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Q: Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore, because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy?
I don't know how old you are but no matter what age you are, if you "really" like someone there are others ways to get to know each other before jumping into intimacies. If you like this guy, fooling around w/him should not dictate how he feels about you. Have some respect for yourself and tell him to back down a little bit if he doesn't respect that then your relationship would have been short lived anyway. Guys like that only want one thing and they will move on when they are satisfied or have found another victim.

Q: Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.
There is nothing wrong w/trying to get a laugh as long as it is not at someone else's expense. That said however, it is important to let people know you have a serious side so that you can develop more meaningful friendships w/people. If people think that you are just "wild and crazy" than they probably will not pursue a relationship w/you that goes beyond entertainment purposes but if that's what you want then go for it.

Q: ok this is a lil weird but im still gonna ask im 15 and i have like all the signs of puberty like hair voice everything except like size down there is that one of the last things to come or like is there something worng?
It is different for different men. Everything continues to grow as you do so when you have finished growing (i.e. height)then everything else will fall in to place. You should take into account if it is erect or flacid, a flacid penis can be very small. If you are really concerned ask a pediatrician that is what they are they for and they won't make a big deal out of it.

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