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I understand all the pain you go through. I see the tears I see the pain I see it all, don't hide behind a fake smile because it'll get stuck.
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I know this is a weird question, but I'm going to try.

How do you tell the difference between just acting like another gender and actually wanting to BE another gender? I'm a bit confused with my gender myself and am hoping to know how to tell the difference.

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Well, that depends on your sexuality. If you're a girl and acting and looking like a dude rather than being and acting like a complete opposite gender is confusing but I think you'll figure it out on your own. I'm guessing your a girl, so if you feel like a girl stuck in a boy's body or if you're a boy and you think your stuck in a girl's body.


I know i'm not crazy & I don't want people to think I'm crazy. I hear voices talking to me & I feel like there's an evil spirit around me. I hear loud evil noises & when I was 10 years old, an evil spirit even said my name. It scared me but I didn't tell anyone cause I know they wouldn't believe me.

The doctors don't believe me, my parents don't believe me, they think that this is all in my head & that I just have some mental disorder. I even see evil spirits around my house moving around on the walls.

When I was at my grandma's house I heard something evil whispering to me & I go scared and shook for days

I can't sleep either, sometimes I have sleep paralysis. I'll be awake in my room & freeze up, then start hearing voices. I can't talk or move either. I hear voices all day.

I don't understand why nobody believes me or thinks that evil spirits are real. The doctors I went to told me I have psychosis. They just want to tell me it's all made up & I'm being delusional. These voices & spirits scare me. They are always around me & I hear them. These are demons trying to get me!

I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. No one will listen to me or believe me. I believe these voices are REAL

How do I get rid of evil?? (link)
Well,you can't get rid of it by just telling it to. When doctors and your family think your nuts about seeing spirits and hearing paranormal noises than I would suggest you have a "entity" in your house hold; or other words your grandmother's house. Rethink to why their in your house and try to figure out what it wants. It may not be evil. It may a be a spirit that hasn't left the house yet. A spirit that hadn't simpl moved on from their past life.


so ive just been in the hosptal for my secent time im 20 f and they never did any tests and i kicked a neuce in her stumic cuz she tryed to give me a needle and they restraned me and then they brang me down stares and asked me if you think if anything is wrong with you i said i think im bypoler but they never did any test and they trying to make me take pills (link)
If your bi-polar than chances are pills do work for that. If you were in the hospital and they had to restrain you from moving and tried to sedate you than probably their doing what's best for you. Pills aren't the best thing for people sometime therapy is.


I used to smoked weed for like half a year yet i do not think it was that much. I have depersonaliosation/derealization, i also at times get anxiety attacks and depression led to it as well. My sleeping schedule is off, i think i'm going crazy. My mother and my sister were in the kitchen while i was in the bathroom and i thought i heard my sis crying loud and i went to them and tapped her and she looked at me...she was fine and i was like "whaaa" ...anyhow, i sometimes understand things in a different way. I also feel useless to this world (have no job) im 17....i also think i see one thing but is not...they aren't serious at all i think. I feel like i often push people away, like a mean side comes out of me but i mean no harm :/ or am i meant to be an asshole? (link)
Well for starters your not alone. I never did weed but I do to push people away. Because of weed you may have after affects from when you were doing it drugs can make your moods and emotions towards others change and your actions are different but you're fine. Its probably just side affects from the drugs.


i think im bipolar.. ive read alot about it online and in books because ive had people ask me if i was.. what do i do? Do i just have to live with it? My emotions do change rapidly all the time .. (link)
IF your bipolar than your moods and emotions do change. Are you suicidal? or cut yourself over some difficult problems? inbox me anytime! Well my email is sabrynalstatt@gmail.com email me when ya need me! I can help !!!!


I crave for a true purpose in life. I would like to help people and do something that really matters. But I feel like I'm so incapable of reaching my goals... or maybe I don't have any definite goals anymore. I always have this fear. I know it's very unnecessary and I don't need it. But it's always here in me. I want to say something, to speak my heart or just to simply be wherever I am. I think I've lost my voice and I can't simply say what's in my heart. I always run away. That's why I don't have a stable job, never been with a relationship and I don't want to be this way anymore. Maybe I know what to do but I feel like it's so hard to start and I don't have the strength anymore. I need help. Please I beg for help. (link)
It is hard to let go of fears. Everyone has looks for a true purpose in their life. Everyone is capable of exceeding towards their goals if you believe in yourself you can do anything. If you don't think you can speak the words you truly feel...you can write them and express them to others. I do that; like when I can't express the words I feel I write them down and let others read them. There are lots of other ways to speak your mind without verbal usage. Life's purpose isn't to run away from problems, but rather to face them and overcome them. Best of Luck!


i feel so depressed i don't know whats wrong with me, i don't smile the way i used to i feel empty. I'm so stressed at the moment i hardly sleep, i literally want to cry everyday but im so strong at holding it in me, a part of me misses my old old life , the person i used to be. I hate who i am now I hate feeling this way, i keep lying to myself thinking everything is perfect when i know inside its not, i don't even feel attractive anymore, i feel ugly, i just want to get away from everyone else i've had enough... (link)
I understand exactly what you are going through. Depression isn't easy by any means but there are other ways to treat depression. When you feel ugly you can say to yourself I am beautiful and I know it. The stress...can be relieved if you take warm baths. IF you ever need anyone to talk to about your depression I'm here for you okay. I have a question though...are you being bullied at all? If so I have a lot of answers and suggestions that could really help you.




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