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How can I let go of my fears?
I crave for a true purpose in life. I would like to help people and do something that really matters. But I feel like I'm so incapable of reaching my goals... or maybe I don't have any definite goals anymore. I always have this fear. I know it's very unnecessary and I don't need it. But it's always here in me. I want to say something, to speak my heart or just to simply be wherever I am. I think I've lost my voice and I can't simply say what's in my heart. I always run away. That's why I don't have a stable job, never been with a relationship and I don't want to be this way anymore. Maybe I know what to do but I feel like it's so hard to start and I don't have the strength anymore. I need help. Please I beg for help.
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It is hard to let go of fears. Everyone has looks for a true purpose in their life. Everyone is capable of exceeding towards their goals if you believe in yourself you can do anything. If you don't think you can speak the words you truly feel...you can write them and express them to others. I do that; like when I can't express the words I feel I write them down and let others read them. There are lots of other ways to speak your mind without verbal usage. Life's purpose isn't to run away from problems, but rather to face them and overcome them. Best of Luck!
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It's hard to let go of fears but it's a necessary thing to do in life if you want to keep going.
This is something working inside of you, so the way to let go of your fears is to push past it and go outside of your comfort zone.
Everybody is afraid of something but a lot of people either move past it and do great things or they sit around wishing they had.
So if you want something, go for it. My dad just gave me some advice on trying to figure out what I want to do for a career. I told him I wasn't sure if I'd be good at it or if I'd even be able to handle it or do it.
He told me that if people sat around thinking, "I don't know if I can do it" Then nothing would get done. Nobody ever knows if they can until they actually do it. And if you really want it, then you can do it. It'll be hard at first but eventually it'll get easier.
He used his example, he came from India to America. He said there are tons of people in India who were wishing they could leave but my dad said he wanted to go so he did it. It was hard because he had no support or money but he wanted it, so he did it. He said he still knows people who are still there wishing they had but let their fear get to them.
Anyways, you need to get out of your comfort zone and start enjoying your life. You can't let this hold you back.
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you do have a definite goal. it is to help people and do something that really matters. putting in better words you want to do social work and also bring your self up to such a position in your career and also your love life that you yourself are satisfied with yourself and also those who are connected to you.
to start , identify your plus points talents and strengths. engage in co curricular activities which you are good at. it will give a boost to your self respect.also try some social work which you feel good to do. once you are through with this , go for a makeover of yourself to ensure you are confident with your looks and the way your present yourself. that way you will be able to confidently start your love life.lastly when you have gained enough confidence in yourself...focus on your career building.
however before you make a start, make sure you do not blame yourself as a nerd who is useless ( many of them do it especially since they do not have a job). tell yourself that your past is over and you are going to change. do not start without throwing away all regrets and do not let them haunt your self confidence while you are on the way of self development.i hope you got my point.
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