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Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time

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ok so my ex boyfriend who is a total asshole is having a house party this weekend and i want to call the cops on it and get it busted. there will be underage drinking. i am not against underage drinking or anything but i do hate him and want to get back at him after he sent nude pictures of me around after our break up. so my question to you guys is whether anyone could find out that i did it. i wont tell anyone i did, but could they some how find out it was my number who called in? i really want to avoid drama which is why i dont want anyone to know. also do i just call 911? i am positive i want to call the cops and get it busted, i just dont know exactly what to do.

if you guys knew him you would hate him too. total douche bag.

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Honestly, I don't care what he did to you or what you want to do to him.

I care about the people in between that will also get in shit of trouble because of your grudge like that person below mentioned.

But revenge is revenge.

I have two things to tell you:

1. Call from a pay phone, and don't give out your name, no body will know who you are.

2. Living well is the best revenge.

Good Luck =]


Opinion question-

What do you prefer out of:
One Lip Piercing.
Snake Bites.
Spider Bites.
Double Spider Bites.

Totally your own opinion.
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Snake Bites. I was scared to get mine because I thought I couldn't pull it off or it's going to look too much and all those kind of questions went through my mind.

But they are AWESOME.

Good Luck =]=]


its my brothers 17th birthday coming up october 8th. i was wondering what should we do for him? he is a teenager so we need cool ideas. he doesnt know what he wants to do-thats why we need ideas! like for food, a theme, anything! thanks! (link)
For food of course you should get pizza and junk food plus add sweet with it like cookies and jelly stuff like that.. !

As in for Themes there is a lot:

Like if he likes star wars and stuff you can try something like the star wars theme.

Or if he likes superheroes you can try that then.

If he likes gambling, try las vegas theme.

If he is more into darker music try zombies theme.

Get a Dj, a good one hehe
Then you can have like a pool party and at night let it turn into a house party it would be cool and very long.

Good Luck =]


i was watching the movie "Adventureland" and they were... im guessing 18-19 and smoking pot and drinking. I know smoking pot and under aged drinking is illegal and that its just a movie but, is it ok to do those things at that age? Does everybody do it? i'm usually 100% a good girl (A+ student) etc. And would never consider smoking pot or drinking, but i can't help but wonder... HELP! i am currently only 13 though and will not smoke pot at this age. but

1.) is it ok at that age?
2.) does everbody do it?

- so confused.
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Well it doesn't matter how old are you but those stuff affect you somehow the same way.

Yes you're right mostly teenagers your age or maybe older do them, but of course they are reasons, like teenagers aren't mature enough, teenagers is the highway to being mature but it doesn't mean your mature enough. It could be a lot of reasons of why teenagers mostly do drugs; like for example, boredom is a major reason why teenagers do them or curiosity like why you thinking of them, or trying to fit in so you can be labeled as an badass and etc...

Honestly when I was your age, I used to drink, do drugs and all of this crap. So I am going to speak from self-experience.

I was curios, but stupid because I didn't know there would be consequences and I was also fearless.

You have to study about pot/alcohol before trying them because they affect your attitude, behavior, feelings and your emotions.. and if you want to become that person than go on try them but if you want to be that good girl, don't do them.

Why is drugs forbidden if they make us happy?

Because they make us too happy (confused aren't you?). I will explain ..

Human beings aren't capable of being extremely sad or happy, we are balanced, because if we get too happy and something very small like someone snapping at you, can get you depressed. Which is not good, because that would lead to suicide/destroying your life.

Why can't we drink alcohol till we are 21?

Because we don't have full control ..

When you get drunk, you can do something you don't want to do and next day that would affect you emotionally

Like loosing your virginity or saying stuff you shouldn't/don't want to say.

Look, my point is if you want to experience this stuff, you should know what your expecting before you do.

Good Luck =]


Okay, Idk what I want to be for halloween!! UGH!
I want to be something sexy. NOT whorish! Just sexy. Like the short fluffy skirts.
I'm looking for something cute, not gag me though.
I'm not EMO, I don't want anything like that.
I like to have fun! I don't want anything funny though. & My boyfriend also wants us to go as like, a theme? Like me be a sailor and him be the captain or whatever. HELP!
Sorry that I cant give enough info to help you guys out. Anything will work though, thanks! (link)
Okay .. I have two great ideas spontaneous ideas =]

1. Dead bride and groom :

Which is basically dressing like a bride and groom but instead of white twist it into black.

You can get a corset dress or just a sexy short (not very short but short enough) black dress.

Instead the white veil you get a black veil ( i did it myself, you can do it yourself at home).

Get long black gloves that covers half of your arm. You can pull of the classy look or the more modern look.

Add to the outfit a nut colon under your dress, it will make you look sexier =]

Afcoures you can't forget your high heels (get them extra high and shiny)

For your guy : Well he can just wear normal groom cloth but let him add a black vest and let him loose the jacket, don't let him look too formal.

2. Moulin Dancer and her Pimp =]
(Me and My ex boyfriend did this last year)

This is how you basically should look like :
http://www.flagshipfancydress.co.uk/ekmps/shops/flagshipenterp/images/moulin-rouge-costumes-101-c.jpg

I had a very similar costume

Your boyfriend : Should dress up like a pimp (I don't need to explain that)

Good Luck =]=]


Ok, so i know this question is is totally off the wall, but have you ever seen RENT? Well if you have you know who anthony rapp is. in his book, he mentions a freind that had and died of aids. He also mentions that this freind wanted aids... i forget why, but it was a really good reason.

is it bad that i kind of want a disease that i would die from? its not like i would go try to get aids or something, but im just wondering is this crazy to think like that? to want a disease? i mean we are all gunna die someday, so why not die from a disease????

What are your thoughts on it?

thanks. sorry if this is a totally random and weird question. (link)
Actually I have never seen Rent, but... I have an answer to your question ..

No, It's not bad, actually weeks ago I randomly told my mom 'I'd rather die from a disease' and she looked at me like I'm crazy but yeah .. I really do rather die from a disease but life has advantages and disadvantages, i though about this a lot.

Yes, we are all going to die. Like for example when a friend of mine says "This guy died from a car crash, I feel sorry for him", I don't get it, why would we feel sorry if we're going to die anyways? It doesn't matter when or how, it's going to happen, so suck it up. Like when my grandma died 90 years old, I wasn't shocked or surprised, actually I was expecting it, it's about time isn't it?, everything happens for a reason, and she died for a reason at the age of 90, maybe we're all so curios to know the reason and if we had a choice we will choose to know the reason of why things happen, but when we know the reason, we will wish we didn't.

As for myself, I'd rather not know the reason for any of things that happened/happening/will happen to me.


When you die without a disease, you will die suddenly without the fear of death because you didn't really expect to die NOW.. So that's an advantage from the sudden death but the disadvantage is "what if you wanted to apology to your boyfriend about something or your parents or your best friend" and you died suddenly without apologizing or without achieving you dreams.

When you die with a disease, you will have time to do stuff, like apologize to people you hurt and go play golf because you always wanted to do that, if you have a disease and you're going to die after two months, you will do right things, you will live the best two months of your whole life because you'll do whatever you always really wanted, you'll make the right discussions, you'll feel the value of life, but the disadvantage, you'll die with fear, you'll die wanting to live instead.

So either way it sucks. Happiness isn't why this planet exists. Some bad stuff happen to you and people go like "It's God's fault", No it's not.

Life isn't great but if you believe it is, it will be.

Like I see life just like a test. Like a shopping Mall, there are stores on the left and on the right. The rules are, You shop only at the stores on the right, you'll pass your test but you won't do everything you like. You shop on the left, you won't pass your test but you'll go clubbing, have sex, and rock n roll.

It's up to us... Hope I helped or answered any of your questions.

Good Luck =]=]





hi, i was just hoping to get your opinion on something: what do you think is the most independant animal? something which doesnt trust others too easily, and is cautious?

any ideas? i was thinking of a king cobra? but any ideas are welcome (link)
There is a lot but I don't know which is the most independent but I'll list some animals.

Tiger. The tiger is a confined solitary hunter, coming together with its own kind only to mate and raise the young. Other than that, the tiger hunts alone, sleeps alone, travels alone... basically does everything alone... except for sex of course, which cannot be done alone!

Sharks.

The amoeba. Self replication, minimal living space, simplified energy requirements. "It don't need nobody!"

Preying mantises. They're so independent that they'll eat their siblings and the females will eat their mates.

The Blue Whale.

Hope I helped =]=]



17/m. Hi, my 18th birthday is comeing up, and im not sure about what to do. I was thinking a cocktail and poker party? but, for my 16th, and 17th, me and close friends just drank, so my friend was all "isnt that the same as last year?" any ideas on what to do? or your opinion? thanks. (link)
Go to a male strip club ;)

OR

Get extremely drunk, go out with your friends to random streets and just go loco

How to go loco:

-Go in a supermarket wearing something sexy (of course) and dance dirty to the guy behind the counter and just laugh at him.

-Make out in the street while pretending your about to strip.

-Get water balloons and throw them at people while your passing in a car (make sure you have a car and someone sober is driving even through its funnier if he is drunk but be safe you just turned 18)

-Get eggs and throw them at cars so people would have to wash there cars

Anyways your going to be extremely drunk so do what comes in mind ;)

OR

You can go to a club like my neighbor downstairs said

Good Luck and Happy Birthday =]=]


Okay, this upcoming week I am going to get a rib tattoo of 3 chinese symbols, going down verically, about 4.5-5 inches long. I know i won't regret this tattoo and it's something i've wanted for quite awhile and i am of legal age. I would just like some personal experiences with rib tattoos and how you dealt with the pain during since i hear it is the most painful. Also, the symbols will be filled in black, will that be more painful? input is so important so thank youu! (link)
Ribcage Tattoos are painful, but not most painful

I have two tattoos on my back, one of them on my lower back and that one made me shake, my legs were shaking.

I have one tattoo on my right arm and one on my left shoulder

And ... one inside my lip and that was PAINFUL =]

But completely worth the pain, Tattoo pain is a pain that we can take.

Good Luck =]


so in a few weeks I'm going to a party that has pretty much a club theme but the problem is I can't dance or "grind" to save my life.
it's not exactly my scene so to speak
more on the slutty side while I'm kind of reserved I guess
the party is for a friend of my boyfriend and I won't really know anyone there
and Id rather not look like an idiot dancing/with what I'm wearing

if anyone can give me tips/websites/clothes ideas that would be great :)

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Whether you are going out to the local club for a night out with the girls or going out to make a few new friends your appearance should be a number one priority. Clubs are a place where you go to be seen and in a situation where everyone is dressed to impress your first impression will be a lasting one. You always want to be sure that you make your entrance in a style that suite you best.

Many clubs are loud and dimly light. While this works in your favor if you are one that does not like to strike up casual conversation it doesn’t help if you are used to impressing people with you conversational skills. When you don’t have the option of reeling admires in with your sparkling wit you have to rely on your natural good looks.

The first thing you want to think about is your make up. This may not seem hard to some but to those of us who don’t wear make up daily this can present a problem. It is hard to know what colors suit your complexion or how to properly apply the stuff. If you don’t know how to apply make up or how to pick the right tones don’t panic. Try to give yourself time to go to your local department store.

Wear something like : http://www.amiclubwear.com/clothing-outfit-b-7398black.html

http://www.chelseasofnewyork.com/club_dresses_sexy_clothes_clothing_clubbing_s/77.htm

Well as for dancing:

http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to/video/how-to-freak-dance-grind-246841/

Good Luck =]=]




I am trying to combine two words together: human and vampire and I can't seem to come up with the right word that makes it sound like it is crused. If you can think of anything that would be really great, if not that's cool too. (link)
Vampman, haha lol i tried


Hi im 17/f and my ex boyfriend is 19/m. I recently charged him with stalking and he sent me threatening e-mails to kill me. I got a restraining order today and it was accepted. I hear he went to jail earlier today but now is out and has a court hearing on tuesday. I know i have to go, or its a good thing to do. His dad is a prison guard and also is going to the hearing in behalf of my ex boyfriend. Im really scared. what is going to happen? Will they make me answer questions? Its all very scary can someone please tell me whats gonna happen?
THANK YOU! (link)
Well i think they will ask questions but why wouldn't they? And also that's a good thing, at least they get to hear you and get him into much more trouble, Not that he doesn't deserve it.

Just be confident of your answers and don't show any fears. Make the court understand your feelings and the trouble he made you go through.

As long as you're right and he is a bad person who threated you then he should go to hell and you have to stand up for yourself.

Don't worry and good luck. =]=]


i just got mny tongue pierced 2 days ago. its still swollen, and i think it might be too far back? i kind of have to stick it out far to beable to see it. im not sure if this is because its swollen or not. will it look better once the swelling goes down? and how long does it take for the swelling to go down? (link)
Well it's normal don't worry.

My sister's tongue stayed for 5 days, but mine stayed for 1 week lol.

i got three piercings on my tongue, so don't worry, i'm experienced with piercings.

Just leave it, i mean u got it 2 days ago, it has to look shit.

Good Luck


in blackjack, what does the running count do ? what does the number tell you ? (link)
i think it means when the other player is counting or doing the double


i don't know what the quote ;
" inhale love exhale hate "
means can anyone help me please ?!
hahah kthanksbyee - toriibabeyyx0 (link)
Ok i'm not sure but i'm going to try.

I think it mean inhale love as in get/accept some love.

And exhale hate means like throw/give away the hate.

So basically accept love and use it, while you throw the hate.

Hope i helped


There is a movie like from the 80's or early 90's about this guy and I think he was either raised by dolphins or somehow learned to communicate with them and then i think at the end he died or something or went to live with them...I feel like he died or drowned I cant remember, it was when i was little but I always wanted to see it again. Does anyone know what movie I'm talking about? (link)
All i can think about right now is 'Free Willy' lol but i don't think it's it, is it?


I've never understood the whole emo cutting wrists thing at ALL. But when I think about it, I get sick and almost throw up. LIke right now. So don't think I'm trying to learn how. I just don't understand how and why. Do they do long cut marks or what? No idea.. please inform me. (link)
Well in my opinon either way it's stupid (No offence to anyone who is so called *Emo*)

Some people are an outcast who wants to be *Emo*, so they start cutting their wrist and show it of to people so they can be called emotional and be *Emo* but those people are called more like *Posers*

Some people they feel alone or ignored, so for attention they cut it and show it of to people to get ATTENTION

Some people use it for suicide, when your heart is weak and you cant jump off a bridge then cut your wrist, this is what they think

Some people likes thrill so they cut it but my advice to those people play boxing if you want thrill

I hope I helped


I do not want this earth anymore, i want to go, i do not belong here, I do not like pain, so i have to do it painless. (link)
Sorry to tell you there is no painless suicide.

But i can help you alittle

You only get life once, I DONT CARE WHAT'S GOING ON WITH YOUR LIFE but snap out of it

If your mother is an alcoholic , your dad is an asshole, your pregnant, your inlove w ith someone that doesnt share the same feelings, you feel you dont have friends (ignored), you need a boyfriend, you feel fat and ugly or whatever


Everyone has this problems
but dont you fuckin get it , you only get life once, your meant to experince this shit so c'mon do it , go wild forget your problems and wtf? kill yourself dude whats the worst problem FUCK.




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