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I'm a not so typical asian lass that has no clue where she's going with her life, I'm somewhat of a ditz and so not very good at talking in front or to people. Though I am good at helping my friends, and even people I don't know too well, with their problems. I'm a computer junkie that loves to draw and create images with Photoshop. I'm also a hardcore anime fan.

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hey i have a problem with cutting and i dunno how to controll it and today 10/22/04 i wound up cutting my self agian because my b.f broke up with me and im like in love with him and ahh...hard to explain and well i need some advice on how to stop or atleast trying to controll it please help me!! ill rate you high and i would like some advice from ppl who actualy do it or used to thanks soo much and if you wanna takl to me more about it im me on
babi beautifulx3 or email me at babii_thug_699@yahoo.com

thanks so much!! ill rate ya a five if ya get at me

love always courtney

Well... I'm not going to say crap about religion and all that junk because it didn't help me when I was taking random things and jabbing it into my arms... Cutting is a hard thing to treat... I mean, it's kinda of an addiction... people do it for the feeling of relief they get after wards, or to see their own blood to know that they're alive... So it's hard to just outright stop the next day or next month... it takes time to stop...like years... Now onto how to control it, try to think what you're about to do and reason it out with yourself, it's going to be hard and you'll likly forget, but just try, even if you already 2 cms into your skin with a blade or something, think about why you're doing it and who's this is going to help.... If you're like me, it'll make it wore and piss you off and just do it some more... so then think about what people that really and truly care for would think if they saw you doing it. They'd most likely be sad or mad at you, for ruining your body... but hopefully they'll also be supportive. And if you really care about the people around you and you really want to be control it and eventually stop, think about who it helps, I mean... does cutting yourself cure cancer? Then think about the people that love you, think about how sad they'd be if they saw you with arms all torn and bleeding...

Hopefully that helped...and I wish you the bestest of luck...

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