My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
Visitors: 16678
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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16 (link)
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damn girl...it's better then actually being with a person and doing those things. It can't hurt.
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How do I meet my favorite celebrity? (link)
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I don't know...I really don't. Go to a concert if they're a singer and pray that they sign autographs at the end...or go to a movie premiere if you can...
I just recently met one of my all time singers...Gavin Degraw (sings the theme song to one tree hill) and dude it was so surreal...I really hope you get to meet your favorite celebrity...good luck with that...=)
Gessyka
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hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.
but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.
i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.
please help. (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you. I know how you feel. I mean, I've scratched my arm up a few times too. As much as I hate to admit it, and ever so often I do in fact go back to it. =/
I know what you're saying though. I know the feeling of wanting to be alone...yet hating being isolated inside all the time with nothing but your music. It feels like there's no company and there's never going to be for all eternity, but that's not true.
I;m so glad that you are happy now...no matter how happy you are, lonliness or sadness will always follow. But it doesn't mean it will defeat you, the point is that everyone has all kinda of different emotions that are impossible to escape...but there are ways to steer them in the irght direction and make for better times and be able to make the best out of situations...
I don't know what else to say...but there is nothing wrong with you.
Just tyr as hard as you can tobe confident adn don't push people away. As much as people are annoying when all you want to do is lay inm yhuor room alone, you come to realize that they help you...even if they don't realize they are helping you.
~GL~
=) Gessyka_-*
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How can I bring my self-esteem up? I'm really loathing myself and not liking it :(. (link)
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Make a list of the things you "dont like" about yourself and try to fix them...try to be happier and look at things in a different but better perspective...
I was watching this show once with a motivational speaker...and the guy was talking about how he's had majorly bad days...and the next day that would keep him from waking up right away and enjoying the day ...but then he realized that moping want the answer so he got out of bed, looked in the mirror, and started saying all these encouraging words to himself...
Now, I know that sounds cheezy, and that nobody really does it...but I actually got up in the morning the next day and after I washed my face and brushed my teeth and everything, I stared in the mirror and said all the good things that I believed that I am not...
Like I would say things like: I am going to present my essay in class without choking, I am going to be more outgoing today, I am beautiful, I am going to smile at the kid I like today with confidence, I'm going to smile at my enemies, I'm good to my friends, I'm a good writer...and so on...
I would just say all the things I thought I am not...which wasn't all true, because as soon as I kept saying those things in the morning I truly realize dlal along that I really WAS some of those things, but I just didn't realize it until after. Afterwards, I did think I was good to my friends, and a good writer, and I had more confidence which led me to look more beautiful...
I know that sounds totally conceited but I obviously don't mean it like that. All I mean is if you keep bringing yourself down, you'll become uncomfortable with yourself which will lead you to be distraught throughout the day, and if your deistraught throughout a few days chances are you're going to naturally be distraight out of habit...so you really need to change your way of thinking before you totally cant stand yourself...you get what I mean?
You CAN stand there moping but t seriously won't help...and the motivational speaker was totally right when he said that if you get up and say those things to yourself while looking in the mirror everyday, that you'll actually feel likek words floating through your ears as you hear yourself speak them out loud, and throughout the day you remember them adn feel them trickle into your stomach and soul...
And I seriously got a warm feeling in the middle of the day within a few of the days that I did it... because I actually remembered MYSELF bringing myself up, rather than only other people.
Now, obviously talking to yourself in a mirror adn saying all these confident things won't work unles syou really TRY to make it work...and even then it doesn't all happen overnight...but it helps you get through that day and feel a little better...
Me, I get so much confidence when I do it...I mean I have a SUPER low self-esteem...and one time I was so depressed I couldnt even eat because it hurt me so much...*shrugs* I didn't know why until afterwards I would look back on my day and realize how mean of things I said about myself...
Think of it this way: Think of yourself as someone other than you...and realize how it's so much better sometimes to like other people more than yourself...so just think of yourself as a nother person who needs love from you, and just work from there and see what happens...
I really hope I helped...
Good Luck.
~Gessyka_-*
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Has anybody ever met a famous person...and if so, who?
Just wondering (hehe) (link)
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I MET GAVIN DEGRAW! =)
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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nooo dont try it..
Seriously..that's just the beginning..you really never know what could happen..I know everyone says it's "fun" but please dont..I know a lot of people who've tried it just once an regretted it ever since...
Why would you want to try it? People who smoke pot don't know what they're talking about..once you smoke pot you're labeled a pot-head from then on...you don't want a bad reputation..
Why would you want the feeling of not having control over yourself?..if you get high you wont know whats going on...and you wont have complete control over the situations you are faced with...thta could be really dangerous..
I know I sound like a parent...and I know you feel like you just want to live a little...but trust me..thats the LEAST way to make you live a little...find some other way, but drugs arent the way to go..no matter what kind.
Please don't do it..
No matter what people say...
I mean, there are always going to be people who persuade you to try pot..but, please dont give into it..you'll be just like the other 98% of teens..and not only that but you'll hurt yourself..there are sooo many consequences involved...don't do it..
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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything (link)
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A male and female give eachother oral sex at the same exact time...blah
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wat is insomania?
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a sleeping disorder...lack of sleep.
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Hey It's Here To Help a.k.a. Gessyka
YOU'RE SO MEAN Advice1300. I'm going to find a way to kick you off advicenators. You tell people to kill themselves and use profanity towards them?? What is that? You obviously are depsperate...you probably have nobody. Listen if you have anger TALK TO US ABOUT IT! Don't call anyone names.
*stifles laugh* you're sooo....ugh!
Get a life you little baby. People deserve better advice then from someone like you.
Who agrees???
Don't ask Advice 1300 a question...she may pop another blood vessel trying to think of another 'great' insult to your question. (link)
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*gulp* Okay I'm sorry.I just got a little steamed. It's not like I don't like her...but she's just so mean...I'm not a mean person, but I was in a bad mood that day, so I apologize okay? Sorry....but I just felt bad for the people who asked her questions....
EVERYONE IGNORE HER IF SHE SAYS SOMETHING MEAN! That's what I should start doing.
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Hey I have a question it seems no matter where I go I hear a song by Hilary Duff and I see her on Tv. Naturally I have nothing against her or for her. Now What is so great and what isn't? Don't tell me she is a good role model because a good role model would encourage a person to be comfortable with themselves and she isn't example: height. Think about your future example Bys a 400 dollar vintage shirt for a "BOYFRIEND" so just comments would be great.
Cspinoza1 (link)
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Personally, I think she sucks. My cousins next door neighbor met her and I think you said you met her too...but my cousin said that the next door neighbor said she was a total jerk! I can understand that she was probably nice at one point...but I'm assuming she SLOWLY became meaner. The fame can do that to you...
She's an OKAY actress SOMETIMES and ONLY SOMETIMES...but she's terrible at singing. I bet she is a jerk and it's not like I hate her...but I'm just furious at the fact that she's famous for her 'singing' when SO MANY OTHER people out there have so much more talent and who deserve to be in the spotlight.
I'm betting Disney just wanted to make money off of her because of her 'cute' face. ERG! I'm so furious about this.
I'm sorry...I shouldn't of even answered this question...I just wanted to VENT!!!
ARRRGHHHHHHHH!
*smiles* Okay I'm better now...*sigh*
*-_GeSsYkA_-*
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But the people they don't understand
No, girlfriends, they can't understand
Your grandsons, they won't understand
On top of this I ain't ever gonna understand
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Hey....wait a second...I DON'T UNDERSTAND!
*runs away and cries*
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yes or no? (link)
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...Maybe...
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pick a number 1-100 make it a good one or i lose (link)
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...77...
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I think my big toe is interesting. I know that's weird, but I can't help staring at it. What should I do?! (link)
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Take a bubble bath and put it under the bubbles...that way you can CLEAN it and HIDE it all at the same time! YAY...you will never have to look at it again!...Until you take it out. da Da DA! *eerie music*
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i want to write a poem, im not sure what to write about and im not good at making them up lol i will send anyone my poems if they wanna read them. i have one called love lost. that one was acctually good lol. anyways, i need a poetry partner or someone that can help me write a poem 4 my (hopefully) boyfriend. (link)
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I LOVE writing poetry. I entered a poetry contest and my poem was good enough to be published in a book called "Patterns of Life." My poem was called "Always with me".
In school I just yesterday entered a poetry contest for the peopl ein my school and the winner gets their poem published in a book. One of the people who chooses whose poems go into the book (who was my English teacher last year) came up to me and said my poem was beautiful. (so I think maybe hopefully I have a great chance at winning).
To write great poetry with descriptions and details in it, it helps to have a good vocabulary. I write poems that rhyme sometimes, and other times I write free verse (which means you don't rhyme and you just write what you feel).
If I were you I wouldn't send your poems onto this site. There are a lot of people who will see this and I know you want advice but someone may see it, like it, and steal the idea. But then again I'm a caution freak like that. I would only tell people who you trust on advicenators.
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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I like to eat the crumbs, and small ones first, even if I have to dig deep in the bag. Sometimes, I dump them out to get to the small ones. People think I'm weird. Am I? (link)
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I wish we could live in a world where people aren't judged by how they eat their chips...but...that's just me.
No...you not weird -- me weird.
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Did you see where my sanity went? I need to catch it and sacrivice it to the Gods of Randomness. (link)
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It's...stuck in your chocolate milk...
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oops i did it again
i got tangled up
in the computer cord
oh no, oh no
oops i think that im stuck
and im getting bored
ya
im not that innocent
yoyoyoyoyo. yoyoyoyoyoyo.
oh, that isnt the cordstuck to me is it?
yes, its all tangled up just to annoy me!
awww... that sucks.
i'm still just sitting down here
got nothin to do
got nowhere to go
oh baby baby
oops i got tangled up
lost in the
computer game
and now im stuck here... (link)
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I'm sorry abotu the terrible dilemma. *hug*
~Here To Help
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Can someone give me some names for a girl and a boy, please? I love writing stories, but I don't know any good names! PLEASE help! (link)
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Well...my favorite name for a girl is Peyton. When I have kids when I'm older, and if I have a girl -- Peyton.
(pay-ton) lol some people pronounce it (Pee-ton) lol. NO.
If and when I have a boy I'm going to name him either Landon or Skylar.
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Does anyone else ever get an itchy spot on their hand that, even when you scratch, doesn't go away?
HOW CAN I MAKE THE ITCHING STOP!?! Its brutal. (link)
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Maybe it's a rash...like poison ivy, poison sumac, poison oak.
Or maybe it's exema.
But I know what you are talking about...there's probably no rash, it's probably just a radiation itch. That's one of those itches you feel deep down in your skin and it's SO SO SO annoying. I know, I get those all the time. Sometimes I get thoe on the palm of my hand and the back of my neck and it's so irritating.
If there's no rash mark, then that's probably what you have, If it hasn't gone away by now put some lotion on and see if it feels better. Or wask your hands with soap and warn water. I don't know if this will work for a radiation itch...but it's worth a try.
If you see bumps or a rash you should go to your doctor because it could be exema or one of the poison plants.
It could also be because you're allergic to something you have bveen eating lately. So, if it gets worse, start keeping track of what you have been eating.
Go to your doctor if it doesn't clear up...because it could get worse but my bet is that it's just a radiation itch.
Keep an eye on it! :/
~GL~ :p
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