay..I'm not sure if anyone can awnser this question for me, but just incase someone can i'm gona ask. I recently did dxm..its also known as skittles. And i know thats really stupid. Now i'm regretting it. I'ts about a day after and I'm feeling really dizy still. Like i did when I was on it. I'm thinking i should probaly go see a docter but mabye everyone feels like this? I did it with my bf too and he doesnt feel it any more..so i'm starting to worry. I'm also on anti depresseants so i think that might have something to do with it. Plz dont delete this question. I need some opinons before i tell my friends or family. Plz help me! ..

-Scared

it's good that you informed us that you are also on anti-depressants.. that partially could be why.. i hope that you didn't take your anti-depressants anytime really before or after you took the skittles. those can cause a multiplyer effect and really screw things up.. leave yourself alone for maybe another day. it could be that just your body itself still hasn't gotten rid of the skittles or the depresants kinda helped it linger there for a longer after effect... but if the feeling still doesn't leave and it persists or gets worse then i'd talk to your parents right away about it because one way or another if you visit a doctor they'll know or have to know or end up fiding out (which isnt ever the BEST way for them to find out).. it's good that you've learned your lesson and even though it's really scary to even think about telling your parents you have to face up to this. goodluck!

Q: i personally dont think it matters what people rate me because i think what i gave is good advice, plus i dont care if people have high ratings or not if i ask a question

so what is your opinion?

note: im not gonna rate you if you post here.

hm.. i dont really care either... i mean advice is an opinion.. you can either take it or not right? and it's not our place to judge if your opinion is incorrect so i don't get mad over rating stuff.. if you think i'm good at advice.. then yey.. if not uh well hope you get better advice from someone else =]!

Q: hEY! so i visited ur advicenators column and then clicked on ur xanga which was totally kick ass! but i was j/w i was on it 2day at like 8:15 MN time and u had a song playing on there that i really liked! what was it called and who is it by? and can u give me any other of ur fav songs? cuz it seems like u have good taste! LoL! tHaNx sO muCh!

hey.. aww thanks.. umm well i hvaen't changed my song in a long time so i'm assuming it's the same as it's always been unless it's changed.
but the song on my xanga should be:yellowcard - only one ((unless i've changed it.. if i did then sorry and tell me and ill figure it out :)))

umm.. i listen to like basicalyl everything but im mostly a punkish girl but these are like my favorite songs in the world:

Savage garden - truly madly deeply
Yellowcard-only one
Maroon 5- she will be loved
blink 182- i miss you
fall out boy - grand theft autumn
hoobastank - the reason
the ataris - in this diary
boxcar racer - there is
offspring - want you bad
matchbook romance - stay tonight

lol those songs should keep you entertained for a while! thanks again (hah i can't wait to rub it in my friends face that someoen thinks i have good music taste =P)

Q: hey i like your column, will you add me to your favorites if i add you? my thingy is bleufishy. ps. you know cindy le?

hey..thanks for the compliment! and sure i'll add you =D

umm.. cindy le.. i'm pretty sure i don't know her.. sorry :(

Q: I've got long ( mid back ) straight dark brown hair . It's cut so that all my hair is the same length , and all straight at the bottom .

It's really boring , and i would like to do something special to it . Does anyone have any ideas ? I don't want to dye my whole head , but i wouldn't mind a funky colour or just some highlights . Is it possible to only dye the ends of my hair so i can cut it off just in case my mum freaks . ( i'm going to do it before telling her , because if i ask her first she will refuse flat-out )

Also , i would like to cut my hair so that it is shorter in front , but longer at the back . Kind of like Jojo . What is this called ?

Btw . i'm kinda tanned as i do alot of sports .

umm i'm a hair dork.. lol.. my hair is kinda dull too.. it's layered but this weekend im fixing on getting a haircut on having it straight all the way back and then as you move up my face (like from the ears to my eyes/bangs) then it gets "choppy" layered.. but I can answer you on one of your questions

you can just get like the tips of your hair highlighted.. it's kinda hard but it's possible.. if you do it professionally be sure to tell them how much is an "end" of the hair.. they may highlight too mcuh and you'll have to part with alot more than you thought you'd have to.

Q: i want to pierce my cartilage by myself. how should i do it? is this a good idea? n if not how much would it cost at a professional place? thankz

err haha i tried doing that to my friend when i was in 5th grade and she was in 6th.. didnt really turn out well.. we did the dumbest method ever.. we numbed out her cartilege with ice to ease the pain and used an UNSTERILIZED needle..

i don't think that you should do it yourself. alot of teens today do but it's not good for the skin. I'd have it professionally done.. and probably i be you can find a pretty cheap store that ranges from 10-20 bucks.. kinda expensive but uh well.

Q: hi. there are like 10 guys that want me right now... and its kool n all but if i break up w/ my bf or whatever.. next period someone asks me out and then after that someone else does like if they didnt no that the first person did. i like all of them! they are all soo hott lol but i mean i alwaysssss have a bf and never have a chance to b single and sometimes u just need to b single ya no. i dont want to hurt there feeling or have them not like me anymore.
what should i do?
lol thanx!

lol sometimes you just can't help it and you gotta get dirty and tell them straight out.. guys i need a time out (probably not in those words lol) but tell them that you need some space and free time to enjoy being single! if i were you i wouldn't tell them that you were interested as a "closing" sentence for them to think about.. because they could take it as a sign to keep pursuing you; i mean if you want them to continue pursuing you then by all means go and tell them that lol.. but i'm just saying be careful what you tell them. goodluck!

Q: even though its kinda scrwed up in some parts i LOVEEEEE it! i think that is the stupid websites fault but i hope that you can fix up the colum thingy that messed up....... i'm DEFINATEly goin to ask YOU for advice in future reference

awww thanks! you're so sweet.. yeah well I hope i can get it going again too.. seems like Advicenators is screwing up on alot of things but they're working on it! =D. well feel free to drop any problems on me...lol

bio

this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.

anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.