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Hey..My names Shelby im a Junior in highschool. I love my boyfriend ~*~AnDrEw~*~ I'm a cheerleader.My friends are the shit..((you know who you are)). And yea I'm pretty much the fucking shit =P jk..so yea if you need advice dont be afraid to ask.
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advice

(Sorry if this is the wrong category) How can you get rid of dandruff (possibly without using head and shoulders shampoo) and how can you prevent yourself from getting dandruff? Also, whenever I don't wash my hair the same amount of days as my sis, my hair is greasy and smelly, but my sis's hair doesn't smell that much, only if you smell her hair upclose. Why is this? Is there anything I can do about this? (It's really annoying, cause she always complains about how my hair smells and she's only like 2 ft+ away from me :|)

To prevent dandruff there is alot of things you can do. There are scalp treatments that isn't head and shoulders that work. (Its like a shampoo). Another thing alot of people dont do that prevents it is scratching there scalp in the shower with any shampoo and conditioner. Also repeating helps. Now for your hair being greasy and smelly faster then your sisters could be from a lot of things. If your are more active then your sister that could be some of it. Also hair texture and color can have an affect. If you hair is thin and straight it gets greasier faster. If you have thick curly hair, you can go up to 3 days without washing and be good. Blonde hair also doesn't show greasyness as much as brown hair. To get rid of hair smell you can use a different shampoo, perfume, hairspray, moose, gel, etc. hope i helped hun

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what is the restaurant called that gives you penis shaped hats and writes naughty things on them?

Dick's Last Resort.
Hope i helped hun.

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what are some good bikinis for the summer..
i have speed bumps but i got my period recently so by the time i have to start going swimming i'll have something,
im blue eyed
blonde

any advice?

im thinking maybe black or blue or blue and white stripes.. just ideas!

Poke-a-dots are cute..but like if your trying to get a good tan go for swimsuits with darker colors like black and brown. There are some suits that have gems on them that are really cute or there are some where they cut out a little shape in the suit like a heart or something and then when you go tanning you have a little tan tatoo heart on you. Its really cute. You should go to victoria secrets website and check out some. Goodluck!! hope i helped hun.

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From your point of view, what do you think the cons of illegal immigration are? And remember, it is ILLEGAL immigration, not legal.
Thanks!

They do a lot of work that americans are to lazy to do.

They also don't ask for a high salary. Money isn't as important to most immigrants as it is to americans.

They give america and variety of culture and keep us culture influenced.

They bring ideas from different countrys to ours.

Thats all i can think of for right now..hope i helped hun.

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Hey i am turning 16 at the end of march. Im a girl :)..but I am having a little party with just some of my friends. They are coming to my house and then we are getting in a limo for an hour ride or so. We are getting all dressed up (party dresses) So i thought that maybe we could go somewhere..? But i dont know where. We are coming back to my house..because my mom is making a Sweet/Dessert table and then we will open presents and stuff.. But where could we go with the limo instead of around town? Like i'd like to get out somewhere and maybe take pictures and stuff. I just done know where..dont say go out to eat or the movies!! THANKYOU

Bowling, a club, ice skating, skiing, a hotel and stay the night, lazer tag, mini gulf (if its warm), i hope i gave you some ideas..good luck hun happy upcoming birthday!

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I ususally hate these kinds of questions, but this has been bugging the crud out of me lately! Does anyone remember a music video in ...the 90's maybe...or early 2000-2001 where it was a summer house party and there were a lot of people (older teenagers there) and they were by a pool. The main band member was going after this girl through the house that party was taking place. I remember it was a band like, blink 182 or good charlotte ...i'm not sure if it was one of them. The lead singer was blonde if that helps?
thanks!

Definetly sounds like "In the Middle" by Jimmy Eats World. I remember they were all by a pool and everyone was in like bras and underwear and stuff but these 2 people because they were nervous and it was at this house party..i dont know i hope i helped hun lol.

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I have a strange problem.
My boobs got smaller.
My bras don't fit anymore, but my old bras do.
I went down about a cup size.
How is this possible???

You must of lost weight or got skinnier in that part of your body.

Ex: lindsey lohan used to have huge boobs then she lost weight and now shes like nothing

I hope i helped hun

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I was wondering if any of you know of a cute cordless phone for a teenage girl. I broke my sister's and was planning on getting her a new one for her birthday. Thanks in Advance!

For a cell phone the Pink Razor is SOOOOOOO EFFIN CUTE but if you dont wanna spend alot if have a cingular LG and i think its cute. I love cingular i always get service..but if you want like a house phone go to best buy they have alot of cute ones..or sometimes even walmart. I hope i helped hun

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I've decided to take up indoor tanning. I'm gonna start a membership at Hollywood tans this month. I was wondering, how many times should I go a week, and for how long (10 minutes, 15 minutes)? I want to build up a DARK tan. As dark as i can get. If it helps, I'm using HT60 tanning bed. Thanks alot! : )

id go 3-4 times a week for the full 15 min. if you wanna keep your tan at the same darkness after you get dark then 1 to 2 times a week..but for the start 3-4. Make sure you buy tanning lotion that helps alot. I hope i helped hun

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it seems to be that either if i wear a bra or don't wear a bra that my boobs always look...well...pointy! it looks really weird and i don't think they are supposed to look like that...ummm...can anyone tell me why this would be?
uh thanks =D

14/f

your wearing the wrong bra..you need one with a little bit of padding. NOT ALOT THO...dont make the padding like make your boobs you know..and then you need to try them on before you buy them so you know how they look. Victoria secrets has really good bras. I hope i helped you hun.

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Where is a good place to get really colorful eyeshadow

Carsons has almost every color alive..Targer, Walmart..if you go to any store thats like those to then itl have it but carsons or a store like carsons (not every state has it) THEY HAVE TONS of make up and eye shadows. Hope i helped hun

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If my moms family is german and irish and my dad is from egypt?

Well yea youd be considered white.

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21/f. 120 lb and 5'4. how much vodka would it take to get a person my size drunk?

Buzzed-3
drunk-5
really drunk 7


im just estimating..i hope i helped

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hi, well my 15th birthday is on the 11th october, and i was wandering what i can do. im a guy and im just going to invite a few friends. i was thinking food and music, and just chilling out, but that is kind of boring. can you help, thanks.

aww my birthdays on the 10th!! ill be 16 though but neways point is I think you and a group of friends should go out..like...to hooters or something. Do something FUN!! go ou t then maybe go bakc to your house n chill because you know youd guys have talked during dinner or something and it wil be less awkward. Or go to the movies. Hope i helped.. Happy Early Birthday hun!

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im 14 and me and my friends are going out this year for halloween. i dont know what to be!! nothing like a witch or crap like that because thats little kid stuff.. i dressed up as a gothic person last year.. so i need cool ideas. im female so you know and im a prep if that helps and i like the color pink but and i might be a devil not sure so tell me your opinion for a devils costume am i too old? and give me new sugestions of costumes of your own. thank youuu.

Here are some ideas

Angel
Go-Go Girl (just crazy wig and make up)
An Animal (bunny,cat,etc)
a pimpette
fairy
ballerina
barbie..(malibu, disco, etc)
juliet
a spice girl

Hope i helped

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Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean!

On laguna beach it means the made out. but it just depends ont he area. like hear it means they did more thne that usually but it usually changes.

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I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.

Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so?

THE CLIQUE! omg those books are so good. It's like mean girls. I'm addicted to those books. but if you dont like those i think The Giver is amazing. there's another one but i forgot the nam..but that should start you out hope i helped!

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im 13/f
and everyday i would wear flip flops and i noticed tan lines on my feet
how do i get rid of it?

lol that sucks..there is two ways but...they're both weird..so ..

if you want the fast way-spray tan..JUST the white part

if you want the long but looks better way-tanning bed

if you want the cover up way-shoes not flip flops

Hope i helped!

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ok im 13/f
this one guy in my school is cute
i keep flirtin wit him but i dont think he knows it
i make him laugh and he makes me laugh
ugh i luv the way he smiles
ok u get

how do i know he likes me without askin him cuz it would just be akward...
just tell me how i would know he likes me

you should ask one of his friends..or maybe you should be the one to like hit on him you know? make him know YOU like HIM. He probably likes you if hes all touchy and stuff he also probably likes you if hes in a room with a lot of people including his friends and he talks to you. Some guys can be really quiet..you know they're kinda put in the possition your in now...you dont want to look stupid by telling him you liking him and hearing the worst..well he doesn't wanna look stupid by liking you and hearing the worst. I think if you really like this guy you need to take control before he doesn't think you like him. Hope I helped.

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ok well i feal like such a bad person. Like im aalways hurting. Because my boyfriend went to the army and i feel bad cuz i talk to guys but not flirt and i feel like thats wrong. And i drank a couple of times n i feel bad for doing that. i feel like im such a bad person and i jsut want to die. i dont know what to do HELP!

First off i think its really brave of you for staying with this guy after he went to go to the army. You should feel really proud of that. Just because you talk to guys doesn't mean your cheating...im sure he understands and just because you drink doesn't mean anything either..you not a bad person how about you give him a call and talk to him about it?hope i helped

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