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bf problems ughh
I have been in a relationship for about a month. I feel like i'm all alone. I really don't have any close friends because with daily life's don't hardly ever see them.So,being depressed is not cutting it. I live about 40 mins from him and we talk all the time and a few weeks ago. He didn't text me for two days and Now, It happens AGAIN! This week two more days again. He has been off work and had no plans and I keep getting these short texts back when I reply with a long message. Never a long message from him. He still refers me as babe. not baby like I do. I say I love you and he says "love you too." I'm always the first person to say it. I don't wanna assume he is cheating. It have been acting like everything is alright. I really don't wanna be hurt right now. Can anyone help or give some advice to this situation? I don't wanna come out and say " Are you cheating". He said he wouldn't ever cheat on me. Even if i'm busy I make time to text him even if it's a short message. He doesn't make to effort to do that.
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Well you don't want to jump to the worst conclusions. It's better than thinking the worst and then ruining the relationship.
There could be tons of reasons why he's not texting you as much. Maybe there is something he's not telling you, like things bothering him where he's living or anything really.
My boyfriend does the same thing with texting. He just hates texting and sometimes it can be a little irritating when I want to talk to him and we don't get to see each other.
He used to text me a lot in the beginning of the relationship but since it's not the beginning anymore and we know each other well, he just doesn't feel the need to text me as often as we used to.
So my advice?
Talk to him, tell him you just need a moment of him time. Then once you get a chance to talk to him. Express how you're feeling. Don't accuse him or cheating and don't start pointing out everything he is doing wrong. Just tell him that you're wondering if anything is wrong because he doesn't talk to you as often as he used to. Just tell him that you'd want him to send you a long message every once in awhile.
So see what he says and go from there. Also, start making time for yourself. Start doing other things so that you're world doesn't revolve around him.
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well, for you to understand if he is cheating on you or not...just compare your old days with him with the present. if he was so straight forward with short replies that also after long durations from the beginning itself...and if he calls u babe from the first time ...then there is less to think about because it is his personality to do so.
but if this is a recent development that you notice in him, ask yourself the following: 1. does he really really love you and do u feel confident about the fact that he does?let aside the recent problems but as a whole what do you feel about his commitments?
if the answer is Negative then you probably got your answer.
if your answer is positive then probably you should talk to him. just tell him that you feel sad when he doesnot say baby to you . say that you want him to talk to you more frequently even if he is busy.ask him to be more close and romantic with you and send long texts. also explain to him that it is because you are lonely that you completely depend upon his company to cheer up.if he truly loves you he will understand. at the same time keep in your mind that he might be busy at times and his way of loving you may not be known to you. however you also have to adjust according to his comforts. so maybe ask him what he likes to be referred to as as well!!
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